I'm a take charge kinda guy. It always catches me off guard and is a little embarrassing when a woman comes on to me. I was at a club and somebody pinched me on the rear end. I thought it was my imagination until it happened again. I turned around and there was this innocent-looking girl with glasses standing behind me. Also, I was playing basketball once and this 6 foot 1 knockout kept pinching my buns when she was guarding me. What's the proper response?
2007-01-07
14:12:39
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't mind. It just caught me off guard.
2007-01-07
14:18:55 ·
update #1
Turn around, and talk LOUDLY: did you just pinch my bum???
That will work geez....
2007-01-07 14:25:19
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answered by AlisonJonshon 5
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Ha ha This is a funny question. It brings back a memory. Once a few years back I was at a nightclub with friends. And a stranger (a girl) was standing next to me. Well, I told her I thought the guy directly in front of me was cute. So.........she pinches his butt and runs off. Well, he turns around and smiles at me with a VERY surprised look on his face. Ha, needless to say we dated for over 2 years. Yes, to pinching butts.
2007-01-07 14:19:17
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answered by ColdTreachery 2
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Just tell them that you do not like it. Seems like if you are a take charge kind of person you could get the courage up to do this. And no it is not rude. Woman tell men they do not like something in a situation like this. Men should be no different.
2007-01-07 14:17:13
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answered by love me despite it all 2
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Sounds rather inappropriate although I've been with friends who did it to strangers in a bar...these same women would probably try to deck a guy who did it to them...
It's a tacky way of attempting to get someone's attention...I wouldn't take seriously the party who did it...they need to learn some socialization skills...
2007-01-07 14:15:52
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answered by . 7
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i think its rude pinchin a guys ***
its happened to me as a young lady and I hated it, gave a couple a slap for doing it
why should it be any differnet cause your a guy
women shouldn't be doing this really, might be nice for you, but they shouldn't do it, sure they wouldn't like it of it was them
p.s I am not a prude
2007-01-07 14:24:39
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answered by chickenhawk 2
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My immediate response to butt-pinching is to punch the pincher. I can't help it. It just happens.
Butt-pinchers are icky.
2007-01-07 14:15:50
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answered by some chick 4
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Return the favour
2007-01-07 14:15:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Introduce yourself and ask them if they liked what they felt.
2007-01-07 14:15:08
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answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3
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present your front and see if she pinches that too.
2007-01-07 14:19:04
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answered by Anonymous
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turn around, smile and ask her out
2007-01-07 14:16:28
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answered by Diana R 3
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