he says he just 'likes me a lot"...we know and hang out with each others family--he's met my child, hangs out at my place all the time. Wines and dines me, take me on trips, says theres potential in our relationship BUT he just 'likes me"...IM CONFUSED...and it gets complicated because we're both each other's first exclusive significant other after our first love...
2007-01-03 19:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by Waiting to Scream* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are afraid of two words: Love and Commitment. Just enjoy him, the things he does for you, the way he makes you feel, the way he is with your child and appreciate that "he likes you a lot". Months is a very short time in one's lifetime...don't rush him, especially because you are both out of "first love" relationships. Give him space and if it is to be, he'll tell you he loves you in his own time and space. Enjoy and good loving.
2007-01-03 19:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good. Especially after "months." Being confused is not a good state to be in with regard to a relationship. Don't you want something easier than "confused?" Something more concrete? A situation where the man who wines and dines you, meets your kids, and says there is potential doesn't just "like" you? How much time do you want to spend with this guy who just "likes" you? It's your call, but I see this as a waste of your emotional energy. He doesn't sound like he wants to commit.
2007-01-03 19:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it has not developed into anything serious by now, it probably won't. Tell him you need "your space" to date others and he should do the same. Maybe he just wants the security of having someplace to hang out and needs female companionship. If you are not willing to do that and want a real relationship, move on.
2007-01-03 19:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love takes time. He's being honest which is good. People are in too much of a hurry and want everything now. He is getting to know you and probably wants to be sure you are the one before he commits to an I love you.
2007-01-03 19:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to be confused about? He says flat out that he likes you alot. What more could you want from a person than such honesty and openness?
2007-01-03 19:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's not as exclusive as you think he is? It's obvious he's not ready to commit to anything more serious than just "liking". Don't get too involved in this, be prepared to explore other possibilities.
2007-01-03 19:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just enjoy the moment - don't be desperate. If you meet someone else in the meantime then so be it but don't get desperate. Be thankful he is honest.
2007-01-03 19:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy what you have and see where things go. What do you want him to do?
2007-01-03 19:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear that sends up some red flags to me.
check to see if this guy is married. seriously
2007-01-03 19:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is afraid of commetment and if he just likes you tell him you love him see his response
2007-01-03 19:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋