Singles & Dating - 3 January 2007

Or does he think I'm just yucky?

It's just that one time we and a lot of people went out of town. There were shortages of beds in the place where we're spending our night. Some guys and girls slept on sleepings bags on the floor inside a common room.

I was lucky enough to sleep on a bed ine one of the very few girls' room. Then one of the organizers of the event told this guy that he doesn't have to sleep on the floor in the common room for this second night coz he could sleep on the bed. He knows this bed is inside the girls' room. he was happy with that one but when he found out, he'll be sleeping beside me, he was like , 'WHAT? WHY HER? UM, NO, I'LL JUST SLEEP ON THE FLOOR IN THE COMMON ROOM."

the next day, my girlfriend told me not to be offended about it coz he was probably just being a gentleman.

I'm wondering, was he expecting a guy to sleep beside him so he was like 'no way' when he found out about me?

Or does he think i'm unattractive?

2007-01-03 19:27:13 · 20 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3

2007-01-03 19:26:42 · 28 answers · asked by veer 1

What would you think??
From my girlfriend....to some dude I don't know--


" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again today though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"


Thoughts?? Which lines are the most alarming

2007-01-03 19:24:23 · 15 answers · asked by joe d 1

some guys say its a girls smile.
or the way they laugh.


but for YOU
what is it that makes you reallyyy like a girl.

2007-01-03 19:23:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was visiting my gf of 5 yrs this week and I noticed she left her email open so I peaked into her sent emails. I know this was wrong, but this was the message I found. It was from her to some guy named Greg on Dec 10th.

" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again tofay though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"

I asked her and she said he is a friend who lives out of town who she got flirty with. She said it was nothing but got too intense and she ended the friendship. She said nothing physical happened

2007-01-03 19:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by joe d 1

I was visiting my gf of 5 yrs this week and I noticed she left her email open so I peaked into her sent emails. I know this was wrong, but this was the message I found. It was from her to some guy named Greg on Dec 10th.

" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again tofay though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"

Ok I confronted her and she said he is a friend who lives out of town who she got flirty with. She said it got too intense and she ended the friendship. She said nothing physical happened???

2007-01-03 19:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by joe d 1

I'm 21, and I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He's older than me, and has a lot more sexual experience. I'm the 11th person he's slept with... and he's the only one I've EVER slept with! I love him a lot, and I can see myself being with him forever, but I can't stop thinking about this! He gets upset when I try to talk about it. I don't want to break up with him and become a ho... but I don't know how to stop obsessing!

What should I do?

2007-01-03 19:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know, but being at the age i am now of 21 the older i'm starting to get the more respect i'm losing for females around my age in general. By respect I mean that, while it seems like i'm sort of maturing, bettering myself, going to school, etc as time goes by they seem to be dumbing down and degrading themselves even more. The way they dress is ridiculous, it's one thing to do it when you're in you're in your teens but it's less and less "cute as i'm getting older and more just like a ridiculous cry for attention. And have you ever tried to talk to some of them, they're incapable of an intelligent conversation, they don't have much of a clue as to anything going on in the world, have a low vocab, and don't even seem to care about anyone else but themselves. All i'm saying is that it's impossible to FIND A LADY now a days. A LADY can be sexy as well as smart, not like msot of these bimbos running around. Too many girls wanting to be Britney Spears and Lidnsey Lohan, pathetic.

2007-01-03 19:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by ev 1

I have a bride (Girlfriend) for 18 months now, and she have decided to forget our relationship because some of our family members didn’t approve it. But at the same time our parent support us 100%, but some of the family members are opposed and the problem is that in our culture we need the approval of at lease 80% of the family but we didn’t have even 35%. And 75% of the family wants her married to her cousin.

Forgetting this story we love each other very very much but we don’t know what to do and how, because we don’t want to go out of our culture and tradition and we need the whole family support.

And other problem is that we didn’t even leave in the same country, she leave in the USA and I leave in AFRICA but came from the same country.

My question is what would I do to make them understand?

2007-01-03 19:15:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 19:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2

I'm talking about called every single day, so much that you just got to the point that you hung up as soon as she said "hi"! Then calls years later to say she's sorry for that &explains that she's a different person now...??

2007-01-03 19:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... theres this guy i used to like a LOT, i mean we were pretty happy, but we were never together, but we did liked each other, we would like say it to each other all the time. So now hes moved, and hes was like tellin everyone he doesnt like me anymore, so i tried to talked to him(this happened like a long time ago).. and he told me that he still liked me ...but i didnt like him anymore because of his jerkness...after that the last time i talked to him he told me that he didnt like me anymore....and i just dont know what to say...im not an angry person...but im tired of him stepping all over me! i need advice! what am i sopposed to do? o say? i dont know how to fight back :S

2007-01-03 19:10:17 · 1 answers · asked by PuNk RoCkEr GuRL 2

2007-01-03 19:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does it take all day long to drive from LA to Tijuana with hardly any traffic? Everyone knows it only takes maybe 2 hours....

Also, I have personally tried to have relations (s*x) with my girlfriend (now wife) while driving and wow! it was pretty much the most uncomfortable position..and completely unsafe...

Can this really be done?

2007-01-03 19:08:29 · 8 answers · asked by TONY 4

One thing I find odd about dating is the whole "being exclusive" thing. My impression of it is if a couple do not agree to be "exclusive" even if they're considered "dating" they can see other people. If that's true, then what's the point of being with someone if you're just going to do what you did when you were single?

If that's not true, please explain.

2007-01-03 19:08:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says he just 'likes me a lot"...we know and hang out with each others family--he's met my child, hangs out at my place all the time. Wines and dines me, take me on trips, says theres potential in our relationship BUT he just 'likes me"...IM CONFUSED...and it gets complicated because we're both each other's first exclusive significant other after our first love...

2007-01-03 19:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by Waiting to Scream* 2

2007-01-03 19:01:44 · 20 answers · asked by Sparky 2

I went to the movies with my friend and he actually went and checked what was showing. he asked me like twice a day for 3days if the time was still ok with me and the place. he was also a bit more nervous than the other time we went to watch cricket (both families went together).

2007-01-03 18:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by viciousmishious 1

Well...my bf doesnt like to talk..he can hardly listen, like most guys. But once he starts reading...he can focus on that. I have been trying to talk to him forever about our relationship problems....so I am going to write it out. I dont know where to start, I find evreytime i start writing..it turns out being me just complaining....how can I write/start a long explaining letter...Thanks for answerign it is really appreciated.

2007-01-03 18:58:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy; and fall in love with him for over a year everything was great, he bought joy into my life but I never thought the day will come when my 17year old boyfriend will become homeless and I will not see him again. I stay up every night crying and using my best intelligent to find him, it been almost tree years now but yet still it feels like yesterday. I tried moving on for some reason I can't cuz I feel guilty about what happen even though it was beyond my control. I ran out of idea about how I could get looking for him I need help please help me?

2007-01-03 18:58:24 · 14 answers · asked by phille 1

any tips ?
im willing to do anything.
we already have a FANTASTIC sex life.
but im willing to take it farther.
what do you think will impress him.

2007-01-03 18:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a new guy at my girlfriend's work. My girlfriend and him started talking and stuff and added each other on facebook. One day, she told me that "she doesn't know if she's flirting with him." Next few days she IMs him saying that she broke up with me when we never did. She said that we "broke up" because of some stupid little thing. I discovered this on her IMs. I got mad and stuff. She told me that she likes him. After telling the guy the truth, my girlfriend gets mad. Now the guy acts sad and doesn't look at her; for some reason I think he's trying to get attention. He left comments on my girlfriend's facebook and continues to poke her even after "he doesn't care anymore" or he's mad. I have a feeling that the guy wants to be with my girlfriend and I want to try to find a way to stop it. She's working with him this Saturday almost a full shift. I want to know what's going on when I'm not around. Never in her life she was mad at me about something like this. HELP!

2007-01-03 18:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by Sir Guitarist 2

I take some meds but they rarly work what do i do

it makes my skin peel like a reptiles skin and makes my vison distorted

2007-01-03 18:57:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

please answer :). thank you!

2007-01-03 18:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by Curious John 1

2007-01-03 18:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2

2007-01-03 18:56:37 · 7 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2

i have been going out with this girl for bout 5 years, we even engaged last year. i was in love with her. but my love for her has now turn from love to care for her.she is really happy to spend her whole life with me and taking care me. but now i met a girl that i really in love with. both of us think that we are made for each others, both of us think that we complete each other.i feel my life will be empty without her. really dunno what to do, or how to tell my girl. both of them love me. i'm now torn between responsibility and happiness

2007-01-03 18:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by lee m 1

ok here is the situation I’m with this girl who I have been going out with off and on for 2 and 1/2 years we used to work at the same place and about a month ago I quit to join the military I asked her to go with me she said no, and the other thing she said once your settled ill think about it her mom is a crack head and abusive toward my girlfriend but my girlfriend is still attached to the umbilical cord and always treats me like **** compared to her family what should I do?

2007-01-03 18:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

each other every 2 or 3 weeks. it will be like this for a whole year. can we keep our relationship strong?

2007-01-03 18:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by katie l 2

Hi you all, I was just curious here about 3 weeks ago, while I was working I see there was a new guy at the office and I had to give him some documents. Anyway the thing is that he looked at me in a very special way, and I must admit I enjoyed it. He is handsome but not the type of man I would date. First of all he looks older than me I have never dated a guy much older than me. at the most 1 year older tops.
But every time I see him he always tries to say hi to me and always smiles in a sweet way. I might be just me who knows lol. How on earth can I tell if he is interested. But we also work together so I dont want to push this too far since is work and dont want to get in troubble. But damn this is killing me lol. Anyway any tips please send them my way. He smiled again today he does say hello to me as soon as he sees me. But he is probably just being polite. Send me your coments please or advise on how to figure this out if there is anything to figure out lol. : ) thanks

2007-01-03 18:49:51 · 1 answers · asked by Sandy E 1