the technitian at my job,is always flirting with me.and i flirt too.as soon as he comes in,he goes straight to where im at,and just flirt.now,i dont want to have,a relationship with anyone in my job.i know its not a good thing.but,lately,he has been saying he wants more,and,im so atracted to him.he makes my days,and i make his.and he asked me out for lunch,and he just looked at me,like i want to kiss you, the whole time we were there.i think our flirting,is going to far,to the point,we are both falling for eachother,and im not sure if i should,or not allow it to go to the next stage.what would you do,if you were in my shoes?esecially,when everybody,notices the change in your attitude,meaning,you smile all day,and your co workers know why.but,still,i insist we're just friends.wich is true.
2006-12-22 12:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him your feelings for him and tell him you want to just be friends
2006-12-22 12:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad sweety I'm in the same boat as you are. The only advice i can give you is you need to make up your mind on if you want a relationship with him or not. When you figure that out you are open to make a decision. You can't make a decision if you are unsure. If want a relationship asked to be moved to anther department if you don't you need to let him know that you appreciate his advances but you want to be friends. But be careful because if you were flirting to you helped cause the problem. An he may get Little upset.
2006-12-22 20:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is only flirting----yeah right! I think your seeking approval of what you and I both know is already happening. If your company has rules and regulations against this, some one needs to find a different job, or both might get fired.
2006-12-22 20:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went out with a colleague and broke it off. It was very awkward from then on. I regreted that..
2006-12-23 02:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by tea_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be true to yourself...go with your feelings!! It might be the best thing to ever happen
2006-12-22 20:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do like him, dont worry about work. Follow your dream
2006-12-22 20:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of how awkward things will be if it didnt work out.
2006-12-22 20:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by URworstNITEmare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with him. what are you losing.
2006-12-22 20:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by m&m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋