How is that possible for a guy to do that? Dont they care about the girl they are having sex with? Dont they get attached at all?
2007-01-07 13:53:25 · 26 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe it or not they don't go hand in hand. Both men and woman can have sex and feel nothing about the other in terms of being in love. No strings, no attachment. Statistically this happens most often in men then woman, due to the fact for past generations, men were to sow their wild oats while woman save themselves. But in today's world, woman are basically saying f---- that, I like sex too, so I'll have it when I want, with whomever without being in-love. It's looked at as human pleasure, rather then love and commitment. I could not live my life this way, but I know plenty of people that do! And the sad thing is when they do find the right one and fall in love, it's usually too late, or they regret so much of what they have done.
2007-01-07 14:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 type of men in this world: The guys who fall in love far before having sex The guys who don't fall in love even after having sex! :D
2016-05-23 06:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can totally do that. They do it all the time. Some girls can totally have sex with a guy and not love him. It's just a physical thing. If you love someone, it just makes the sex better. If you think that a guy will fall in love with you just because you're doing it, think again. He won't, unless maybe he's a virgin. Some guys totally get attached, but remember that many don't.
2007-01-07 13:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by buffy s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some are just plain jerks and want to have fun without any feelings or attachments. Others start off this way, not meaing to get serious or committed, but then later find out that they actually care for the girl and have become interested in other things about her.
2007-01-07 13:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly its sad but true - we'd all like to believe in true love and fairy tales but honestly in recent times, the whole game has changed.
and it doesn't only go for guys...
I can honestly say, the last guy I slept with, I only did it to shut him up and get him off my back he kept bugging me for a relationship but Im happy just being on my own.
It wasn't the first time I have slept with someone that I had absolutly no emotional connection with either.
Sorry, I know it sounds bad, but Im just trying to be honest. That's just the way the world is these days. People just wanna have fun, be selfish and not have to worry about caring anymore.
2007-01-07 14:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's true. And guess what? Girls can do the same thing with guys. Some people just like sex for sex.
2007-01-07 13:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For many guys, yes it apparently is possible.
I tried it and it just wasn't as good so I don't do it anymore.
Making love is far better than having sex. Caring about the girl you are with is such a big part of the enjoyment.
(P.S. she just wanted sex so I obliged, and no I didn't feel attached to her afterwards but it just wasn't good enpough to make me do it again.)
Making LOVE (as opposed to having sex) is magical.
2007-01-07 14:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the initial intentions. If you only want to have sex with a person that is all you will do. If you want to start something serious then you will. But both men and women can have sex with no feeling, not only men do that.
2007-01-07 14:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely true, but lets not bash all males....it can be true of women too! There are many great guys out there that would never take advantage of any woman and there are some that ONLY want "one nighters" and no commitment. The best way to prevent yourself from being taken advantage of is to date first and make sure this isn't his sole priority.
2007-01-07 14:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by emm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely true. Men don't view sex as an emotional act at all. Its a purely physical act done simply for pleasure.
It's just one of the many many ways men and women are wired differently.
2007-01-07 13:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋