To guys: would you date someone like this?

Question

Not saying that this is me but I am just curious... I want to know your input. And yes the qualities all-in-one person not any particular one for different individual people!

1) Granddaughter of a foreign governor
2) Pre-law major
3) Writer/Poet
4) Shy and down-to-earth
5) Does not smoke
6) Plays guitar
7) LOVES alternative music
8) Model (as in fashion)
9) Liberal Political Activist
10) Believes in God
11) Favorite movies are Trainspotting and A Clockwork Orange
12) Monogamous
13) Does not date a lot of men
14) Loves to travel
15) Loves to read books
16) Born and raised in California
17) Masochist (in bed only, not relationship)
18) Loves her family dearly
19) Is serious about getting married someday
20) Has a major sense of humor and acts like a class clown sometimes

Mature answers preferred! Be honest!

Oh yeah she's also one of my friends. Known her for years so I did not make this up.

She is also Filipino Mestiza (light-skinned) if you are wondering what she looks like... no pic on my computer, sorry!

I am asking you this because we live in a small town 2 and a half hours away from L.A. and it's hard to find a guy here! A lot of them are already married and have kids.,

Her birthday is in September so that might tell you know what her sign is.

The real motivation behind the question has to with the detail above this one... as I said, we live in a small town (more like suburb) not too far from L.A. but the dating scene is hard as is and it's to find a guy who'd commit... or one who isn't married or is really educated. So it's good to know that there other people out there who would be open-minded.

Answer 1

Sounds like my ideal girl. If only she were real!

Answer 2

Sure I would.
It doesn't bother me if she's the granddaughter of a foreign governor who's a pre-law major, is a poet/writer, plays guitar, and loves alternative music. She's shy and down to earth? I am too at times. She's a liberal who's also a political activist...I think standing up for what you believe is commendable and I think highly of it. You believe in god? I believe in a higher power that I choose to call god, and you have a right to believe in or not believe in. We all have our beliefs.
I loved the film Clockwork Orange, but sadly I took a blind date to Trainspotting. It was not a first date kind of movie.
Monogamous is one thing I believe in, but none of my friends do. I haven't dated a lot of women (see shyness above.)
Traveling is therapeutic and reading books is a lost art. I can't really answer number 16, born and raised in California shouldn't matter to anyone. So, you're a masochist in bed? Who cares?
You love your family dearly and want to get married someday too. That's your dreams...follow them. It's great to have a sense of humor - laughter is great medicine.
And finally, I wish I didn't smoke cigarettes. I'm trying to quit.

Take it easy on yourself. Everything's gonna be alright.

Answer 3

Depends...does it mesh well with:

1) Grandson of WWII POW
2) Deputy Sheriff/Criminology Degree
3) Loves to read poetry
4) Loves shy people
5) Does not smoke either
6) Loves to hear to guitar music
7) Likes all music
8) has been mistaken for a model
9) Does'n know what that means
10) Prays often
11) Likes all movies...even Trainspotting
12) One girl man
13) Has dated a few women, not many
14) Love to travel, more
15) Reads every night
16) Born in Iowa, has lived in Colorado as a hunting guide and is willing to live anywhere
17) Will try anything in bed
18) Loves his family
19) Wants to settle down eventually
20) Was once known as the class clown, likes to have a good time (when appropriate)




This might be me. Inquire only if you are real.

Answer 4

she sounds great except trainspotting was a bit of a depressing movie I prefer light hearted movies like Hitch being a Masochist sounds interesting and I love girl with a great sense of humour a lot take life to seriously

Answer 5

nope, several problems with her

#1 shows that she is not down to earth and in fact may be one of them overbearing high maintenance paying attention things

# 8, model? already shows signs of high maintenance right there, damaged goods

#9 showes that she would probably pay more attention to politics than to me

#10 might put god way before me, that would kind of suh playing 4 fiddle after god and politics and modeling

#13 does not date alot of men? if she is a model then whats the problem? head to big? thinks she is too good for people?

nope, those are dealbreakers to me, not something i would want to get involved in

Answer 6

You sound very dateable. But then, maybe you're a bit too much for a lot of boys. They think you're a bit out of their reach. Try to be a bit more approachable, I think. Your shyness is a factor proabaly. Give amateur theatre a go. Great for curing shynes, plus you'll meet some nice boys too.

Answer 7

You're not my type, but aside from the masochist thing you sound kind of boring and normal. To list so much and still be boring... spice it up girl! It's either that or your a little princess who scares all the guys away with her expectations.

Answer 8

I am curious to hear the real motivation behind this question. But to answer your question, because most of these aren't "must have" or "can't live without" qualities, you will find that most guys would date you with or without these sort of things....

Answer 9

some gay adult men date bisexuals. others do not. it relies upon on the guy and what he believes. in my opinion and as a bisexual myself, i see no element in a gay guy figuring out not thus far you entirely because of your sexuality. that could want to easily practice that the guy isn't searching previous that and into your human being, the position he must be searching.

Answer 10

Yes, seems like an interesting person, but I don't believe in meeting people trough Internet

Answer 11

It's not the qualities that most men look for.... its the chemistry between them ... if they both enjoy each others company and have good communication then things would work out.....