Singles & Dating - 3 January 2007

happen to visit a matrimonial websites and took a liking to a particular girl fully knowing that we have some common factors and lots of different issues. Thought long over it and then sent her an email hoping for some sort of a response. But the girl simply didn’t reply and i know for sure that she’s seen my message. Now I know that its her prerogative not to and she may well reject me … BUT it really hurts in my heart…I just been mopping over it for the past 2 weeks and wats worse ….I can’t seem to get over it…help !! (Pl save me the smart alec comments bcoz it would only aggravate the whole thing)

2007-01-03 17:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1

Well I'm trying to become friends with my ex bf and he said he's mad cuz I lied to him about another girl when he asked her out and I told him that she said no. Honestly I wasn't lying. I was there when he texted her! So he keeps giving me this saying.....Conspirors gain no dignity of my words...what does that mean?

2007-01-03 17:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2

It's not on stage or anything, but in theatre the term "love" is thrown around a lot. He's also kissed my hand, but I'm not sure if that's just him being cool or him having actual feelings for me.

2007-01-03 17:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by Firefly 2

2007-01-03 17:35:49 · 41 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4

here a letter to my bf can people tell me wat they think
When you asked me out I was so happy as from the first moment I met u I knew you had to be mine. You still make me happy but at moment when im alone and have time to think I get upset and I want to talk about things with you but I cant as you are busy and when I get to see you I get scared and don’t bring the problems up.
First I going to tell you something that no one else knows but it might explain why I get a bit needy sometimes ive had some bad experiances with men ive been mentally abused, cheated on, used and ive even been forced into sexual acts but I don’t want to talk about them as they my past and I want them to stay there but this is why I become needy sometimes as I feel safe when your around me.
The next is I have some question and possible solutions to your problems As I have pointed out before you seem distant to me recently I understand it because of work and stuff like that but it leaves me feeling forgottn

2007-01-03 17:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 17:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

(Since he is at college, we chat on the net.) A month ago we were talking, and he told me that he liked me. Even though he had a girlfriend (and I would NEVER go any further than this), I was honest and told him that I had liked him for a long time. His girlfriend has since broken up with him. So, every day he says something nice to me, but.... I can deal with his arrogance and temper, but it hurts. He also always tries to get me to do "things" with him, every day, even though I have already told him "no". And he talks about other girls all of the time, but when I mention a male name, he tells me not to. Sometimes I wish that I had never told him that I liked him. I still like him a lot, but.... We're both single, but I feel stuck. I'm very committed and loyal, but it's like I have a boyfriend with no benefits. When I like one guy, I don't like anyone else. But what if I lose interest, and like another? What would I do or say? Someone will get hurt, but I don't want to hurt him.

2007-01-03 17:32:06 · 26 answers · asked by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2

2007-01-03 17:31:42 · 25 answers · asked by Barlow 6

I am so cold. What do i do?

2007-01-03 17:31:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK , theres this guy that i really like buuuut there is a big problem him and my best friend are going out they have been going on and off for the past year or more andhe and i went out for a day and heres how it happened he had told me the day before that he loved me and i asked him if he really ment it he said yes because i am really pretty and smart and then my friend found out and she and him started to talk and he said that she had her chance and that it was my turn now they where not going out at the time and when my friend left he asked me out and i just looked at him and he just started screaming yah i got a girlfriend and i was thinking that i didnt evan give him a answer and then my other friend brittany called my best friend and told her that we where going out and the next day he hadnt told my friend the truth about him and what he did so we three wayed him that night and i was quiet and she asked him what really happened and he said that i was a lier so when we finally got him to confess and i want to know how to get him to like me and ask me out without hurting my bff so someone pllllllleeeeaaaassseee HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-03 17:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Audrey T 1

For the past 11 months, I have been in an amazing relationship with a wonderful guy. We changed eachother for the better, for one, I had gotten out of a rough patch just before we got together, and he brought back my smile. We were in love, from the beginning, but our first kiss really set it off for both of us. But today he decided that it was time for him to move on. He loved me at one point but for some reason he became unsure of his feelings for me (and I won't lie, this has been the third time in the last 2-3 months he has broken up with me because of this feeling). I've taken him back both times before because the way I feel about him. The love I have for him, comes not only from my mind, heart, and body, but from the depth of my soul. The last 2 times this has happened he came back to me with an apology and asking whole-heartedly if I would take him back.... I told him already that I wouldn't do that again, not this time. How do I face him (we see eachother everyday)? God bless

2007-01-03 17:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Girl 4 God 3

thers this girl and when i walk in the halls shes lookin at me striaght in my eyes .. i know she likes me.. but how do i approach her if shes walking fast in oppiste directions ( i only see her in the halls once in a while)

2007-01-03 17:28:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been together for 2 years but we have always been near each other. This fall I went to college which is an hour and a half away and it's been more stressful than ever. Any advice?

2007-01-03 17:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by Golfr 2

At the beginning of December, one of my best guy friends asked me to his dance. The week before the dance, everything was going great and he even told one of my friends that he really liked me. The dance was perfect, everything was amazing, and he kissed me a few times. But the week after, we hardly talked and everytime I asked him to hangout, he would say he was busy. It might be because he lives about 30 min. away ..but it's been about a month now and we STILL haven't hung out. It seems like he's not interested anymore ..so should I even try? I still want him as a best friend but I don't want to come off as trying to get together with him if I ask to hangout because I know that's what he'll think.

I mean, he kissed me and everything and I thought everything was perfect ..so, is it just me or is that just something that guys do...

2007-01-03 17:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by __ 2

My girlfriend slept with some one and now she is begging me to accept her, promising that she will remain true to me rest of my life.
I can’t accept this personally I need to forget her please advice me how I could this? I don’t have any second thought choosing another girl.

2007-01-03 17:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by jack k 1

ok i am 13 and all my friends have gf's and the only thing holding me back is shyness and i dont know how to overcome it and i know its the only thing holding me back because i have looks(myspace.com/gym dalton [ without the spaces] if you want to see a pic and i am athletic and smart(have the highest grades in my class and im in honors in 8th)

And another way that i know that girls like me is because the two girls called me dont even know what they look like were saying how hot i am and saying stuff like that.

I can talk on the phone just fine its just when im not on the phone is what is holding me back.

my friends are always saying how many girls i can have if i just open up and talk its just i cant do that.

can somebody help me?

please?!?!?

2007-01-03 17:25:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a crush on an old friend, we've been flirting alot, but i feel like i just have a puppy crush on him, kind of like a teenage girl would have on a boy. No love interest, no real lust, just a crush. sounds a little childish huh?

2007-01-03 17:25:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 17:23:09 · 17 answers · asked by dRafz 1

my girlfriend and I took some time apart and we hung out for the first time in 5 months. she said "I want to do right by you". i am confused. What was she trying to say?

2007-01-03 17:21:37 · 16 answers · asked by Rob 1

2007-01-03 17:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4

2007-01-03 17:18:08 · 3 answers · asked by xxxx 1

I use to have a boyfriend that would give me a 'code' so I knew when to bring along money... it was a complete turn-off.

In most relationships that I have had - I always expected the guy to pay for everything and then every once in a while I would pay for dates we had.

In my current relationship we go about half and half on expenses. We live about 300 miles apart so whenever he comes down here I pay for food, entertainment, and whatever else... and when I go out there he pays.

I'm just curious, how many people think that this setup is kosher...

Oh and one more question: Do you think it's odd for someone to get turned off when the subject of money comes up in a conversation?

2007-01-03 17:17:51 · 17 answers · asked by TalkingTomato 2

im in love with a guy and i have been for 4 years, he knows i like him cos we talk openly about it, and i know he finds me attractive cos hes told me he does, but when i asked him if anything could ever happen between us he says he has to many problems for a relationship. i know im just a booty call to him, but i still cant get over him.

2007-01-03 17:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Calebs Mummy 5

2007-01-03 17:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by YOLANDA T 1

You sit there in my shadows
And you call it your relief
Don't be the one with bad eyes for
The things that I could see
(Don't give me that)

The darkness has no armor
Need protection from the air
High hopes through time passing
When I see I want you there

I can't believe
You're the one for me
If it was this easy to find you
I should be ready for a fall
I should be ready for a fall

Now my wonders rally
Around the person I once was
Like a bird that I've been helping
Hope you're healed and strong
You never know when you might have to fly

Where will you go after me
Where will you go after I set you free
And I don't know you from a page in my book
Though I should
Though I should

Where will you go after me
Where will you go after I set you free
And I don't know you from a page in my book
Though I should

_______________________
he said the title was READY FOR A FALL

Geee...wouldnt you just fall in love with him?

2007-01-03 17:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you happy or just living day to day?

2007-01-03 17:12:38 · 20 answers · asked by Jace 4

2007-01-03 17:12:30 · 20 answers · asked by kay kay 1

Should I be stern with someone concerning how I feel about a certain action when it probably will hurt his/her feelings?

P.S. I know i'm right and they all need to hear it

2007-01-03 17:10:18 · 24 answers · asked by Samiam 4

My boyfriend and I are in the same after-work social activities together as is his ex-girlfriend (they broke up this time last year and we've been going out 2 months) whom I have been amicable with, if not friends for the past two years through this club.
Lately she's almost (it's been subtle but increasing) asking me whether I've slept with him, what's going on with our relationship etc (they broke up mutually (although she instigated it) because he wouldn't sleep with her so early into the relationship when she wanted to - they wanted different things) and i don't know what to say. I'm not good enough friends with her that I want to discuss my current relationship with her but she seems to think since she's his ex she is able to ask.
I'm cool with her still being friends with my bf, but these questions... it's all a bit awkward for me and I'm wondering how i can answer her and ward her off. Not sure if she's jealous or what... (i know she is very insecure about herself)
Thanks!

2007-01-03 17:10:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 17:07:53 · 19 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1