If so, how long ago were you with that person, and if you could go back in time, what would you do differently?
2007-01-05 20:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
30 years ago. I'd would be more caring and understandable. I would be more responsible. I would do anything it took to be in her arms again.
2007-01-05 20:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by bluetamparomeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if this counts but i was 13 years old and meet this boy we got together and stayed together until i was 19 we have 2 children together we had a huge fight and i left and when i came back he was gone we ended up seeing each other agai about a year later and i had another child we decided to get back together as we had always loved each other i mean he was my first anyway i came back to sydney to get my stuff i got a phone call the next night telling me that him and all his mates went out partying because our relationship was finally on track and he had a terrible accident and now my hopes and dreams are gone i never even told him that i have alwayed loved him
2007-01-06 04:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by loza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...and if i had the choice to go back..i'm not sure i would want to go back..because ultimately the same thing that drove that person away would happen again. Something about what you do or how you deal with things drove that person away and its not something you can change because its your beliefs. It's just best to forget about that person.
"there is no future, there is no past...forget regret, or life is your's to miss." --from RENT
2007-01-06 04:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was with her for about one year, and if I had the chance to go back in time I would have never let her walk out of my life.
2007-01-06 04:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 2 years ago I met this absolutely amazing woman named Lauren. I was 24 (almost 25) and she was 21. She had gone to my high school, but was a freshman when I was a senior, but had always had a crush on me since she saw me (at least that's what she's always told me). Anyway, we actually met in a chat room on AOL, and went out on a date, and started dating. Everything was wonderful for the first month. I was head over heels for this girl, and I believed that she felt the same way. The problem being, she was going to visit her ex-boyfriend in jail every weekend. I know that he was in jail and everything, but I was completely jealous that she was taking time to visit him, that her and I could have been doing something. I accepted her visiting him though, but after about 2 months, I had had enough. I confronted her and told her how I felt, and she agreed to stop going to see him, but never did because she said that for some reason she wanted him in her life (even though he put her through financial and emotional hell). I couldn't deal with that so I ended the relationship. About a month without contact, she called me one day to see how I was doing and to tell me that I was right about the whole situation with the guy. She appologized to me and told me that she wanted to see me. Well, seeing how I wanted nothing more than this girl to be part of my life, we went out to shoot pool one evening and ended up kissing. She told me that things could never be the way they were before we broke up, but I still wanted what I wanted. We tried to be friends, and did a pretty good job of it until about 9-10 months after the whole situation. She started hanging out with my friends and me at the bar, and we talked one night and decided to start all over. This was what I had been waiting for and jumped on for the ride. We had a great couple of dates just doing the stuff we had always had (driving around listening to music, going to the bar/concerts, etc.). We had agreed that we were not going to be exclusive, and even though I wanted to have her all to myself, I knew that just dating her was better than nothing. That only lasted a few weeks because at one of the events at the bar with my friends, she brought her new "boyfriend". I was devestated that she would do something like that, and decided that it was best if I didn't even talk to her. Well, 5 months later, she called me out of the blue and told me that she had moved in with that guy, and how good she was doing. I told her that we needed to break off contact, and it's been about 3 months since then. I still think about her constantly, and just hearing one of the bands that she likes kills me.
I guess what I would have done differently is I would have put up with her visiting the guy in jail, or I would have completely cut off all contact a long time ago. Like they say, time heals all wounds.
2007-01-06 04:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Most Defintely! I met him April 06,2001 and I am still and always will be MADLY in LOVE with him. Its been a few years. If i could go back in time and fix this....I would MOST DEFINITELY trust him without a doubt, instead of accusing him, because of what my ex husband did to me.
2007-01-06 04:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-06 04:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i could go back in time i would never would of got with that person at all... cause I had to go throw alot just from being with that person.
2007-01-06 04:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it was a looooong time ago. I's ancient. What would I do differently. I wouldn't be so stuck up and high and mighty that's what. She asked Me out too. Crap. Oh well. Is your name Calladawn by any chance.....Please be Calladawn. What a beautiful name and women she was.
2007-01-06 04:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other people had interfered & it caused problems. We were soul mates, he was my first love & I could never love another man the same way. We were very serious wanted to marry. He still loves me and I love him. I would have told him what he meant to me, my life!
2007-01-06 04:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by MS. T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋