this so i don't hurt her fellings.plz help me.
2007-01-07 13:55:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she lives far way from me.
2007-01-07 14:03:34 · update #1
put ur email on so i can tell u if it went good.
2007-01-07 14:13:21 · update #2
put ur email on so i can tell u if it went good.
2007-01-07 14:13:41 · update #3
Theres no easy way.Theres no way you're not going to hurt her.Thats what breaking up is all about..the pain that comes with it! The best thing to do is DONT BE AROUND THE BUSH...TELL HER STRAIGHT OUT.Nobody wants to be kept around if somebody dosent want to be with them.Would you? Put yourself in her shoes.So hurry up and do it and make sure that you're sure of your decision.Make sure Its not something that you're going to look back at and regret. Tell her as soon as possible.The sooner you do, the sooner you'll feel liberated and the sooner she'll be able to move on with her life! Best Of Luck!
2007-01-07 14:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cares for you and you break up with her, it's going to hurt her feelings. Sorry about that. I admire you for at least telling her though. Most guys just disappear--and a little advice--girls really hate it when you guys just disappear. Just be sure you tell her why (e.g. "we live too far away from each other"). Good luck to you. Hope it goes okay.
2007-01-07 22:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no good way to break up with someone without hurting their feelings. But It's better to be honest and do it then string her along.
2007-01-07 22:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it in a private place (per fer her place), tell her the truth, and get to the point don't drag it out, and leave as soon as you are done. Don't try to comfort her after wards if she cries it will make it worst.
2007-01-07 21:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch her at a time when shes happy and alone. get face to face with her. no phone calls or notes or any of that. say " ok _______ (her name here) i really do love you but i just dont think were right for each other" give her a quick peck on the cheek the leave her
2007-01-07 21:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful and tell her exactly how you'll feel. I think she'll still be hurt but in the end she'll respect you! Good luck!
2007-01-07 21:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how you are feeling but keep the situation calm. IT won't be easy, but at least she'll understand what you mean. Hopefully no bad grounds between you when all said and done.
2007-01-07 22:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by pullersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you do it in a nice way. Dont text,IM,or call and break up with her. Say it to her face it is much easyer to deal with.
2007-01-07 22:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Punk.Rocker;;//music[freak] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as kind and gentle as possible. Anything you say will hurt her, it's unavoidable. Just show her a lot of compassion and empathy...she'll remember you for it.
2007-01-07 22:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by mastress_of_the_universe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let the words flow out of your mouth.Either way she's going to be hurt.
2007-01-07 22:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋