There is a new guy at my girlfriend's work. My girlfriend and him started talking and stuff and added each other on facebook. One day, she told me that "she doesn't know if she's flirting with him." Next few days she IMs him saying that she broke up with me when we never did. She said that we "broke up" because of some stupid little thing. I discovered this on her IMs. I got mad and stuff. She told me that she likes him. After telling the guy the truth, my girlfriend gets mad. Now the guy acts sad and doesn't look at her; for some reason I think he's trying to get attention. He left comments on my girlfriend's facebook and continues to poke her even after "he doesn't care anymore" or he's mad. I have a feeling that the guy wants to be with my girlfriend and I want to try to find a way to stop it. She's working with him this Saturday almost a full shift. I want to know what's going on when I'm not around. Never in her life she was mad at me about something like this. HELP!
2007-01-03 18:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by Sir Guitarist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and I love her with all my heart. She had a bad past of boyfriends and guys (sorry no details too personal). She told me she liked another guy before and told him that she liked him too. But that grew old and she hates his guts. I don't know what to do with myself. I want to trust her, but her past has caused her to be what she was like... I wish I can make her focus more on our relationship than what others feel or what her image is at work. How come she doesn't want to listen to me or threatens to break up when me when I talk about it??? Am I doing something wrong? I know I have went through her facebook and myspace because I was curious, but is there anything I'm doing wrong? It's breaking my heart and I don't know what to do. Everyday she tells me how much she loves me, but is there someone else in mind? I wish I can get in her mind to see... Please I need any advice... please. I really don't want this relationship to die...
2007-01-03 19:12:12 · update #1
It's tearing me apart... We been through a lot together... we fell in love and stuck together through good and bad... is it me honestly? What bothers me is her sudden change of attitude and tone of voice when she's around people or there's other guys around her... like she's trying to say something. I'm not trying to say she's a bad girl... she stuck by me through tons of hard times in high school and college... I want her to forget her past... okay she slept around and was very outgoing... she said she was wild and had no care. But when she met me, she shaped up to become a better person who cares about her future and stuff....
2007-01-03 19:16:57 · update #2
She's mad at YOU?! If your upsessing and its dystroying your realationship maybe i can see that, i say you have a big talk with her, and really listen to her side, if she's being dumb though maybe you guys should break up if it's that bad.
2007-01-03 19:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, usually my answer would be give her another chance but this time dump her. If she told him that you broke up to see what he would do then its not worth running after her. You need to find someone who wants to be with you and not the rest of the world while with you! She's only staying with you until she finds someone else.
Unless you hide under her desk or ask this guy full out whats going on you'll never know. dont waste your time waiting!
2007-01-03 19:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the chance to be honest,,,let her know if she doesnt want to date you anymore thats fine as long as you know the truth because lying about it will only make things worse and you feel you deserve someone who actually wants to be with you not someone who dare not speak the truth and if she does want to be with you she needs to stop this flirting as it is hurting you.it may be painful to be told she wants to end it but better that than you sat at home worrying about who she is seeing and what she is doing.
2007-01-03 19:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well man from experience it sounds like she is interested in this guy? and if thats the case then u have to step back and let her decide u or the other guy. cause u cant control your girlfriends feelings. plus theirs millions of other women who will except you for who you are. so hope the best man.
2007-01-03 19:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by ningamunkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like a sign that she might be cheating on you in the future. You should ask her and if this continues then dump her. You deserve better.
2007-01-03 19:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋