There's this guy and he just moved to my school this year. He's from Ohio. And Ive liked him all year. And i found out almost 2 months ago that he had liked me all year too. And before we started going out, he would go out of his way to try and talk to me and get my attention. But ever since he found out I liked him too, he stopped doing that. We've been going out for 1 month and 3 weeks. And he's already told me that he loved me. And I feel the same way. But we never get to talk. We dont have any classes together in school. The only time i see him is waiting for the bus in the afternoon. So I get to talk to him for a gran total of about 10 minutes a day. He says he doesnt 'do' phones because they make him feel too akward. So I only ever talk to him on AIM, but thats rare too. But the thing is, he is really quiet. He doesn't really ever talk to anyone. And besides a hug goodbye, he doesnt show any physical affection. So with that in mind, what's going on?
2007-01-07 13:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Loralai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone says I should talk to him, but I dont know what I should say, if anything.
2007-01-07 13:49:25 · update #1
I am really shy and REALLY afraid of rejection, so how do I ask him to go places with me?
2007-01-07 13:56:20 · update #2
ask him to come over to your place and help with your school work then go from there good luck...stop being shy you can do it. would you rather lose your chance or it lest give it a go whats to lose.
2007-01-07 13:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to get on your case . . . because I remember when I was your age . . . you fall in love so easily, due to actions, word, and familiarity.
First thing, I don't think it is love . . . but you two have a crush on each other. Both of you are very shy and quiet . . . both of you tend not to talk much with those you are not completely familiar with, and there are often alot of quiet moments when you are with someone you are attracted to. That is the way with him . . .
Is there a park or an area where you can meet? How far away does he live from you. Is it walking distance? If it is not that far . . . purposely miss your stop or get off at his stop, or ask him to walk you home from his stop to home.
What you both need are some quiet moments . . . if you know an area which he may hang out . . . go there and relax and when he shows up . . . talk to him then. I know it sounds like stalking . . . but the thing is . . . trying to find time. Does he absolutely know that you want to see him more . . . don't give hints or anything like that, because guys don't have a clue. Hint this, Hint that . . . what? Guys tend to be straight forward . . . and want things straight forward. Even though he tends to beat around the bush too . . . because he is shy.
On the bus when you are sitting with him, ask him to walk you home and then you can talk.
2007-01-10 11:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to him, that the two of you email each other.
That the two of you talk in person, more. That you see each other
alone, some place, on Saturdays. If he's for real, he'll be enthusiastic. As for not showing affection- some people are so deranged, that they think there's something wrong with showing it, even in public. I'm thinking he'll eventually come around.
2007-01-07 21:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you guys need to know the diference between love and like whem you love someone is whem you see star all over the place and make you cry just to think about this person this is love and whem you like someone is whem propably beauty is envolved your hearth feels like will explode just to see the person, and is nothing wrong on just like him. you know what life is too short, go ahead take advantage of everything that she is offer you but be always responsable for wherever you do. good luck.
2007-01-07 22:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by bruna d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he's kind of nervous about the whole dating scene specially in a new city girls are different in many cities he is probably getting used to it and maybe needs a little help doing that give him time ,try to work somthing out , if u really liked him don't give up
2007-01-07 21:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by ms.miami-finest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally when you're going out you need communication. it's not a matter of want. you NEED it. honestly.. if you love him and want the relationship to last, talk to him (your friends give good advice!) because the relationship wont fizzle out because you WANTED it to but it will because it'll be inevitable w/o communication.. since you guys ARE going out.. try to go on dates outside school! movies, dinner, lunch, etc.
2007-01-07 21:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just a little shy i mean he pprobably likes u if he told u he luvs u i would not even worry
2007-01-07 21:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by osmosis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋