Singles & Dating - 22 December 2006

I really think my gf has mental issues. Seriously. Stemming from some sort of childhood trauma (unfortunately, which is why I have been so patient so far) but she has me at wits end now. She holds me at arms length, won't let me go but won't let me near, either. Enter my conundrum. If I am right, this woman is a serious threat to herself if I do tell her I am leaving for good (based on what I have been reading and the assumptions I have been making, which have had to be made b/c I can't get her to tell me anything!) So, I am contemplating calling her best friend and asking her simply if she knows if my gf knows what is going on w/ her, and if not telling her about what I am thinking and also telling her to keep an eye on her for me b/c I can't do it anymore. Is there really any other option?

2006-12-22 11:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

my bf is moving WAY to fast for me. hes trying to stick his hands down my pants non the second day.
HELP!

2006-12-22 11:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by April 2

I have been dating this boy for 2 months and we have nothing to talk about. I ask him questions and he always come up short .. hes kind of quiet So I was just wondering how do I start a conversation to get him talking about things that matter

2006-12-22 11:13:31 · 20 answers · asked by Only Me 1

She only showers once a week! Her breath smells so bad and she never does laundry. She wears her friends clothes when all her clothes are dirty and the bad part is she leaves bloody underwear underneath her bed! Ive talked to her about this and she continues to do the same thing! What else can i do?????

2006-12-22 11:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been trying to truly get over my ex for so long now. I've been so upset about it lately. My friends haven't been helping at all. I'm so sad but I know it must be over. I wanted to call my friend because I need to get my mind off of it. I end up dialing his number and not even thinking about it. I was shocked that I did it. I let it ring once and realized and hung up. I just naturally dialed the number. This is horrible. How do you get over someone when you are so alone in the world?

2006-12-22 11:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by confused soul 2

ok so im pretty good at flirting. but anyone have any tips on how to make me even better? thanks a bunch!

2006-12-22 11:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by Cheerleader657 2

i think this guy likes me but how can you be sure?

2006-12-22 11:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 11:09:37 · 16 answers · asked by wisdom tooth 3

I talked to him about the issue with him, I always hate how he always rejects me when I want sex from him...but he will start it when he wants it..and I will always say yes bc if it were up to me, we would have sex everyday---anyways---he says he is just not comfortable with other people inictiating it--and it really bothers me that I cant feel comfortable after a year and half of being with him to be able to jump ontop of him and feel confident and awesome around him....but I love him...so please dont suggest we break up---I want to fix this...not break up

2006-12-22 11:09:27 · 22 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1

everytime i hug my boyfriend or sit on his lap i start hearing his heart beat faster why is that please help

2006-12-22 11:08:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went on a first date last night with a guy and we really had fun. He took me for sushi and we talked until the place closed and then he took me shopping to help him pick a gift for his mom. We were saying goodbye and he asked me back to his place and to make long story short... He was was awesome. We both divorced a few months ago and were eachothers first since our ex's. He's going to visit his mom for a week for the holidays and assured me there would be more dates to follow. I have the morning after guilty feeling and am afraid he may not call me again. It was the best sex ever, we didn't stop till 6 am. Should I call him and thank him for everything or just wait?

2006-12-22 11:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by jamie kat 6

All my life I've never found someone as wonderful as you.
I like your pretty smile, and the things you do.
I'm lost in a miracle, 'cause my miracle is you.
Distance might bring us apart,
But the joy of having someone so wonderful remains in my heart.
Your voice soothes my mind, your laughter eases my pain.
Your eyes send a vibe so shocking through my veins.
I've never felt such a feeling from such a person like you.
I know and always will know,
The one for me is you.

2006-12-22 11:08:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not looking for a soulmate yet or even a life partner, i havent been in a relationships for a while and want an exciting, lovely guy to come into my life and stop myself from feeling so rubish, any ideas? know anyone? best place to find guys?

2006-12-22 11:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anna B 1

my friend won't accept that a guy likes her, but i know for a fact that he does. he tries to show it, but she still doesn't agree! help me please?

2006-12-22 11:05:14 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1

2006-12-22 11:04:28 · 12 answers · asked by wickjeff06 2

My boyfriend and I both have children and we are very rarely able to spend time together alone. I was wanting to do something very romantic this evening with him since we will not have the kids. I don't have much money at all and was wondering if there was anyone out there that could give me some ideas of things that I could do here at home for the two of us.

2006-12-22 11:02:28 · 5 answers · asked by redscarlet_witch 1

2006-12-22 11:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Andrea A 1

i want to know why guys cheat and when they do why dont they break up w/ the person they are cheating on

2006-12-22 11:02:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we started to date a year ago, he and his wife were separated and about to divorce. But they did not get it done dueo to the distance, finance, and the two kids.

Recently he was recalled by army and will be deployed to Iraq for 1+ year. So the divorce was put on hold again. But he begged me not to give up on him, as I will be the only hope to keep him motivated there. Yet he could not promise me anything after one year, as he may want to stay in the army for better career, better pay, and better sense of achievement.

He really loves me but he just has too many things (career, kids) more important than me. So I will never make to the top priority.

I'm willing to do anything to keep him safe and positive. I don't want to leave him when he needs me the most. But I'm also scared. What if after I suffer a year of anxiety and agony just to find out there's really no hope? Should I call it quit now or not?

2006-12-22 11:00:16 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 2

chocolate or sex for 6 months,what would you choose? me? mmmm sex.after all I been married for 24 years.

2006-12-22 10:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by daisy 1

why do i like girls in thongs?????????????

2006-12-22 10:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by rpoker 6

Like she uses a weak deodorant or somethin. I put too much of my cologne on so I don't have smell her. Should I just tell her, but I don't want her to be mad.

2006-12-22 10:57:48 · 44 answers · asked by Nicolas M 1

ok theres this girl i like she likes me back...i wanna get her sumthin for christmas but everytime i ask her what she wants she says nuthin...now i kno that whole "respect her wishes" idea...but i kno she's gotta want sumthin so i guess im just wonderin if ne1 has ne good gift ideas

2006-12-22 10:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by RJ 4

I really think my gf has mental issues. Seriously. Stemming from some sort of childhood trauma (unfortunately, which is why I have been so patient so far) but she has me at wits end now. She holds me at arms length, won't let me go but won't let me near, either. Enter my conundrum. If I am right, this woman is a serious threat to herself if I do tell her I am leaving for good (based on what I have been reading and the assumptions I have been making, which have had to be made b/c I can't get her to tell me anything!) So, I am contemplating calling her best friend and asking her simply if she knows if my gf knows what is going on w/ her, and if not telling her about what I am thinking and also telling her to keep an eye on her for me b/c I can't do it anymore. Is there really any other option?

2006-12-22 10:57:33 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6

I would prefer it if more girls answer.

2006-12-22 10:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4

In fact, I like her a lot.
Her boyfriend, on the other hand, is perfect for me, and we constantly lock eyes and just... we have a thing. (Obviously I would never do more than look at him.)
When I was with my (now ex) boyfriend, he told my boyfriend he was lucky to have me. It was so cute. He is bored with his relationship with this girl, but I think she's great and I want her to be happy.

Still... that doesn't keep me from wanting to run off and marry this guy, if the situation were different. :(

Is this normal?? How do I get over it?

2006-12-22 10:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by well... 3

Can I get in trouble if I have my ex put to sleep ? They charge by the pound but hey ......IT'S worth it !

2006-12-22 10:51:42 · 14 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

I have been talking to this guy for over 2 months now. How can I keep myself from being too clingy and moving too fast?

2006-12-22 10:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Nicole 1

those who have read my past questions will understand this a lil more so...I broke up with my boyfriend (glenn) about a week ago...
i just wanted to be friends becuase things weren't exactly going well...he said he was fine with it then afterwards he suddenly stoped talking to me..he even refused to look at me...
i felt so bad that i broke up with him and i couldn't help trying to get him to meet eyes with me and letting him know i was sorry
resently i emailed him and asked if he was mad at me..
he said that he wasn't mad at me it was just he was trying to let me go and forget but in his heart he couldn't...he siad he still really loves me... and he apologized for being the way he was for the last week.we have been emailing back and forth for a couple hours now and he keeps apologizing for nnot talking to me and not looking at me and stuff... now that i have actually talked to him everything feels so much diffrent and i can't figure out why..do you think im still in love with him??

2006-12-22 10:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4

Briefly explain why.

2006-12-22 10:47:50 · 21 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4