For 3 mothns i've been together with a wonderful boy who i love and who loves me BUT now i just don't feel that i want to be together with him!!!!!!!But when i want to tell him that's better to finish with our relationship i start beeing very nervous and start feeling that nevertheless i love him!!!!!
And there's one more problem:being with him affects my marks at school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So what should i do????
2007-01-05 20:22:41 · 5 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you loved him you wouldn't desire to end the relationship!! But my advice is to finnish it and focus on school at the moment.
2007-01-05 20:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by desajuno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let a boy affect your grades, because you'll look back 10 years from now, regretting this.
the love you feel for him is most likely that of a friend. it's fine to still be friends with him.
but ask yourself these questions
1. why are you still with him?
2. why do you not want to stay with him?
is he distracting? do you not have time for him?
just try to get it all over with in one quick burst. say, "i don't think we should be together anymore" you can just leave it like that or you can add a "because..." if you do it on AIM, it's more efficient because you can't take back something you've sent. what's sent is sent. and you don't have to worry about his reaction. the point of this is the get it out straightforwardly.
once you send the message, then you two can talk about it face to face.
2007-01-05 20:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by CrazySnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're trying to be false to your heart. you know that you love him a lot, but you wanna dump him becasue your marks are deteriorating. i dont believe this. you're lying to yourself. if you feel that dumping him would be the right decision, you must have done it by now.
2007-01-05 20:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you be unhappy.?and when he finds out that u don't wanna be with him anymore it will be SOOO much worse. my advice... break up, you'll both be hurt for awhile but you'll both get over it eventually.
i don't mean to be heartless but if you don't wnna be with him why would you want to put yourself through that.
2007-01-05 20:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him if your studies and ur happiness is affected then why to stay with him. its useless.
2007-01-06 02:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by docter death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋