I love my parter and he loves me with all that he is and I know it but we argue so much. We both have out trust issues, now that he feels better about himself because things are finally happening for him, he shows alot more confidence which is great. He is not so needy, and he stands up to me, but he always comes back. I would be determined to leave him alone and I will until he does something out there to get my attension and I end up right where I started. I love him just as much as he loves me but I hate that I can't trust him and I just rather be without him. I'm not just being picky, lately after almost 2 yrs and alot of argueing he started turning his ringer off on his phone. He is hiding somthing and I cant let it go and I won't tolerate that. We are in a serious relationsip, he said it was a friend when he got busted this weekend. He said she is helping him buy a house, what and I don't know her. Thats crazy, he was trying to hide her, why if its a friend?
2006-12-22 12:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a tangled web we weave, when we practice to deceive.
2006-12-22 12:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, most people who can get away with playing mind games never stop until they encounter someone who refuses to fall for for it all.
Okay, well ... its rather obvious why he was trying to hide her. Its the bsic cover up men use when they want to have another woman on the side -- and of course the other woman goes along with it because he thinks he truly loves her the most .
UGH! And the beat goes on ...
Keep in mind that a satisfying relationship cannot exist without trust. It can continue being chatic but is that really what you want?
You two need to have a serious discussion about where the two of you are in your lives at this point. Then figure out whether or not you two compliment each others needs and wants. Afterwards, its either all or nothing -- stay together or break up.
2006-12-22 20:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe tll him either confess to what he did go to couseling or get fixed
2006-12-22 20:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Aubrey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋