My girlfriend and I jsut got together and were both doing this for the first time?
Were both sophomores and this is the first time either one of us has been with anyone. I was talking to her on the phone and then our relationship came up. She said that she didn't really now what she was doing and was kinda getting pressure from her parents that she shouldn't be in a relationship. Then she said that she dind't think we should be in a relationship yet. I'm really confused about what is going on and I told her that I would be here when she was ready. I can't figure out what she is feeling right now. Is she getting cold feet or is she jsut trying to figure things out? I really like her and I don't know waht to do. She said that it made her really happy when I called her but I don't know if she was jsut being nice or not. This whole thing is really confusing for me.
2007-01-07 18:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by blackbelt20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Parents shouldn't pressure kids out of or into relationships when there is nothing negative to them. Just give her time. Keep being nice to her and calling her. Get her flowers, girls love flowers. Win her over. =]
2007-01-07 18:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meganlee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you've both got hormones raging, and feelings you've never felt before. Big deal! If you can't figure this out, or what's going on here, then are you sure you're both even mature enough yet, to handle a relationship, to begin with?
2007-01-08 02:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to be in a relationship with her then you should respect all of her decisions and give her time to think about it (and vice versa), and when you do feel weird about something then you should really talk to her about it, you dont really have to do anything, really all a relationship is is just getting to know one another better and on a different level, you can hold hands and kiss but it isn't a requirement which most people think it is.
2007-01-08 02:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Silvertones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really sweet guy. im 16 as well and i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we really are in love..im not just saying that.
anywho...
i think you guys should follow your hearts. and i dont think that she should listed to her parents if she really does like you. her parents will eventually understand.
i hope everything works out for you guys....
2007-01-08 02:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are a bit confusing. stop talking to her and look at her reaction. if she is not serious just ignore her. its better to cut such a weak relationship before it gets stronger and costs waste of your precious time and life. good luck.
2007-01-08 02:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by keerthana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and keep talking to her, there is not need to rush things, just enjoy talking and see where it goes....
2007-01-08 02:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her parents are worried and they should be.
2007-01-08 02:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Valerena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋