My boyfriend and I are in the same after-work social activities together as is his ex-girlfriend (they broke up this time last year and we've been going out 2 months) whom I have been amicable with, if not friends for the past two years through this club.
Lately she's almost (it's been subtle but increasing) asking me whether I've slept with him, what's going on with our relationship etc (they broke up mutually (although she instigated it) because he wouldn't sleep with her so early into the relationship when she wanted to - they wanted different things) and i don't know what to say. I'm not good enough friends with her that I want to discuss my current relationship with her but she seems to think since she's his ex she is able to ask.
I'm cool with her still being friends with my bf, but these questions... it's all a bit awkward for me and I'm wondering how i can answer her and ward her off. Not sure if she's jealous or what... (i know she is very insecure about herself)
Thanks!
2007-01-03 17:10:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Intimacy is something between you and your bf. Since she's a friend with the club and worst, your bf's ex; I reckon you have to be extra-careful.
Not that you dont trust your bf or her, but precauton is better than cure. We do not invite chances for things to happen. Why invite trouble?
Do tell your bf about the questions you are encountering and laugh it off with him... He knows best why he left the past relationship and chose you...
:)
2007-01-03 17:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool down. inform you new boyfriend first, and luxuriate interior the marriage. sure and so what everybody is conscious everybody. focus on the bride and groom and your new boyfriend. in case you ex is lingering around them, then you truly and your boyfriend can bypass as much as them and congratulate them on there nuptials. You 2 are no longer jointly anymore. And if he starts off something forget approximately with the aid of fact it's going to make him appear like the fool. have relaxing and each little thing would be ok. you do no longer ought to understand everybody at a marriage yet you could mingle and get to appreciate human beings. have relaxing communicate over with the individuals at your table.
2016-11-26 02:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop being a punk. and as to whether or not you've slept with the dude...tell her it's none of her business. she's the jealous sort who ends a relationship and then doesn't want the guy to find someone else. it's sad. and stop being friends with her. she's the enemy as far as you are concerned. and tell your boyfriend about this and that it's bothering you.
2007-01-03 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Moyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything, just laugh it off like yeah, I'm not telling you that. Or tell her, honestly, that you aren't comfortable talking about it. Either way, you will only hurt her feelings if you have slept with him and she'll feel more insecure about herself. Frankly, I think I'd tell her if you haven't.
2007-01-03 17:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL SHE HIS EX, AND SHE DOES NOT HAVE A
RIGHT TO ASK YOU ANYTHING ABOUT HIM. IT REALLY
NONE OF HER BUSINESS. AND YOU SHOULD TELL HERTHAT, IF SHE WANT TO KNOW WHAT GOING ON
THEN LET YOUR BOYFRIEND TELL HER. OTHERWISE
TELL HER TO GET A LIFE.
2007-01-03 17:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um keep your friends close and enemies closer watch out tell her nothing about you and him shes fishing babe..keep him away
2007-01-03 17:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to ask him.
2007-01-03 17:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋