Crying and eating?

Question

I'm so weak and pathetic,i wish i could just forget him,my heart is numb and i feel like i'm going crazy,why did he promise me things and then go and hurt me like this. I'm sitting here alone in my room praying for a better day tomorrow,i know i wont sleep again tonight. How do you cope with a broken heart?did you ever get over it?

Answer 1

sounds more like a poem then a paragraph...well i suggest you smack him upside the head send him to jail and hope that he gets anal raped by some other guy in his cell..LOL

Answer 2

STOP IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are a beautiful intelligent young woman, you do not need to be are weepy over a creep that has passed you by. Go out, enjoy the fresh air. My heart was broken when my wife had an accident and was killed. We were together for 20 years and have 3 sons. Pity parties only make you a loser. You are NOT a loser, take a deep breath, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are a beautiful, young, intelligent woman and no toad is going to mess up your life. I know it hurts like h*ll now, but out there somewhere is a guy that will love you, hold you close and make you glad you're a woman, Good Luck
Contact me if you want or feel a need to chat. Today is the first day of many happy tomorrows.

Answer 3

I had a child with my major lifetime breakup. It's hard. Proably harder since i have to see him about twice a week from now until the year 2020. The worst part was when I had to accept the fact that this man who use to be willing to do almost anything for me just didn't care about me anymore.

I don't think there is any one good way to cope. But, while i don't think it's true that time heals, i do think it's true that time dulls the pain. The further you get from the inital heartache chronologically the less it hurts unless irritated by another factor. Other things that help take your mind off the breakup are rebounds, although i don't condone them, because you're bascially just using another guy to get over the last, and sometimes it tends to backfire. If you chose to go the route of a rebound, don't get too serious about him.

I'll never be competely over the things that he did, but what he did also invovled him taking custody of my child from me becasue he had the means for legal represntation and I didn't. I did think i was developing feelings for him again a while back, but I've come to realize that i was because I had better dealt with all the things that i'd been angry with him for so long about, and the fact remains that I did have geneunine love for him. That doesn't really ever go away either, it also just dulls with time. So when the anger was gone, the love was, somewhat unfortuantly, still there. I'm married now, with two more kids from my husband and another one on the way, and he's married now too, with a baby of their own and another one on the way. Things calm down eventually. I know that if i didn't have to have continuing contact with him inorder to see my daughter I wouldn't know what he was doing now in life, and i wouldn't care, and i most likley wouldn't think about him hardly at all, if ever. I think when you're not faced with your previous object of affection, then you don't notice the little left over love feelings you still harbor for them.

Answer 4

Broken relationships lead to lots of grief. Sometimes, these broken relationships are worse than death. The good thing is that you recognize it is over, and it is just time to grieve.

It is better to get over it, rather than spend years trying to fix the unfixable. Be grateful that you have cut your losses and can now move on with a new phase in your life.

Time heals everything and hopefully you have learned something from the experience .

Answer 5

Wow this just scares me. You should realize that you dont need this guy if he doesnt need you and that there will be a guy that is greater for you than he was. You can't attach yourself to much to thisguy expecially if he already left you. Listen, realize what is beautiful about yourself and what made you happy before this random dude just came and played with your feelings. Say screw it and yes Iam single again, ready to stand strong and one other fine day someone better might come along and I will be a bit wiser.

You are not pathetic, you are a wonderful and perfect person who needs to recognize that he just made you fee like that and you can'yt get down over that.

Answer 6

Believe or not it will pass. And you will actually feel happy again. It may seem all so impossible now. It may be that your favorite ice cream, TV show, or friends may not be helping with your grief, so just don't force it. Have a good cry. But realize that you're the injured party, not the asshole. If they can live with hurting someone so much, they'll get theirs someday.

Answer 7

We alll know that this is a difficult time you wil be going through.!!
But you have to think positive, think of all the good times you had together, and how glad you are that you got together, DONT think awww i stilll like him, what do i do.!!
Also try to talk to him, be friends with him, this alwasy helps for me because you can still talk and you dont feel like youve lost as much.1

But this is when you need your friends, have a night in with them, try forget about him

hope this helps

Answer 8

My favorite mechanism for coping with loss is Cherry Garcia, although I must admit that both Chunky Monkey and Chubby Hubby are good too.

Best of luck to you.....

Answer 9

It takes time, but for right now spend time with your friends and doing things that don't remind you of him. Try new things, go new places. Its going to take awhile but when its over maybe you will find someone that will make you promises and keep them.

Answer 10

I feel the same way at the moment! Its the worse feeling. I dont feel like doing anything and i dont eat.
It really suxs. Im hoping tat you get over it soon.
Good luck

Answer 11

I cried. A lot. Eventually I got over it and thankfully I learned from my mistakes. Good luck, sweetie!