1. Will the majority of girls be turned off/disgusted by the fact that the male is 26 and a virgin.
3. Should the male lie. I am assuming girls will be very bothered by the fact that he is 26 and a virigin.
What do girls think?
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2007-01-02 09:03:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most woman would really respect a man's courage to stay a virgin until your age/marriage! I wouldn't come right off the bat in telling a girl on the first date or maybe not even the second, but when you are comfortable enough and close enough with your mate, go ahead and tell them. If they're into you, they won't care.
2007-01-02 09:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Momof3boys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there's anything wrong with that. Actually, that's amazing and it's kinda bad that it's amazing. I mean today not a lot of people choose to wait for marriage or to wait very long at all and if a guy is 26 and a virgin that's a big accomplishment. But it is a sad thing that it's an accomplishment nowadays to be a virgin. But yeah, nothing is wrong with that and the guy shouldn't lie because a girl will know if he's a virgin or not if anything happens.
2007-01-02 09:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it all depends on how mature the girl is. Some girls may be turned off but others may think its a great thing! When I met my boyfriend who was 21 at the time, he was a virgin and I thought it was great. I was a virgin at the time also so that could have been part of it. I think you should be honest about it, if a girl freaks out then you wont want to be with her anyway. If you find a mature, nice girl then she wont have any problem with your virginity. Personally, I see it as a plus. She doesn't have to worry about who you have been with before her, less chance of STD's and she has a clean slate to work with.
Hope you find someone who will accept you for you!
2007-01-02 09:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Positively Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 26 12 months previous male and that i'm a virgin. i in my opinion am greater attracted to somebody as quickly as i locate out they're a virgin. It exhibits me they admire themselves. i know how no longer common it somewhat is to stick on your weapons fairly giving into the stress. do no longer do something considering the fact which you think of you should, yet do it with the aid of fact it somewhat is what you like. If a guy can not stay in a relationship with out having intercourse he does not deserve a woman such as you. And for absolutely everyone who thinks i only can not "get any" you're incorrect. I surely have pronounced no to 3-somes (me and 2 ladies) a nil.5 dozen situations. only have not discovered somebody I care approximately sufficient.
2016-11-25 23:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a personal choice - some may not appreciate it, but some definitely will! My opinion is Good For You!
I hope you find the girl of your dreams who shares your same values.
We just had a candidate from the Bachelor at our church who is a virgin at approx the same age and is engaged to be married.
He travels and talks to youth groups about staying pure.
I encourage you to save the gift of yourself for that special someone!
p.s. Dont lie - but don't share it too soon with every girl you date,either. A previous poster had some good advice about that.
2007-01-02 09:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by what's up? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am impressed by the fact you're a virgin. That's nothing for a woman to be disgusted by. They may be apprehensive in dating you because you are a virgin and they are not, but I don't think that's a turn off. You are a rare breed and definitely a keeper in my opinion!
2007-01-02 09:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Noodle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jacking is totally different from sex. If you dont' want to stay a virgin, the next time you make out, tell her you are a virgin. Most girls would find it exciting that she would be your first, and my friend, you would get laid that night!
2007-01-02 09:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't lie. You shouldn't be ashamed of your choice. If someone tries to say otherwise, they're not worth being with. If a girl really cares about you, it won't matter if you've slept with anyone or not.
2007-01-02 09:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you are saving yourself for that special someone. Never lie cause that will cause you more problems in the long run. I think that being honest is the best thing. Make sure you are really love her though. Remember losing your virginty is something you can never get back. Make it special!!!
2007-01-02 09:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by colee97 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you. Waiting until you are married is an admirable quality. If a girl is put off by it, then she is not right for you anyway. I would be honored if my future husband had waited for me.
2007-01-02 09:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋