Singles & Dating - 22 December 2006

We have just grown apart. Don't want to hurt feeling. Wanted to do this for somtime but, something always seemed to come up.

Please help

2006-12-22 12:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by Hankster 1

I love my boyfriend to death. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. Yet, he hurt his knee again, and I asked him that over the Christmas break he stay off of it. I called him today, and he said he was jumping off houses onto a trampoline. I was mad he couldn't even listen to something so simple I asked! I know it sounds kind of naggy, but I worry about him, because he really doesn't look out for himself. I love him and it would devistate me to lose him, any advice?

2006-12-22 12:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by Misty Lee 2

I was sleeping with him because I thought we were in love. He made love to me (not just sex), he was so affectionate, kissed me for so long, touched my face when he kissed me. Got my emotions flowing and I thought he felt the same. Then I found out he just wants a casual fling!!! I feel soooooooo hurt and betrayed! How do I deal with this? And please don't say I shouldn't have slept with him before knowing how he felt, I know I shouldn't have, but I can't change that now. Thanks!!!

2006-12-22 12:31:48 · 18 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1

2006-12-22 12:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by Justine T 2

I have this friend and I am showing him that I like him but it is like he isnt grabbing on. I know he isnt that slow!! Should I just say that I like him or just give up and get over it?

2006-12-22 12:29:13 · 7 answers · asked by Bre-Bre 1

Well?
I am currently friends with someone, but don't want to be more than friends. What if the other person does? What is one to do? How would a person go about avoiding furthor relational status while maintaing the friendship?

2006-12-22 12:26:49 · 22 answers · asked by Joshua I 1

ok someone i like, im really close with. I feel like she is teasing me or playing with my heart. when im with her she lays on me and stuff or when we are sitting she always siting right beside me so that we are touching, i always make her smile, and we laugh togethera nd have a good times. or she is always taking pictures of us with her camera phone. but then when we are at school its totally different its like im her last priority... why is she doing this?

2006-12-22 12:24:48 · 8 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4

..i mean that is just ONE WAY.....and time...to just "let it go"..

2006-12-22 12:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by sweet 4

I am 32 & have been seeing this man he is 46 we broke up and we cant stay away from eachother .We talk ,email,tex about every day.He told me 2 months ago he loved me then we broke up and we are still seeing eachother and he told me he dose not think he can have a realtionship because of his life .He is in the army full time and has 2 children .we do see eachother alot and i told him i love him alot ! He calls me to just be with him not for sex .I asked him if he would be hurt if i had sex with some one else he told me yes ! I told him i feel so close to him and he told me he dose worry about being close to me .I dont understand why he has changed his mind about saying he loves me he told me he just cant say that to me again .I love him so much i am scared of losing him i some times feel sick.
I told him last night some timesi want to walk away but i cant i love him to much and i asked him if i did how would he feel he told me it would be hard .how can i get him to comit.

2006-12-22 12:24:16 · 6 answers · asked by Hart 1

My boyfriend loves me, we're really good together, and we have great chemistry. Every once in a while, we have off days though where we don't really have anything to talk about...is that normal, by the way? It always worries me.
Anyway, he has a really pretty female friend that has a huge crush on him, but has since "accepted" our relationship. But she calls him for advice and to hang out, and sometimes it's like he looks at me differently after he's had a phone conversation with her. Like this is a major thing that brings on the off day. He always tells me when she calls and everything, so he's not hiding anything...it's just wierd.
PLUS, she loves to go clubbing and so does he, and she keeeeps on begging him to go because they've gone in the past. And I hate dancing, #1, and #2, she'll ask him without even mentioning me. I'm worried that they'll go and have this great time dancing on each other and he'll come back and not be as satisfied.
Am I being really petty here?

2006-12-22 12:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy's name is Tyler and i am rachel.my bf's name is brendin.so give atvice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 12:23:10 · 4 answers · asked by Xx Animal lover98 xX 1

I love my parter and he loves me with all that he is and I know it but we argue so much. We both have out trust issues, now that he feels better about himself because things are finally happening for him, he shows alot more confidence which is great. He is not so needy, and he stands up to me, but he always comes back. I would be determined to leave him alone and I will until he does something out there to get my attension and I end up right where I started. I love him just as much as he loves me but I hate that I can't trust him and I just rather be without him. I'm not just being picky, lately after almost 2 yrs and alot of argueing he started turning his ringer off on his phone. He is hiding somthing and I cant let it go and I won't tolerate that. We are in a serious relationsip, he said it was a friend when he got busted this weekend. He said she is helping him buy a house, what and I don't know her. Thats crazy, he was trying to hide her, why if its a friend?

2006-12-22 12:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by Smile 2

the technitian at my job,is always flirting with me.and i flirt too.as soon as he comes in,he goes straight to where im at,and just flirt.now,i dont want to have,a relationship with anyone in my job.i know its not a good thing.but,lately,he has been saying he wants more,and,im so atracted to him.he makes my days,and i make his.and he asked me out for lunch,and he just looked at me,like i want to kiss you, the whole time we were there.i think our flirting,is going to far,to the point,we are both falling for eachother,and im not sure if i should,or not allow it to go to the next stage.what would you do,if you were in my shoes?esecially,when everybody,notices the change in your attitude,meaning,you smile all day,and your co workers know why.but,still,i insist we're just friends.wich is true.

2006-12-22 12:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by super girl 3

2006-12-22 12:20:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i loved my x girlfriend that I dated for 6 months, and I guess i still do. She just dumped me because she says that I am too perfect, whatever that means. I loved our relationship, and she always told me how great I was and how lucky she was. She cheated on me 3 times and did nothing for our relationship but I still love her and sometimes want to fix things. We have been apart for over a week now and she is already running around town with a new guy. Why do I still miss her, I cant stop thinking about her, and she could care less about how I feel. Why do i still have feeling for this trashy, liar? What do I do and why cant i get her off my mind??? I never want a relationship again...

2006-12-22 12:19:06 · 22 answers · asked by B-ryan 1

I'm 20 and have known this guy since I was 4 years old.
In the past we knew of each other and hung out because of mutual friends and family, but never really talked to each other. We lost contact for about 7 years and I recently met him again at a friends party and we had one of those really good conversations. Like you really feel a connection, a closeness. He's a musician and he asked for my number so that he could txt me about his gigs. The next day he txts me to tell me it was good to see me and asks for my email as well.
So he mass-txts and mass-emails me about his gigs for a while and I go to a few of them at the beginning. Gigs are impersonal and after a while i felt frustrated that things were so impersonal, so I stopped going.
So whats going on? If you like a girl, you don't leave them hanging there right? Does he see me as a long lost childhood friend?
Worth going to anymore gigs??

2006-12-22 12:18:37 · 3 answers · asked by Olivia L 1

2006-12-22 12:18:20 · 6 answers · asked by DON 1

as far as showing interest in dating or getting to know someone..

2006-12-22 12:16:04 · 22 answers · asked by Frank 3

How do you know if they are interested or if they are just wanting booty? I am all for booty calls, but what if I found a guy I really liked, what could I do to make him nuts for me?

2006-12-22 12:15:27 · 6 answers · asked by happyjoye 1

Which one?

2006-12-22 12:14:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go to a boarding school, and there was a guy who was interested in me, but I didn't really go along with it. Then my roommate moved in on him and now they are going out. Well the other night he was in our room, and they were cuddling on her bed, and then he came over to my bed and started cuddling with me. Does this mean he likes me?

2006-12-22 12:13:55 · 29 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1

For our second date he gave me a flower arrangement. Our third date is tomorrow. We're going to a Christmas party, and I'd like to give him something appropriate and something he would like.

What do you think of these saws as a gift? http://www.leevalley.com/wood/page.aspx?c=2&p=55600&cat=51&ap=1
Unfortunately, I didn't ask him if he's into woodwork, but these saws will cut through other materials, such as plastic and brass.

2006-12-22 12:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Taramasu2U 3

im on the shy side, but i really like this kid... he always flirts with me, but im too nervous to ask him... how do i
1.) ask him out miself
or
2.) get him to ask me out
?? plz help??

2006-12-22 12:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by xojessox 5

2006-12-22 12:10:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy in my class that is always making fun of me. No, I am not a dork or nerd or anything like that, in fact, I am a little bit on the popular side. He always makes fun of my artwork when we go to art, and even when we had woodworking and metal shop, he made fun of the things I was making.

Now he has even made a song about me!:

Tis the season to be naughty fa la la la la, la la la la

Flush (my name) down the potty fa la la la la, la la la la.

There is a lot more, but I would think he would be more mature to act this way, I am in fact Jewish, and even though it doesn't offend me, he knows I am Jewish. So does it sound like he likes me?

2006-12-22 12:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

it sucks being single. Like seriously, there;s no excuse. Love is pretty much like everything. I miss her so much. I watch videos of hot girls to try and get my mind off her, but love is like 1000 times stronger than sexual preference. Its ridiculous. I mean im young and should probably live more of life first, but life without her just seems so hard. not meaningless per say, but just so hard.

2006-12-22 12:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by prophetoftruth 3

Does this mean im in the right place?wrong place? or what?
sorry ask this in family
wanted to try dating

2006-12-22 12:08:48 · 3 answers · asked by dreamy 5

2006-12-22 12:08:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 12:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have gotten into a really big arguement and it lead to a break up. Although, i meant it at the time we were going at it. Now, I don't want to lose him. You know how it is when a person gets mad and things just come flying right out of your mouth before thinking about it? I've done my share of being mad and i made an effort to tell him how much i'm sorry. Honestly, is it really necessary for him to say "if you can prove it that you want to be with me, then i'll get back with you."? what the hell is that? I had a few tell me it's either he wants to be with me or not. If he doesn't want to be with me then why try to fight for something he might not even want? I have nothing to prove to him. i love him and i want to be with him, but i just don't know how to tell him...

2006-12-22 12:08:05 · 16 answers · asked by lady hiphop 2