I broke up with my girlfriend for the second time?

Question

I had a relationship with a girl for 5yrs.she happens to be my sis-in-law's cousin.Then after around 3yrs her dad got transfered & she had to leave town.But v used to be in touch over the phone.Her parents always used to curse me saying that she was doing bad in studies bcos of me even after her father got transferred.she had plans of workin for which i told her first to complete her studies & then work & for this reason we used to fight & it got out of control &the fight turned ugly & both our families got involved & we broke up.she even abused my dad.I was happy for 2yrs after i broke up with her.Then she comes back i accepted her back & she leaves me again saying my lifestyle is changed, & i am not the same.Time change, things change & you have to move on.Even her attitude towards things & her outlook had changed inspite of this i accepted her back and now shes gone and i feel like a fool by repeating the same mistake.I really feel bad and low.i really liked her. what should i do?

Answer 1

i think you should forgive yourself. don't feel bad nor low. love yourself a little more, you know you deserve better. a girlfriend who cannot get along with your family and even abused your family (dad) does not make a good girlfriend. even if she was in a fit of anger-- that doesn't justify for being disrespectful and rude. all the best, dude :)