Singles & Dating - 7 January 2007

ok so i used to be firends with this one guy who i also used to like...the thing is i think he found out i liked him and all of the sudden he started turning cold and we talked less and he started ignoring me...and that really hurt me so i started ignoring me...and half of me enjoys ignoring him bc of how much he hurt me ...but still i cannot deny i still like him but i dont know what to do...i dont want to talk to him but should i move on or ??????
(im not young) serious answers is appriicted more and would really help!

2007-01-07 14:20:32 · 5 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1

Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home. Isn't it odd that after one year, he didn't wanna even have coffee after the movie? On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. BUT, we only dated for one month, so why after one year, after HE dumped me, why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. Did he really miss and that's why he wanted to see me or could it be bad intentions? So what does he REALLY want and should I be worried?

2007-01-07 14:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1

I dont no what to do im 12 my last bf was a jerk or mabey not in the beginning but in the end we went out for 5 mounths I liked him at first but he became a jerk it felt like he was presuring me to do things expechally on dates it was like if i couldent or dident really want to he would get all up tight. The only dates he took me too was his violen lesson and a classical consert and the art musem god i achally want a guy who can achally take me on GOOD dates im mad at myself, for letting it go on for so long. He broke up with me though i was home sick too, and he new it!) anyways he also wanted me to kiss him really bad i wouldent though im glad too ! But when he broke up with me i wasent sad at first i was a littel happy, but after an hour or 2 i was sad. I hate seeing him a school and i dont like to do P.E. invrote of him why ? Anyways i wish i could change back time because of it, he also when for another girl and he aparently i was bugging him becuse i wouldnt kiss him what a jerk!

2007-01-07 14:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by Teggybug 1

I've noticed that a lot of Asian females have relationships with guys who are not so "hot" or "cool" but guys with personalities. I don't find myself hot or cool but I do have personaltiy, which I am very proud of. But I think Asians are much more easy to date. In my opinion

2007-01-07 14:18:16 · 14 answers · asked by Austrian Theorist 4

my boyfriend and i had broke up, and 2 nights after we broke up i had a "rebound relationship" with a close friend. we had sex, and we both agreed not to tell anyone. but one of his friends that was there at the time it happened told someone. and they told my boyfriend. we got back together, but now we're taking a break, but i know for fact that we're getting back together. he asked me about it and i told him it didn't happen, should i tell him it did?

2007-01-07 14:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1

My bf, says that he cant get an orgasm bc it takes guys longer, that they have to stroke it. I'm 17 and he is 18...we have never had sex" does that have to do anything with it? He says he gets real hard and that hes starts a pre-, but he also told me once that he wasnt ready (i told him i wasnt ready and he told me that hes wasnt either) does he not want me...when i've tried to touch him he tells me he gets soft bc he gets nervous.what do y'all think?

2007-01-07 14:14:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

kinda brush it off cause its been kinda awkward i guess. The other nite i text him and told him we was commin over then i even called and told him to call me. I really really like this guy i dunno how to let him know i thought byt the call and what not that that would be a hint i dunno if my number is blocked or w.e but i really wanna work on talking to him more maybe flirting back a lil better then i would be. we work together so it make it a lil harder, everyone says he does like me,and I know i like him so what can I do to maybe even start a convo with him or flirt back with him, and how do i know that he is into me i kinda got an idea with the flirting he does but is there something else i should look for?? if someone wants to maybe email me or msg me i could talk a lil more one on one with someone. please help!!

2007-01-07 14:14:54 · 5 answers · asked by l3ella_69 1

I'm a take charge kinda guy. It always catches me off guard and is a little embarrassing when a woman comes on to me. I was at a club and somebody pinched me on the rear end. I thought it was my imagination until it happened again. I turned around and there was this innocent-looking girl with glasses standing behind me. Also, I was playing basketball once and this 6 foot 1 knockout kept pinching my buns when she was guarding me. What's the proper response?

2007-01-07 14:12:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not saying that this is me but I am just curious... I want to know your input. And yes the qualities all-in-one person not any particular one for different individual people!

1) Granddaughter of a foreign governor
2) Pre-law major
3) Writer/Poet
4) Shy and down-to-earth
5) Does not smoke
6) Plays guitar
7) LOVES alternative music
8) Model (as in fashion)
9) Liberal Political Activist
10) Believes in God
11) Favorite movies are Trainspotting and A Clockwork Orange
12) Monogamous
13) Does not date a lot of men
14) Loves to travel
15) Loves to read books
16) Born and raised in California
17) Masochist (in bed only, not relationship)
18) Loves her family dearly
19) Is serious about getting married someday
20) Has a major sense of humor and acts like a class clown sometimes

Mature answers preferred! Be honest!

2007-01-07 14:12:30 · 24 answers · asked by purringout 3

I have been in a fwb situation for a few weeks now. The sex is amazing, and I wasn't initially looking for a relationship, but it is starting to get hard to separate. We have been out in public recently as a couple, and I have introduced him to my friends, and he puts his arm around me and acts like he is a boyfriend when we are out. I know he is seeing other women, so I am trying not to get emotially attached, but his actions are confusing me and now I kind of like the idea of him being my bf. My friends also say, that he seems to be into me. Is he treating me like I am special because he is nice, or because perhaps, he is really into me and maybe wants more.????

2007-01-07 14:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by hotcanuckchick 1

I see women on the train all the time and sometimes they look at me i was just wondering

2007-01-07 14:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by Blink-Monkey-Blink 2

Howcome every good looking girl I know are stuck up? I'm into the hollister/abercrombie wearing girls, and they like me and all, but I'm not feelin their personality most of the time. They are all stuck up but i find the most physical attraction to them.

Where are all of the beautiful, sweet women at???

2007-01-07 14:10:20 · 17 answers · asked by BMD 2

My Aunt had a baby with somebody who liked me 7 years ago. They stopped dating 1 year ago and this Christmas him and I reunited. We clicked pretty well and want to date. They are only friends now. All they ever had was a baby and tried to date but it did not work out. He wants to be with me and she says it's kinda like incest. If it is there's no way that I will let things between us get any further. Is this incest ?

2007-01-07 14:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by angelskye 1

ok i'm not a perfect wife and john has been a perfect husband and father except for his cheating."sue" and old gf emailed john last spring he told her he was married with a child.i'm not sure what happened after that but last fall he told me a he had cheated on me again with sue and was leaving me.he told me he was not seeing her anymore but a week after he left i went to her house late and sure enough he was there.when i calmly went to the door and asked john to come out to talk he refused,sue was screaming/swearing like a truck driver(she put a restraining order on me after that)i gave up and left.sue has been in and out of johns life for the last 15 yrs.why does he keep going back to her but never stays with her?i just found out from his sister john is cheating on sue with a coworker but she does not know.john has been great paying child support(gives me more than he has too) and seeing his child.why would a great dad/person cheat so much on someone they say they love?

2007-01-07 14:08:05 · 7 answers · asked by jennysmith768 1

2007-01-07 14:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by Fox Paws 6

If you didn't want the kiss from a guy who actually had his girlfriend in the same apartment and you made clear how wrong it was, your own boyfriend is actually seeing someone else you know about even though you have been entirely faitfull prior to ths kiss.

Should you risk the drama and reprocusions from your boyfriend by telling him?

2007-01-07 14:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by Isabel M 1

There is this guy at school and I have had the BIGGEST crush on him for over a year now. I've never felt like this about any of my crushes in the past. No matter what I do I can not stop thinking about him or liking him. The thing is, I am not this guy's type at all so I am afraid to tell him. We've never talked to each other. He is two years younger than me. Im 18 and a Senior, he is 16 and a Junior. I'm overweight and he doesnt like fat people. There is no way in the world this guy will ever like me so my question is, what can I do to make myself get over him and stop liking him?

2007-01-07 14:04:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-07 14:03:58 · 32 answers · asked by Pet 1

Well, I'm hung up on wearing leather. I'm always told that people think that I'm gay because of the way that I carry myself, but I'm as straight as an arrow. Tell me what you think.

2007-01-07 14:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by Voodoo 2

Where to meet them in general--also in Chicago--if anyone knows--men who are 21-30 thank you:-)

2007-01-07 14:02:34 · 11 answers · asked by heynow 2

Fat chicks that are snobby and think they are some super model hot chick and they treat you like shiat all though they are fat..... I used to work with a girl like that she was fat and she was the meanest biatch ever and she had that "i'm so hot get out of my way" attitude.

2007-01-07 14:00:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this man on true.com and he lives locally by me but his work takes him to the middle east and Russia consistantly. We had this instant connection and things have been going wonderful and even talking about commitments and we even both cancelled our account for true. Lately he has gotten very self absorbed in work and it did bother me but mostly since it was the holidays. Anyways I thought things were getting better but last night we chatted and he kept bringing up his bad habits and how he cant change who he is and I told him I dont want to change him. I felt as if he was trying to give me an "out". Not really sure on how to handle this or should I just let things calm down. I was thinking of telling him how I felt but I dont want to push things. He did mention to be he does not want to disappointment me or have me disallusioned and wants me to be happy and does not want to hurt me. I guess trying to read what he is wanting and the fact he is 10,000 miles away and wont be home till early March is difficult. He was supposed to be home this next week but work issues put a wrench into that plan and he knows I was disappointed since we had all these plans made. He did at one point talk long term permanent relationship but lately he is constantly concerned if I can handle his life style. Any advice I have not dated in over 23 years so getting back into the swing of things is hard and I have been divorced about 2 yrs.

2007-01-07 13:59:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

YOU WILL NEVER HAVE SEX WITH HER.

2007-01-07 13:57:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".

We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get back to me in the past. I know she's trying to buy a house and it's the holidays but am I kidding myself?

I called her a total of 4 times in two weeks. Call again or quit?
Why does this ha

2007-01-07 13:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by heymanchase 1

this so i don't hurt her fellings.plz help me.

2007-01-07 13:55:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

just want to know i know it is not true for some ppl i just want to know

2007-01-07 13:53:43 · 24 answers · asked by Kaylee Sue 2

How is that possible for a guy to do that? Dont they care about the girl they are having sex with? Dont they get attached at all?

2007-01-07 13:53:25 · 26 answers · asked by Nat555 2

change the status of Myspace profile to "IN A RELATIONSHIP."
My b/f of 6 1/2 months has his myspace profile set at "SINGLE" even though we are in a serious relationship.

I've kind of joked to him about changing it before and he just laughed and said, "Whats the big deal" and I let the subject drop.

However girls are always leaving flirty comments on his profile. One girl left a sexy comment just the other day.
Now, I want to know, should I ask him again to change it to reflect that he is indeed in a relationship????

I know if I ask him to change it in a non-jokey way, he will do it to shut me up. But in the back of his head do you think he will think I'm an insecure jealous girl who wants to control him?????

Should I leave it alone, or tell him I want his profile changed ????

2007-01-07 13:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2

Why do all you women just lie...?
to get in a guys pants, then dump him??!?!?! We have feelings too, we want love and to cuddle, and all that stuff...

2007-01-07 13:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy and he just moved to my school this year. He's from Ohio. And Ive liked him all year. And i found out almost 2 months ago that he had liked me all year too. And before we started going out, he would go out of his way to try and talk to me and get my attention. But ever since he found out I liked him too, he stopped doing that. We've been going out for 1 month and 3 weeks. And he's already told me that he loved me. And I feel the same way. But we never get to talk. We dont have any classes together in school. The only time i see him is waiting for the bus in the afternoon. So I get to talk to him for a gran total of about 10 minutes a day. He says he doesnt 'do' phones because they make him feel too akward. So I only ever talk to him on AIM, but thats rare too. But the thing is, he is really quiet. He doesn't really ever talk to anyone. And besides a hug goodbye, he doesnt show any physical affection. So with that in mind, what's going on?

2007-01-07 13:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Loralai 1