Singles & Dating - 2 January 2007

where do you like it and where do you want the guy to finnish? and
why?

2007-01-02 09:06:50 · 13 answers · asked by kev-O 1

My bf wants me to use the pill so that I don't get pregnant and I am also not ready for having a baby...but this whole thing is giving me mixed feelings.
Prob is, I just turned 30 and do need to think about my future - I do want to have a family and raise children in the next few years as my biological clock is ticking. However, my current bf has no intention of having children - well, at least with me! Hm.
I'd be totally okay with this if I were younger but like, when I think about the future ahead of me, my mind tells me that I should look for someone who does want children and who will think of the future, even if things don't work out in the end...instead of being with someone just because it's fun.
But I also feel SO weird thinking about children so much...I wish I didn't have to think ahead... Am I just being desperate or am I being rational, considering my age? Am I wasting my time being with him or worrying too much about my age and the unpredictable future?

2007-01-02 09:06:15 · 19 answers · asked by Princess Marianna 1

... (and she deserves the trust) How would you be ok with her moving in with 2 guys?

(The reasons she needs to move to that place have to do with cost and location; she has NO interest in either of the other roommates!)

2007-01-02 09:06:10 · 1 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

There is this amazingly hott guy in my classes, and I adore him. I have been crushing on him for a long long time! He talks to me sometimes in this one class. But in my last class I have with him, we are always talking. If we aren't talking he sometimes stares at me. He will occationly stare at me so I will look at him and then he'll smile and we will kinda have a mini staring contest. My best friend say he totally likes me. But there is one problem. His x-girlfriend is still in to him, since he broke up with her. She is always flirting with him, and i sometimes him with his arm around her. But when he sees me he quickly removes his arm. But she will put it back on his arm asap. Does he like me or her?!

2007-01-02 09:04:28 · 35 answers · asked by xoxo77 2

Ok, here's the deal. I am in love with my best guy friend. And he knows I like him.
Last night, I posted a bulletin on Myspace saying "I don't think I love him anymore." He messaged me back, asking me why I don't like the guy anymore. I said it was because he was too far away and I could never have him.
His reply was "Oh...umm...well I'm glad that you're moving on. Do I know this guy?"
I said, "I doubt it." He said, "Oh. Ok. Well."
And then we stopped talking for the night. This morning, he called me, asking if I wanted to come over and spend the day with him. I declined, because I was busy. He seemed very sad and when I asked him why doesn't he ask his girlfriend, he said that he didn't feel like it.
A few days ago on New Years Eve, as soon as the ball dropped, he called me and wished me a happy New Years. I asked him this morning if he ever called his girlfriend, and he said "Uh...no...I was busy."

2007-01-02 09:04:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i really need to know if this guy named nick is into me. here are some convos that me, him, and someother ppl had together. (collin is a person whos really mean to me, i play in the band w/ collin and nick)
1. collin: get out of my seat, MOVE. i hate you
me:im not moving
collin: omg MOVE
me: no...
nick: ok collin, chill out. thats not ur seat, and you cant hate her.
collin: fine
2. (my friend kd asked him out 4 me, this is that convo)
kd:so, do u want to go out with (me)?
nick: why? (like he didnt believe her)
kd: cuz she likes you
nick: oooooo (like he FINALLY got it) well i have to go to my group now...
kd: ok, tell her after break
nick: ok.

and he walked off smiling. and kindof a dazed confused look on his face lol. and there was another time. me and the band do this huddle/prayer thing where we put our arms around eachother. it was my first time practicing with the band, and i happened to be next to nick.

2007-01-02 09:03:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We went on a few dates and after some awkward advances, I told him that it was uncomfortable. He agreed and suggested we just be friends. Now he gets upset that I don't call him and blames me for his feelings of rejection. I told him that I've lost trust in him and that I now need boundaries, time to think and a little distance. Today he called me at WORK~ to ask if he could take me out to dinner on Friday. I said "no". He then suggested Thursday...I reluctantly agreed because of a hidden agenda to have another "Talk".... This "Friendship" isn't "Friendly". How can I create distance in our friendship without looking like a total *****. I told him that I cared about him and I do - but I HATE all his expectations that are place upon me. I think he is really selfish.

2007-01-02 09:03:46 · 2 answers · asked by gloryenoch 3

I met this Jewish guy, but I've been raised in a Catholic family. I'm not sure how strict he is, or he has Jewish heritage, but I'm wondering if this would pose a problem? I hope this isn't wrong of me to ask!

2007-01-02 09:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by c h i l l 1

1. Will the majority of girls be turned off/disgusted by the fact that the male is 26 and a virgin.

3. Should the male lie. I am assuming girls will be very bothered by the fact that he is 26 and a virigin.

What do girls think?

PEZ

2007-01-02 09:03:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

And do you use lincoln logs?

2007-01-02 09:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2

Hi I'm having this boy problem at my school i'm in 8th he's in 7th. I would really like 2 know your advice he doesn't look at my face when we pass each other he looks at my side i think he shy. He ignores me he used 2 stare at me not more.

2007-01-02 09:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Incredible 3

to sleep with someone on the first date?

What is your normal time frame for this type of physical contact?

2007-01-02 09:00:53 · 25 answers · asked by City slicker 5

my lil sis who is 15 is going out with a guy who is also 15 but he doesnt like to talk to her or when he does it's one word responses they dont even talk on the phone I told her to dump him but i dunno what do u think??

2007-01-02 09:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

Im scared of having sex!!
i have never done it before but me and my boyfriend are going to do it soon!
please help....
is it scary at first.??
is there anything i MUST do? or must not???
help please!!

2007-01-02 09:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by rb 1

2007-01-02 08:59:04 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah 2

Recently, my bf of 2 years confessed that his feelings were fading for me - in a sense that he doesn't feel any more excitement when he sees me and thinks of me on a much lesser basis and also the feelings were generally fading. However, when i asked if he wants to end this relationship, he said no and that he loves me. I am so confused..
I don't understand what is going on, this is my first serious relationship and i really want to make things work but i m at a lost. I feel quite hurt upon hearing that actually. Is this a transistion point for relationships or does such behaviour spell doom for the relationship?

2007-01-02 08:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 08:58:13 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

(My brother wants to know but he doesnt want his own account.)
he says: "I cant talk to girls in a comfortable way how can i overcome this?do they think i'm ugly?"

2007-01-02 08:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in a solid realtionship that has been 5 years, but have met someone else and fallen for them big time. I still think the world of my girlfriend and thought she was the one, but there is a very special connection with this girl i've met. She came on to me, and since we clicked and had a wicked couple of months of fun, she really makes me happy when i'm around her, really special girl. Anyway, she's at uni and has moved to France and she decided to finish it due to long distance stuff etc etc, which is probably the best thing to do as i was finding it imposible to finish with my girl friend and a year away in France is a long time to keep a realationship going. But i can not get this girl out of my head!!! Am i feeling true love or what??? feeling emotions not felt before. Is it the rejection of it finishing or am i just seeking something extra from my present relationship?? i've kept contact with her as friends so i can think, but she now says what a great friend i am.

2007-01-02 08:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by Davey 1

Ok, my best friend who is a boy, I have weird feelings I don't know anymore.

Here are the feelings:
1. I think about him all the time
2. When we were on a 3-day trip, all I could think of one one night was saying 'I Love You...' to this boy.
3. I get jealous when he's with other girls he just considers his friends (he told me he cared about me and i'm his best girl friend)
4. My 'friend' said he called her 'hot' and even though she was lying, I still got really jealous.
5. (A WEIRD ONE!) I think about me and him when we listen to a romantic song, such as Cascada - Truly Madly Deeply.

But another weird thing, I haven't told ANYONE about it because they would either pick on me for it, tell everyone, or everyone would interfere.

2007-01-02 08:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by xxsleepy_starxx 2

why. Could something be bothering him about family problems or things of that sort? He said that there was nothing wrong with us dating and he said that he has had lots of fun with me, but he didnt tell me that the wanted to break up with me in person. He broke up with me over the computer. Could he be hiding something? He just ended it for no apparent reason and wont tell me why, even though he seemed happy with me and he said so. Two days later, he argues with me on the computer because I asked him if he used me more than once and all the said was hmm. I don't understand. Does he want me to suffer because he keeps asking me if I am ok about it? Could this be all him?

2007-01-02 08:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by Rose 1

2007-01-02 08:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by DOC. 2

2007-01-02 08:54:13 · 30 answers · asked by just1more 3

I have just started seeing my boyfriend, we haven't been together long but we are really into each other.

We haven't had sex yet because I need to have an operation and I can't have sex beforehand as it will hurt or for a while afterwards. On top of this there is a chance I may be infertile.

I haven't told him the reason. As we have only just started seeing each other I am scared of how he will react to this and I am embarrassed to tell him. I know he would be understanding but i am worried how this will affect our relationship and whether it is all to heavy for the beginning.

Also I am scared he won't find me as attractive if he finds all of this out.

Please can anyone help or advise me?

2007-01-02 08:53:42 · 28 answers · asked by Rosie 3

I am Iranian and she is Japanese. We are both Asian. Do they not understand? I get frustrated when people stare at me with my girlfriend

2007-01-02 08:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 08:52:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm so weak and pathetic,i wish i could just forget him,my heart is numb and i feel like i'm going crazy,why did he promise me things and then go and hurt me like this. I'm sitting here alone in my room praying for a better day tomorrow,i know i wont sleep again tonight. How do you cope with a broken heart?did you ever get over it?

2007-01-02 08:51:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a lovely guy about a 2 months ago who seemed to really like me. It wasnt love at first sight for me but I did like him and wanted to give it a go. He lives quiet a bit away and was going home for xmas. Gave me his no before he went and asked me to txt him. The night he left I went to a party and met a guy who was absolutely gorgeous to me. It was love at first sight. I got talking to him and have met him several times in the last 3 weeks. I havent txt guy 1 all over xmas nd now guy 2 is starting to show his true colours and is playing games with my head already. Still I'd rather be with him. Why do I always go for the guy thats going to hurt me.

2007-01-02 08:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by Bettyboo 1

2007-01-02 08:49:36 · 54 answers · asked by yahoo report nazi 1

1. I am positive that I am outgoing and charisamatic.

2. I am clueless with how to begin the entire online dating "setting up the date" Process.

3. Any strategies at all? What should STEP 1 be?

4. What do you say in the INITIAL email to the lovely gal? Do you comment on her looks? Do you comment on your life?

5. Is it better to be blunt/upfront and cut to the chase on these online dating sites?

PEZ

2007-01-02 08:48:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous