my boyfriend and i had broke up, and 2 nights after we broke up i had a "rebound relationship" with a close friend. we had sex, and we both agreed not to tell anyone. but one of his friends that was there at the time it happened told someone. and they told my boyfriend. we got back together, but now we're taking a break, but i know for fact that we're getting back together. he asked me about it and i told him it didn't happen, should i tell him it did?
2007-01-07 14:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him...
2007-01-07 14:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy.
You broke up and something happened. You care about your boyfriend and want to be with him I suppose or you would not be asking. But someone else was there so you either tell him the truth or say his friend is lying.
If you really want things to work out then being honest is the only way. How is he to trust your in the future if you think the best policy is to lie to him?
You are human, do not beat yourself up about what happened. At the same time admit to what happened and why. Then you can put it behind you and move forward.
All the best to you in life.
2007-01-07 22:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by o_s_c_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now i'm in a similar position but that was about a guy who kissed me that i didn't want too. If your were on a break..the what was he up to at the time?
If i were you though and you really want the relationship to work and he's already heard it from someone else then i'd just admit to it and he should appreciate your honesty and the fact that you were on a break.
2007-01-07 22:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Isabel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already lied, so you only have two options. 1. Stick with your lie and pray that he doesn't find out by any other means. or 2. Tell him that you were just embarassed, and really disappointed in yourself, that you wanted to tell him the truth and that you are sorry that it happened. Explain to him what happened truthfully and the worst that can happen is that you don't end up together, but if he finds out later that you lied then he will dump you anyway.
2007-01-07 22:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships MUST be built on trust and honesty. I won't tell you what to do, just that if you say nothing or deny it the truth will out eventually.
2007-01-07 22:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him these kind of things always come out plus its always going to be on the back of your mind until you tell him plus you were broke up and its not good to lie to someone you care about
2007-01-07 23:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by luscious kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you keep seeing both, cause neighter one seem to mind. And while you at it might as well make some $$$ on the side too!!!
2007-01-07 22:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Amp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should cuz if u dont then he will NEVER trust u anymore and if u were broken up then he has no right to get mad at u!
2007-01-07 22:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by kc_fishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would expect him to tell you the truth, now wouldn't you??? if he lied about something like that to you, you'd be soooo mad. put yourself in his place, hmm....kinda sucks when the shoe is on the other foot.
2007-01-07 22:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you'll just have to take your chance here... if he can accept that fact, then he will stay but if he doesn't, then you'll lose him but you have to give him that option. better come clean than lie...
2007-01-07 23:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to steal that answer from "mae"
2007-01-07 22:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋