why. Could something be bothering him about family problems or things of that sort? He said that there was nothing wrong with us dating and he said that he has had lots of fun with me, but he didnt tell me that the wanted to break up with me in person. He broke up with me over the computer. Could he be hiding something? He just ended it for no apparent reason and wont tell me why, even though he seemed happy with me and he said so. Two days later, he argues with me on the computer because I asked him if he used me more than once and all the said was hmm. I don't understand. Does he want me to suffer because he keeps asking me if I am ok about it? Could this be all him?
2007-01-02 08:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's so much of a wussy that he had to break up over the computer....move on to someone a LIL MORE mature......not worth worrying over.
2007-01-02 08:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by dr_greybeard 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who knows why he abruptly ended it. He might have another he wants to see more, or he is not interested after he went out with you.
Why bang your head against the wall trying to figure out why he does not want to date you anymore.
Not everyone is going to like you, no matter how wonderful you may be.
Some people do not click and there's nothing more to it than that.
Forget it. It's only been one week.
PS..The SATC episode called, "He's just not into you" is misleading.
The guy in the episode was into Miranda...he just had the stomach flu and that is why he did not invite her up to his place.
Nice trivia there.
2007-01-02 17:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by *Lovely* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. Yes, he is probably hiding something. And, why would you care about someone who would break up over the computer. If you keep badgering him you will just look like a fool. Take your power back and find someone who knows how to act like a human being.
2007-01-02 16:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but I'm going to be blunt.
It's because he's done with you. Nothing you say or do will change that. If you keep pursuing him you will seem irrational and will be like a stalker.
Your best bet is to let this guy go and get on with your life.
FP
2007-01-02 16:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whenever someone doesn't want to date you anymore its because they just aren't that into you. Dont try to make it more than it is. Just move on. Its only been a week and they guy couldn't even tell you in person. What do you need this guy for ?
2007-01-02 17:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dated for a week, let it go. His reasons are his own and apparently he doesn't want to share them. Just accept that for whatever reason(s) y'all are not a good match.
Move on...if you are doing any "suffering" it's because you are choosing to. A 1 week long association is NOTHING to suffer over.
Move on...better things lie ahead!
2007-01-02 16:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It was only a week. Cut your losses and get on with your life. There are plenty of people out there to meet.
2007-01-02 16:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't want a relationship. You were only together a week - nothing to lose sleep over.
2007-01-02 16:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember that Sex in the City segment: "Hes just not that into you"? Well hes not. NO biggie, not everytime that you have a date does it lead to anything else. Drop him, his ego needs to know hes ahead with you, but its not up to you to make him happy.
2007-01-02 17:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weird. Family problems could be a possibility, or even worse, he could be cheating on you. Or he was just using you.
2007-01-02 16:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by xxsleepy_starxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋