If you didn't want the kiss from a guy who actually had his girlfriend in the same apartment and you made clear how wrong it was, your own boyfriend is actually seeing someone else you know about even though you have been entirely faitfull prior to ths kiss.
Should you risk the drama and reprocusions from your boyfriend by telling him?
2007-01-07 14:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by Isabel M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some dude kissed you against your will, and he's got a gf...and your bf is seeing someone else? Why are you worried about that kiss? The guy who kissed you is a jerk and your bf is a cheater...move on sugar and associate with a better class of people.
2007-01-07 14:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating if it's not with your own. I wouldn't say anything to the boyfriend if the kiss didn't mean anything at all and you have nothing more to do with the guy, to save the drama. Then again, if you want to be totally honest, not like he's being, then go for it. Just prepared for the fireworks of the worst kind.
2007-01-07 14:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for god's sake! it amazes me that 50 years after the sexual revolution of the sixties we are still so hung up on monogamy and the alleged virtue of being faithful...this is not a freakin soap opera, it's real life...and life is too short to be playing drama games with...cheating is a bullshit concept...enjoy yourself and let your boy friends (not boyfriends -- another archaic concept! ) do the same!
2007-01-07 14:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
anything physicla or emotion in a personal level with anyone else who is not your boy/girl is clearly CHEATING. ask yourself - how you would feel if it happened to you and think of the other girl - how she would feel and think of your own guy!!!! a kiss is not just a kiss... its a bond - unless your a cheat slut - that is- and i m sure your better than that. so tell your guy and hope he loves you enough to understand and forgive you. but if you do it again - trust me - your the looser
2007-01-07 14:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... kissing is cheating... and he will have every right to dump you.. but.. it's better to come fromyou.. than that girlfriend if she finds out... or someone else for that matter...
and why in your right mind would you ever let your bf date someone else.... knowingly..?? and then feel guilty for kissing someone else..?? is this an open relationship..??? if ti is then don't bother telling him.. but if you don't allow him to cheat and he is.. then you deserve each other!!!
2007-01-07 14:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Do you think your spouse/mate would like you going out and kissing everybody?
2007-01-07 14:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf is seeing someone else and you know about why are you with him? unless your into that i guess its ok....but anyway i would tell him especially if you didnt want it and were disrespected....and yes kissing is cheating but i wouldnt count it unless you wanted it
2007-01-07 14:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by luscious kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is your boyfriend seeing someone else???? You should find a new one!
2007-01-07 14:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lola76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well of cource not, it's all good i think.......if hes wanting to slip you the tongue more than once or twice a day again , I say go get some
2007-01-07 14:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never tell ---------things will never be the same if you do
just keep it to yourself
2007-01-07 14:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Type O' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋