Should i save my first time for my husband?

Question

I'm already 20 ,but i remain virgin,so some of my friends said i was too conservative.Sometimes i want to try too,but i can't .I don't want boys to touch me ,coz i want to share the pleasure with my soulmate-my future husband,but it's ironic because i never find him

Answer 1

Yes, you should! I'm doing the same thing. The peer pressure is supposed to be worse for a guy, right? Well, I don't give a damn. I'm saving myself for when I'm good and ready. Probably when I get married. So far, so good -- I'm already 21. Don't listen to your friends. They probably secretly regret doing what they did and they're rationalizing it. Good night!

Answer 2

I am 24 and still a virgin, Women have tried to take it from me and well they are no longer in my life, so its up to you. If you THINK he is the one then go ahead. I am more on a marriage thing too. Though society makes it look like virgins my age are only after one thing or that they are not normal. Well if you prefer aids and stuff hey thats normal. Also I don't want to do it yet. i do not like to treat women as objects so thats another reason. I prefer for it to be love not lust and well also It makes me uncomfortable to do girls who have been active. Sorry but thats how i feel. Its like kind of gross to not know where its been.

Answer 3

I recommend saving yourself for your husband. That is exactly what I am doing. I'm turning 27 in February and I am still a virgin and I don't regret it at all. I am willing to wait forever for my husband. Most of my friends who have lost their virginity outside of marriage have told me they regretted it. I applaud you for lasting as long as you have and I hope that you will wait for the marriage bed. Something a lot of folks don't think about is if you have a past, it is always held against you. Entering marriage pure leaves you free of accusations that could come up in your marriage otherwise. The freedom you have due to saving yourself is worth the wait. Trust me.

Answer 4

you do what you think is right. Men are out generally for one thing. if you met a man who was your soulmate A, you wouldn't want to wait till the wedding night, B, he would stay soulmates do! Untill that point I personally would wait.

Answer 5

nooooooooooo. don't let your friends pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.

yes yes yes, share the pleasure with your soulmate. it will be worth it!

and you're only 20, the chances of finding your perfect soulmale are very slim. he will come. just wait. :)

Answer 6

You should as a woman or you will regret it. Men is just like banks. They lose interest once withdrawal. Therefore, you should look at a maturity man. Do not marry him because he is handsome or rich. It is tough but there are really a few minority men there who are really sincere.

Answer 7

If you feel you are with your soulmate then go ahead, if not then don't waste your priceless virginity on someone your not sure of.

Answer 8

wait till you know he's the one. don't do it just because you're curious, as you may possibly feel regretful after that. if you're always looking out for love, it won't come. stay relaxed and let nature take its course. you're only 20, still young, still eligible! love will come :) all the best :)

Answer 9

i think u should not.becoz its an asset of ur future husband.but u could do it with ur boyfriend with whome you will get marry in future.so,save your first time for your husband if you do not have real boyfriend.i hope you found the solution,

Answer 10

you dont have to wait till your husband but atleast wait for someone you can trust and you know for sure that both of you feel the same way for each other