We went on a few dates and after some awkward advances, I told him that it was uncomfortable. He agreed and suggested we just be friends. Now he gets upset that I don't call him and blames me for his feelings of rejection. I told him that I've lost trust in him and that I now need boundaries, time to think and a little distance. Today he called me at WORK~ to ask if he could take me out to dinner on Friday. I said "no". He then suggested Thursday...I reluctantly agreed because of a hidden agenda to have another "Talk".... This "Friendship" isn't "Friendly". How can I create distance in our friendship without looking like a total *****. I told him that I cared about him and I do - but I HATE all his expectations that are place upon me. I think he is really selfish.
2007-01-02 09:03:46 · 2 answers · asked by gloryenoch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit meeting with him. Quit talking to him. Just let the whole thing be done with.
2007-01-02 09:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about his feelings. He already agreed to just be friends. Just re-dump him and lose all contact with him for a while (or forever if you wish).
2007-01-02 09:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋