to sleep with someone on the first date?
What is your normal time frame for this type of physical contact?
2007-01-02 09:00:53 · 25 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Extremely out of character. These days its usually 2 weeks.
2007-01-02 09:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never sleep with someone on the first date for obvious reasons. but i dont really have a set time frame. i think it's stupid when some women are like i always wait ____ months. i think you should just wait untill you are comfortable with the person. whether it be a short time or take a little bit longer.
2007-01-02 17:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be out of character for ME but thats because I've only been with people I've had feelings for. Normal time could vary from person to person. I made my first boyfriend wait 4 years (we were very young), but my current boyfriend and I waited less than a month and have been together 2 years. Its what feels right. Oh, and please use a condom.
2007-01-02 17:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by -Bibee- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any really "right" amount of time you have to wait to do anything with someone. I know people that slept together on their first date... and they are happily married years later. I know people that waited until marriage... and divorced less than a year later.
So, there's no real rule, you just go with what feels right...
Good Luck!
2007-01-02 17:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by T S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime between 1 and 3 dates is typical.
2007-01-02 17:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a common occurence but it has happened...may happen again someday, who knows.
There is no time frame for me...I just go with the flow (and the feeling)...if longevity of the relationship is desired, it won't happen on the 1st date nowadays...
2007-01-02 17:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is a time frame. It just depends on the person. Its possible but dont expect the person to want to be with you.
2007-01-02 17:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If the attraction is still intense by the 3rd date, then I wait until the 4th or 5th date.
I've learned my lessons -- horses that run fast won't last.
2007-01-02 17:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your age would really matter. My answer is no that is very bad they could have some kind of sexual disease or something. If you already have go to the Doctor and get checked out for all that is available.
2007-01-02 17:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Zoie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be out of character for me. The chemestry has to be just rite for something like that to happen.
Usually happens after about 2 weeks.
2007-01-02 17:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋