I am dreading because I am 27 but has not found the right match for me. I self evaluate myself and I feel that I have all the qualities that any man will want in a woman, yet I cannot find the right one.
Is 27 too old? Should I settle for less?
Pls Advise.
2007-01-07 18:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Miss Yahoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . 27 is not THAT old. You should be dating seriously now, but you shouldn't just marry the first guy to come along. As long as you aren't TOO picky, I think all you need to do is to date more. Try picking up some activities outside of the house.
You didn't say anything about the way you look, or your height, or how much money you make. If you make too much money, or you're too tall, you will drive lots of guys away with those qualities. I think you should have a look at this site: http://www.nicegirls.org/ It might help you get to the bottom of your problems and help you get things sorted out. Good luck!
2007-01-07 18:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you met your true love at age 35, but can't pursue it because you're already married and started a family with someone you "settled" for at 27? What if YOU were the one that was "settled" for, how would that make you feel?
I'd rather spend half my life with someone I deeply love and who loves me back just as much, than my entire life with someone who is just there as a placeholder.
Don't lower your standards, you increase the chance of getting someone of low quality. A pretty, educated and sweet person like you is not an easy woman to win over, it takes an exceptional man with the right qualities to earn the right to be with you. Such a man is rare but they are out there, and eventually you might be in the right place and the right time. In the meantime just have a little faith in yourself, stay healthy and in shape and enjoy life a little as a bachelorette. =)
2007-01-08 02:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by pancakes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i'm 27 also and have not found the right man. I have been dating someone but it's too early to tell yet if he is truly "the one". Don't settle, I made that mistake in my previous relationship and almost ended up marrying a man who was totally wrong for me. I think it's better to be alone for a little while and find someone that will truly make you happy than to just settle for anything and be miserable for the rest of your life. Good Luck!
2007-01-08 02:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by eggshell134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, people change quite a bit from the age of 25 to 30. Although it seems like a long time, you're actually in a better position now than you were 3 or 4 years ago. Chances are when you find someone around your age now, they're going to be closer to the settling down phase of their 20s.
Just when you think you're getting old and know everything important that there is to life, you will begin to see how much more you really had to learn. At 28, I'm beginning to understand that for myself!
2007-01-08 02:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No 27 is not too late..however, it is high time you start your search...if the right man does not come to you, you go to him...
dont settle for less - but at the same time, do not have very high expectations either - every man has some or the other negative quality...
2007-01-08 02:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shubho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never settle. I'm 25, nearly 26, and while I haven't found the right woman yet, I know she's out there. It's never too late to find the man of your dreams, you just have to look in the right place.
2007-01-08 02:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jack S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I dont think 27 is too late. I think maybe it's because your picky and you miss out on the great nice guys... Some times, you should give the nice guy a chance. Even if you have the good qualities, maybe he's too shallow to even notice it...
Well hope the best for you..
2007-01-08 02:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I didn't get married until I was 30! Never settle for less that you deserve. You are still very young. Just have fun and don't worry about it. You will never find the "right man" if you are looking for him. They tend to sneak up on you when you least expect it (I say that from experience).
2007-01-08 02:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't worry so much right now about finding the right man. You should just keep living your life & doing your thing. The right man will come into your life when you least expect it. Usually, when you expect things at the wrong time, nothing happens & it just makes you stressed out & wonder if something is wrong. So, keep yourself busy & don't think about it. Your not old. Your life is just beginning, sit back, relax & just enjoy your life while it's living. The right man will come when the time is right. Rushing into things will only get you in trouble.
2007-01-08 02:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
27 is far too young to even think about spending your life having settled for less! So is 57!
2007-01-08 02:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋