Ok, my best friend who is a boy, I have weird feelings I don't know anymore.
Here are the feelings:
1. I think about him all the time
2. When we were on a 3-day trip, all I could think of one one night was saying 'I Love You...' to this boy.
3. I get jealous when he's with other girls he just considers his friends (he told me he cared about me and i'm his best girl friend)
4. My 'friend' said he called her 'hot' and even though she was lying, I still got really jealous.
5. (A WEIRD ONE!) I think about me and him when we listen to a romantic song, such as Cascada - Truly Madly Deeply.
But another weird thing, I haven't told ANYONE about it because they would either pick on me for it, tell everyone, or everyone would interfere.
2007-01-02 08:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by xxsleepy_starxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I always think if I ever lost him, I would be so upset, and I miss him so much over the holidays etc...
2007-01-02 09:00:09 · update #1
It's more than friendly feelings that is for sure.
I would say it is more than a crush, because usually a crush is with someone you don't know that well.
I'm not sure it is love yet. But it is closer to that than the other three.
Last it is smart not to tell anyone, because they will interfere. Be sure of your feelings before you act.
2007-01-02 08:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur stuck in the friends zone sweetie, and it only takes 3 things to get out.
a) boobs (srry but its true!)
b) true feelings (once ur sure of how u feel he'll be forced to confront his own which are probly similar)
c) dumb luck (and perserverance)
now, just walk into ur closet, go on i'll wait.
now look at wat u have in there
is it girly or sporty
is it flirty or friendly?
its pretty simple really
wear a top that's low enough 1/4 of ur boobs are visible from the mirror
walk rite up to him
and say "hey" in a really high (not SQUEEKY) voice verrry feminine
then say
looking in2 his eyes
"look, i kno we've been friends for a long time and it's been fun, but i think my feelings for you are a little more than friendly. i hope its okay w/ u that i'm not ready to settle for being just buds anymore. will u date me?"
and seriously
if he is straight and sane
he'll be babbling and tripping over his words until he can finally
say yes
2007-01-02 17:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, love is different. You're not in love.
Love is really proven over years. It's something taken for granted. Think of a family member who you know that you could never lose no matter what you did to them, but you wouldn't because you care for them too much. That's love.
What you have...is a crush or infatuation. Not a bad thing.
2007-01-02 16:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel...
It's better to let him know rather than not at all.
Plus you'll never know if he has the same feelings for you.
People often miss this opportunity and always wonder "What if I told him/her". And of course by that time it'd be to late because he'd be with someone else already.
2007-01-02 16:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think others would cause problems then keep it to yourself for awhile until you know how you feel certainly but it sounds like you like this guy and it also sounds like your one friend you mentioned knows this already. i'm thinking you really like this person and it could be love. i say tell him how you feel about him, i wouldn't say i thought about him all day, just tell him you like his company and you want to get serious. best of luck
2007-01-02 17:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this, you like him as more than just a friend.
2007-01-02 16:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by *Lovely* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really sure if its love but you definately like him and have feelings for him that could turn into love. talk to him and see how he feels about you. you dont necessarily have to reveal all your feelings incase you are worried about getting hurt.
2007-01-02 17:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by knd25th 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a crush or love but you totally like him. ask him out
2007-01-02 16:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ...... well i think he is more than jus a best mate. gal u have fallen in love with him big time!!!! accept it and tell him,.....good luck
2007-01-02 16:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by aarti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you are in love with this boy.....you like him, you should tell him your feelings about him and ask his feelings towards you.
2007-01-02 17:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by i love jr. forever and ever babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋