Singles & Dating - 5 January 2007

So tonight I lost it.
Here's what happened:
I spend alot of time at his house. He falls asleep earlier than me often, and to pass the time I go online and check emails, participate in a couple message boards, go on yahoo answers, etc.
Well you know how when you are going back and forth from one site to another, instead of typing the web address each time, you can hit that little down arrow and see what websited were visited recently and just click on them to go back. Ok, well I often see that he has visited porn sites. I always try to shake it off, telling myself "a guy is a guy and its none of my business anyways". Tonight I went online after he fell asleep again and saw that the last thing he visited was ANOTHER porn site. I snapped. I woke him up and told him to take me home. He kept asking why and finally I told him. He said he loves me but it helps him get to sleep, ...anyways I left out of the car in a huff..It just hurts my feelings alot...advice??????

2007-01-05 20:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl, we've never spoke, her friends are kinda my friends, she never tried to talk to me, doesnt try to make eye contact, no body language, im pretty sure she knows i exist, if i ask her out, what % do u think she'll say YES!?

2007-01-05 20:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey,
Okay, so last night I kissed my boyfriend for the first time, however, it was also my first kiss ever. He has kissed a lot of girls before (lol :D) and I'm scared that he thinks I'm a bad kisser. He hasn't talked to me in about a day. Right before we kissed I got really scared, and so I think that I messed it up. Does this mean he is gonna dump me cause he thinks I'm a bad kisser? How do I know what he thinks? (I don't really wanna ask him cause that's kinda embarissing.)
What should I do?

2007-01-05 20:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by Winter Wonder 1

I had a relationship with a girl for 5yrs.she happens to be my sis-in-law's cousin.Then after around 3yrs her dad got transfered & she had to leave town.But v used to be in touch over the phone.Her parents always used to curse me saying that she was doing bad in studies bcos of me even after her father got transferred.she had plans of workin for which i told her first to complete her studies & then work & for this reason we used to fight & it got out of control &the fight turned ugly & both our families got involved & we broke up.she even abused my dad.I was happy for 2yrs after i broke up with her.Then she comes back i accepted her back & she leaves me again saying my lifestyle is changed, & i am not the same.Time change, things change & you have to move on.Even her attitude towards things & her outlook had changed inspite of this i accepted her back and now shes gone and i feel like a fool by repeating the same mistake.I really feel bad and low.i really liked her. what should i do?

2007-01-05 20:30:54 · 1 answers · asked by modi 1

Alright I'm 23 and went on a date with this wonderfully funny and cute girl on Wednesday. I phoned her tonight to ask her out on a second date, but never got a call back tonight (it is friday, i hardly ever return calls on friday either...). So if i don't get called back, do i assume that she just doesn't want to go on a second, or should i call again in a couple days? i don't wanna seem stalkerish and be one of those people that call 50 times.

Thoughts?

2007-01-05 20:28:26 · 19 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4

ya in my class so many gilrs have sex with other boys more than one..biuut when th esecret releved ouut..she is dead...some says suside some says her parents murdered..is doing a sex..a very big issue..?

2007-01-05 20:27:35 · 16 answers · asked by love l 1

Alright, what I am about to tell you might be immature, but anyway...

My ex and I broke up several weeks ago, not too long ago. We are not friends anymore, just aquaintances. We engaged in a conversation where there some confession and even confrontation. When he found out that I had some pregnancy symptoms recently, he suddenly looked elated and happy as I told him about the symptoms instead of reacting with "omg oh crap" even though I am not even sure if I am pregnant. I don't really have any plans to get back with him. Why would he react this way?

2007-01-05 20:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by purringout 3

Why do many girls/women give "it" up on the first night and then expect the guy to fall for them? I've had a few girls who acted like they were in love after one encounter and it wasn't like I was leading them on. When I wouldn't be the love of their life, then I was suddenly a heartless so-and-so.

2007-01-05 20:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Preston 2

(note - i will ask her out when i see her - i cant meet her atm thats the problem)

I really like this girl at work, and i know she likes me back. We have always had this b/f g/f joke thing going, and a lot of the other staff comment on us being good couple in front of us all the time.

Im a fool who wants everything to be perfect and always waited or put off asking her out, waiting for the perfect time to ask (now i cant wait anymore).

Im casual and my work has decreased, which means i might only get to see her like twice a month.

I cant wait that long its been 6 days since i last saw her, and its killing me inside. and there is a big chance i might not see her for 2 weeks. What can i do to get ahold of her.

i had 2 ideas - get her number from a mutual fan (i dont want to, id rather go face to face)
or beg my boss to put me on a day she is on (but id feel a bit awkward - like a stalker - asking for that)

2007-01-05 20:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-05 20:22:48 · 16 answers · asked by tony-87 2

For 3 mothns i've been together with a wonderful boy who i love and who loves me BUT now i just don't feel that i want to be together with him!!!!!!!But when i want to tell him that's better to finish with our relationship i start beeing very nervous and start feeling that nevertheless i love him!!!!!
And there's one more problem:being with him affects my marks at school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So what should i do????

2007-01-05 20:22:41 · 5 answers · asked by candygirl 1

2007-01-05 20:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by CarmenDelRio 2

I don't think I can cope. There's been a lot of crap in my life thus far, but everything was better once he walked into my life. The more he loved me the more I loved myself, recently i've been self-harming again because it's been obvious he doesn't like me as much. Last night he ended it. I really don't think I can deal with life anymore - and where am I? ON YAHOO ANSWERS! becuase i none of my friends are available all of a sudden. I'm scared i'm going to do something stupid - i feel like killing myself...

help?

2007-01-05 20:18:43 · 15 answers · asked by tasha 3

2007-01-05 20:17:35 · 18 answers · asked by Preston 2

I just lost my first love of 2 and a half years, he just up and left me all cold and for no reason simply because he like someone else and I was not his type he said. I feel sick, I can't eat, sleep or think and his face will not go away in my head. I try to cry but nothing will come out! He was my everything, even though he was a bad person he lied cheated and use me for my money but still I saw past all of that and was still able to love him to death. I feel like nothing without him. I never knew love felt like that. I met him a while back and I moved from SC to NYC to just be with him, I put everything on hold, my entire life for him and when I got here he changed on me and started to misstreat me but still I fell madly in love with him, and now he left me for good! I feel lost without him, Words can not explain how much he means to me, and it has not even been a month and he has this new guy on his myspace claiming him to be hs love and life, when i saw that i almost died help

2007-01-05 20:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by louis_vuitton_don864 1

is it normal for a guy to bring his girlfriend everywhere with him? Even to his best friends house, when it should just be a friends only thing. I'm getting so tired of him bringing his girlfriend over everytime when he comes to visit me and my brother. I wish it could jus be a friends night out. Ever since he first brang his girl around us, he thinks he could bring her around all the time now, when we want him to come chill. One night i was trying to have a get together between me him and my brother. He kept asking well whose all going to be there i kept puttin the hint out that it was only going to be me him and my brother. I though ok I hope for once he got that hint that he should leave his girl out of our get togethers. I am not useto her and I barely like her because of somethings. I don't want to be around somebody I barely know and don't plan on getting to know. I really don't like her because she treats him wrong and he should of left her because of that.

2007-01-05 20:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty Native Lady 2

Or would you just leave him on your list using always invisible...

2007-01-05 20:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm already 20 ,but i remain virgin,so some of my friends said i was too conservative.Sometimes i want to try too,but i can't .I don't want boys to touch me ,coz i want to share the pleasure with my soulmate-my future husband,but it's ironic because i never find him

2007-01-05 20:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3

I know not all men are womanizers, but it seems a vast majority act like they are at least. And why do a lot of men choose to hang out with guys who do? And why do so many brag about all the woman they violate?

2007-01-05 20:12:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-05 20:11:00 · 20 answers · asked by Joi J 1

I was in a relationship in he past where there was domestic violence. And then I was in a relationship with a great, normal and respectful guy who I really liked because of his personality and his intelligence. But I think I also sort of sabotarged the relationship and held him away at arm's length. There were other major circumstances that made him dump me (a death in his family and illness and work stress) but I wonder why I helped to end the relationship by being needy, pushing him away etc. I wonder if I felt I was undeserving of a nice noral relationship with a great guy? Any psycologists out there to help answer this question (just joking!)

2007-01-05 20:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by Diana K 1

2007-01-05 20:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by rizwan l 1

My bf has been acting really distant these days i mean we talk but it just seems to cut and dry. We spend nights where I'm usually online in the living room and he's in the bedroom with the video game. He seems to be getting mad at me for stupid things lately but always seems friendly afterward like nothing ever happened I ask him if he feels bad for his outbursts and he said he usually does but then he will find something else to get mad at me about. he said something just this morning that hurt me and when I wanted to talk about it he told me he "didn't remember saying that" I talked to a mutual friend and she had said that another mutual friend said to her that she thought we had broken up I told the first friend No and she was mistaken and I confronted my bf and he said he never said that and he did talk to her a few weeks ago but didn't mention anything about our relationships. Her and I talk regularly and she has not mentioned anything about a break up to me. I just want to know

2007-01-05 20:06:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how long ago were you with that person, and if you could go back in time, what would you do differently?

2007-01-05 20:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by purringout 3

I really like this girl at work, and i know she likes me back. We have always had this b/f g/f joke thing going, and a lot of the other staff comment on us being good couple in front of us all the time.

Im a fool who wants everything to be perfect and always waited or put off asking her out, waiting for the perfect time to ask (now i cant wait anymore).

Im casual and my work has decreased, which means i might only get to see her like twice a month.

I cant wait that long its been 6 days since i last saw her, and its killing me inside. and there is a big chance i might not see her for 2 weeks. What can i do to get ahold of her.

i had 2 ideas - get her number from a mutual fan (i dont want to, id rather go face to face)
or beg my boss to put me on a day she is on (but id feel a bit awkward - like a stalker - asking for that)

2007-01-05 20:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay the boy I like never talks to me, but when ever I talk to him he acts as if hes super bored and not so enthusiastic. But when I talk to his brother, his brother is like sooooo nice to me and he also comes up to me and just starts talking. What should I do? His brother pretty cute too but I just need your help.

2007-01-05 20:00:00 · 16 answers · asked by with The Vicious 4

ok i am a heavy set crazy fun guy that gave a very attractive girl a ride home from work shes my co worker and we laugh and have fun alot durring work and she gave me her number now physicaly i dont think she would be attratcted to me but did she give me her number cuz she is trying to screw or does she just want friends like every other girl ive been with in my 18 years on this planet...."Just friends" I hate that pair of words....

2007-01-05 19:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-05 19:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Hol 1

even i am not sure that he loves me truly or not because we have'nt met 4 a long time. i don't know if he is going on with somebody else also.a common frnd of us told me that he is going on with someone.iam not sure what he is doing exactly. please help me out

2007-01-05 19:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have no idea what this is.someone asked me if i was into it in a chatroom and for all i know i could but i dont know what cbt is.So please can someone help me.if it helps for anyone to know i was in the dungeon chatroom.

2007-01-05 19:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by angel 1