change the status of Myspace profile to "IN A RELATIONSHIP."
My b/f of 6 1/2 months has his myspace profile set at "SINGLE" even though we are in a serious relationship.
I've kind of joked to him about changing it before and he just laughed and said, "Whats the big deal" and I let the subject drop.
However girls are always leaving flirty comments on his profile. One girl left a sexy comment just the other day.
Now, I want to know, should I ask him again to change it to reflect that he is indeed in a relationship????
I know if I ask him to change it in a non-jokey way, he will do it to shut me up. But in the back of his head do you think he will think I'm an insecure jealous girl who wants to control him?????
Should I leave it alone, or tell him I want his profile changed ????
2007-01-07 13:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have a good loving relationship with this man, and he treats you well and has respect for you, why are you tripping are silly comments on his myspace account?
First of all even if you have a serious relationship, it's less than a year and you are not married to this man or engaged.
He will change it if you ask him to make you happy or shut you up, but you are being kind of childish and insecure to worry about petty sh*t on myspace.
Besides, if a man wants to cheat the status reading "in a relationship" will not stop him.
Your priorities are all wrong.
2007-01-07 15:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if both of you are in a "serious relationship" as you say you are, then the initiative should come from him to let people know that he is in a relationship. There is nothing serious about him flirting around, even thought its just on the internet. Ya right, people say that there is nothing harmful, because its just on the internet, and they don't see each other. But remember girl, curiousity kills the cat. What im just trying to say is, if he is really serious about it, then he should change it or something. He should be proud that you are his girl.
2007-01-07 14:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered the same thing for my situation. Here's your answer. Make a profile yourself and keep your status single. That should make him change it and if it doesn't, then he must really believe that it's not a big deal. And if he thinks of it as not a big deal for you just as for him, then you should let it go. It's only fair.
2007-01-07 13:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by anjusmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him again to change it but not all serious let him know its bothering you.... or you could find a nice pic of you to and say you really like that pic and ask him to put it on his page.... and you could also make a page yourself and leave your own sexy comments on his page so those girls know he has a girl ...but to be honest even if he changes it with no problem its not going to stop those girls cause some girl just dont care and are nasty....and when a guy wants to cheat he'll find a way even if it says he's taken
2007-01-07 14:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by luscious kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just leave it alone-if you are confindent about yourself--and you know that this person is into you and you love yourself---then what his status is doesn't ,matter nor does the comments of other women--if you trust him something like this should never be a problem if you do not trust him then you should leave him now-not having trust is never a good thing
2007-01-07 13:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by heynow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation once and hated that my boyfriend wouldn't change his status. I pushed the issue and it strained our relationship. I would just leave it alone as long as you know in your gut he's faithful. Guys need their egos stroked and this may be one way for him to get that need met without actually flirting face to face with someone.
2007-01-07 13:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to change it. Or politely inform those leaving flirty comments that you are his girl. If he is happy in the relationship and is into you, he will change it.
2007-01-07 14:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main point to everything is having a good self-esteem. If you dont have a good self-esteem, then all these topics are going to arise. Jealousy is normal. We are one of the very few animals that stay with only one partner. As long as jealousy is controlled, then it should be fine. Its all about communication.
2016-05-23 06:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty he wont even be thinkin bout it half as much as you are. guys dont really think alot about littel issuse like that. he probably doesnt even see it as a big issue. yes he will do it to shut you up and yes he will think you are a nag. he will think that you just cant let things go. but he is still willing to do to make you happy. thats the upside. wait a couple more months then bring it up again. let it be for now.
2007-01-07 13:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, don't ask him to change it, as long as he is devoted to you. Let him have his fun on my space. as long as he's not playing you, it won't hurt anything. It is probably helping his ego, and making his day. If he starts getting serious with any one, of the people chatting with him, then tell him that's enough. keep involved with him, if he's not hiding things from you, your doing great.
2007-01-07 13:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋