Hey,
Okay, so last night I kissed my boyfriend for the first time, however, it was also my first kiss ever. He has kissed a lot of girls before (lol :D) and I'm scared that he thinks I'm a bad kisser. He hasn't talked to me in about a day. Right before we kissed I got really scared, and so I think that I messed it up. Does this mean he is gonna dump me cause he thinks I'm a bad kisser? How do I know what he thinks? (I don't really wanna ask him cause that's kinda embarissing.)
What should I do?
2007-01-05 20:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by Winter Wonder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Live a little! Don't get all paranoid for little things like that. He will call.
2007-01-05 20:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him or go see him. Talk with him. Hang out a little, find something fun to do together. Take a walk in the park and watch the ducks or something. Whatever is fun.
See what he mentions (conversation) during your time together. Stay low key unless he brings up stuff like what you've mentioned here. Avoid grabbing his hand or doing anything remotely sexual unless he leads.
Body language comes first. Words come second.
My suspicion is that if the two of you do something fun together then the mystery here will surface and explain itself. If it doesn't you can always ask him later.
Asking embarrasing questions allows both of you to grow as individuals and possibly as a couple. If you are a bad kisser, and there are some, it would be better to find out now and start working on it than otherwise right?
2007-01-06 04:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is any sort of a decent guy he will cherish what he got no matter how the quality. Any guy who would dump you because you were a poor kisser is no guy that you want. I'm sure you did fine. He's probably just busy with family stuff or something. Relax. Congratulations.
2007-01-06 04:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll be fine, you might be a good kisser for all you know, just that because you neverdid it before you are aware of it and worried.
Call the guy and arrange to meet up...kiss him again!!!
2007-01-06 04:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
calm down. i don't know why someone would dump u if u r a bad kisser. don't worry it was ur first kiss together. breathe!
2007-01-06 04:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can't be a bad kisser. If you didn't put your tongue into his throat it should be OK.
I don't think he will dump you because of sth like that.
Good luck!
2007-01-06 04:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by desajuno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just behave normally infront of him..... Dont think such things by
urself.
May be u r wrong.............. Be confident in urself. Dont take too much of stress
2007-01-06 04:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not going to dump u.nothing went wrong u are just too worried.
2007-01-06 04:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a day. Let him call you later but don't call him!
2007-01-06 04:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Diana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to kiss your poon, and you to kiss his man.
2007-01-06 04:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by ihateacaf0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋