I dont no what to do im 12 my last bf was a jerk or mabey not in the beginning but in the end we went out for 5 mounths I liked him at first but he became a jerk it felt like he was presuring me to do things expechally on dates it was like if i couldent or dident really want to he would get all up tight. The only dates he took me too was his violen lesson and a classical consert and the art musem god i achally want a guy who can achally take me on GOOD dates im mad at myself, for letting it go on for so long. He broke up with me though i was home sick too, and he new it!) anyways he also wanted me to kiss him really bad i wouldent though im glad too ! But when he broke up with me i wasent sad at first i was a littel happy, but after an hour or 2 i was sad. I hate seeing him a school and i dont like to do P.E. invrote of him why ? Anyways i wish i could change back time because of it, he also when for another girl and he aparently i was bugging him becuse i wouldnt kiss him what a jerk!
2007-01-07 14:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by Teggybug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should forget about boys for a while and concentrate on school because your spelling is really bad and i think boys might have something to do with it. the reason that you are embarrassed in front of him is because you still worry about what he thinks of you and you want him to think that he has lost something really good so you try to show off in front of him.
2007-01-07 14:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were dating a real jerk. You said that you are twelve, and I commend you for knowing what you don't want. Never let any guy, no matter how wonderful he may seem, pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. Trust me, you are the only one who will regret it later. Having thoughts of a guy stuck in your head after a break is normal, but knowing that you're better off without him means that even though you may be thinking about him, you know what's best for you. Keep it up, girl! Don't give anything to anyone if you don't want to, and I'm sure everything will turn out great!
2007-01-07 22:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jane D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 12. The good stuff won't come til you're about 30 anyway. As cliche and as hard as it sounds, just concentrate on your studies and forget about boys til then. If you can do that, you'll save yourself a load of heartache.
Books Before Boys Because Boys Bring Babies.
2007-01-07 22:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you went 5 months without kissing him? i could see a guy getting a little restless. i don't think dates define a relationship, but maybe he was a jerk in other ways. it will be awkward at school. just grow up a little bit and move on. you both will be fine.
2007-01-07 22:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til you are 18 to date...it saves alot of time and alot of heartbreak. not alot of people marry their highschool or middle school sweethearts.
get a hobby, and get good at it. then later on in life you won't feel like you have wasted so much time thinking about things that don't really matter now.
2007-01-07 22:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Zachary H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you are soooooo young! I hope this doesn't sound callous, but trust me, you will eventually forget him. Frankly he sounds like a jerk anyway! You are better off without him!
2007-01-07 22:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over him and concentrate on school.youll be alot better off
2007-01-07 22:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God....you're only 12...just get over him!
2007-01-07 22:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to call you once he learns how to play his fiddle.
2007-01-07 22:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋