ok....we've been dating for over 5 months now and ever since we started dating sh'e's always done this one thing that always got me to think a little. I'd say something funny to tease her n she'll sometimes literally get up n say in a sarcastic voice "fine, if u dont like me ill leave"..n sometimes she really attempts too lol...but i think shes just playing cuz SHE KNOWS ill always be there to pull her back and not let her leave....is this just a lil game of hers? should i really let her get up n not pull her back n see how she reacts?...even on the pohne sometimes shed be like "u know what, i dont wanna talk to u" and hang up...but she always calls bak in like 5 min cuz i wouldnt lol.....its funny cause i know if i did something like that to her even as a joke, id prolly never hear the end of it....but i wouldnt even try, i love her too much..i dont wanna get up and walk away from her, I wanna BE WITH HER......is it just the way she is and means nothing?
2007-01-07 18:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me like your girlfriend needs to leave the childish games for middle school and grow up before she loses out on a good thing. She cares for you shes just acting in childish ways and i dont understand why. Ask her up front why she does it. Woman like to know that men are paying attention to their actions. Shell be a little throwed off by the question a little bit seeing is that she is still in that childish frame of mind but i bet you all the foolishness will stop.
2007-01-07 18:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a girl and i can tell you exactly what shes doing. She likes you alot but shes scared that you dont like her as much as she likes you... so she is "testing" you. When she gets up and leaves shes actually just wants to see if you come and get her. She seems really sensitive... like you need to tiptoe around her because you dont want to tick her off. This is a hard relationship to have and for putting up with it for so long you must be some kinda guy. I can also see you really love her so maybe you should tell her that more and tell her that your just joking around and say exactly what you just told me, that you want to be with her. Speaking as a girl who plays this game with a guy, if you had a heart to heart with me about our relationships it would only make it stronger. If she has a problem with you bringing it up then i think, no matter how much you love her, playing this game will hurt you later on. Love hurts..... i was in this exact situation with my boyfriends so talk to her and maybe saying you love her more will keep her from questioning you and your devotion for her..
Best of luck -Melissa<3
2007-01-08 03:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt really look like this bothers u too much. If it does.though..talk to her about it n tell her u feel a little insecure when she does that..n that u really wanna be with her..so there's no question of letting her go. It looks like she's a little insecure here herself. She's looking for appreciation from you..and maybe some kind of confirmation that u want her. so give that to her..make her feel wanted..tell her how much u like being with her. im sure she'll be fine in a while :)
2007-01-08 02:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... honestly i do that to my boyfriend of 3 years still. it's a way for some girls to be flirty since it's been a while and also getting attention. if it really bothers you when she does this, just tell her not yelling might i add, that you love her but it bothers you when you do this. it's a good thing you added that if you did something like that to her she wouldn't take it as a joke do the reverse thing. tell her well since you do not like it when i do it, i dont' like it when you do it. it's a compromise, even these things.
2007-01-08 02:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by hchoi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people play games, if you two are okay with it, there is no problem, but if you would rather not have all of that, ask her if she is insecure and afraid you will leave...Most of the problems are for the lack of communications...
2007-01-08 02:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's fun to have a bit arguement but not serious between lovers,yes teasing around is okay,u w'd enjoy it at the end of the day.here i think she loves u,so u should be careful to handle n always take good care of her.
best wishes.
2007-01-08 02:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a game yes,.... she wants to be pulled back, when she gets mad at you and hangs up she wants you to call her back. i dont know why some girls do it... maybe to make sure you really do want them or something... but that doesnt mean she doesnt like you. really she is just testing you to see if you are willing to get up and pull her back or call her back when she is mad at you
2007-01-08 02:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by danuh_bananuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she may be in love with u. but at the same time playing with u.tell her frankly whether u love me or not?ask her to prove her love to u thru a kiss.then everything will be alright.she may be little impatient .tell her t meditate.
2007-01-08 02:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by CuteOne 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants you to make her feel appreciated and wanted. She just needs confirmation that you want her.
2007-01-08 02:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Meganlee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋