Well...my bf doesnt like to talk..he can hardly listen, like most guys. But once he starts reading...he can focus on that. I have been trying to talk to him forever about our relationship problems....so I am going to write it out. I dont know where to start, I find evreytime i start writing..it turns out being me just complaining....how can I write/start a long explaining letter...Thanks for answerign it is really appreciated.
2007-01-03 18:58:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write everything out in bullet points then go through and pick which is the most important and start with that and go on from there.
2007-01-03 19:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for saying this but if there is no communication in a relationship there is no relationship if you write all you have to say whats the point if he doesnt respond verbally. mean is he going to write you back????? you shoul dreconsider your relationship with him its obvious he doesnt want to continue on. by the way its not true that most guys dont listen if your were hale berry or christina agulera you wouldnt be able to pull them away from a conversation. he wants to move on but isnt man enough to tell you.
2007-01-04 03:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. Just write a few things to get his attention then cut the letter short...
Make the curiosity rise in him. He'll open up and and come up with a response.
Especially if he cares about you. He'll pay more attention to your needs. Believe me!
2007-01-04 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. i do this all the time cause my fiancee dont listen for crap....
i jus start out ... baby u knowi love you but there are some things in our relationship that we need to discuss. and then go on about whats wrong and how u think that yall can come togther and fix the problem and ask him to write what he is feelin also!
it works for me
2007-01-04 03:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it short, like this:
Listen jerk, If you aren't going to have a real conversation about our relationship, I'll I've got to say is bye bye, because this isn't going to cut it.
Now, I know that sounds rude, but how ridiculous to be with someone who you can't talk to, and actually have him listen. Is he four years old?
2007-01-04 03:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Sit down and put your feet up.This letter will take awhile and I want you to relax and think about it."
Now write things in terms of you. Instead of saying "You look disgusting when you wear dirty wrinkled t-shirts" say, "I feel like you do not respect me when you take me out on dates wearing dirty wrinkled t-shirts"
Also, start off with some things that you do like about him.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 03:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the letter by using his first name : like below : Tony,
......................
Then sign it like so : Respectfully,
ME
It works every time. You say his name, you tell him exactly what you want to say, and you end it with respect. It can't go wrong ! Think about it !!
2007-01-04 03:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect opening line: "Have you gotten lots of sleep? This may take a while..."
2007-01-04 03:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that's not a good sign.
I would not ever write - what should be said face-to-face.
2007-01-04 03:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋