Singles & Dating - 22 December 2006

around a month ago i came home to my house and realised everyone apart from me was at it , and while sex doesn't bother me so much the fact that i am and always have been due to circumstances alone bothers me i don't always agree with my housemates on everything we're very different pepple and with 9 of us sometimes it feels very much like i'm being ganged up on, but i'm so sick of being alone all i really want is that bit of human kindess that one person we can go to anytime just to be told its okay because they feel the same too...like sometimes i wish i just had someone to sleep next to just to know i'm not alone



i am straight btw and do have some friends just not people i can go to 24/7

2006-12-22 09:52:37 · 13 answers · asked by Herbert A 1

2006-12-22 09:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...i know its turning into soap of the night...but now we just had a huge row...followed by the best sex EVER...and he's asked me to marry him...but he wants me to wear the marigolds at the altar...scoff if you like but everyone has their quirks...and well...he was prepared to duel at dawn for me...but i just dont like the Marigold thing...should i put aside my itchy hands, accept his quirks and just take the plunge....once his divorce is through of course...???...oh and he's gone down the pub to give me time to think...;0)

2006-12-22 09:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when a guy says he's going 2 do something and he doesn't

2006-12-22 09:51:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been 'asked out' by plenty of guys that I really wanted and still want to go out with. The problem is, though, I don't feel comfortable accepting gifts (like Christmas, birthday, holidays, anniversary, etc.) from guys. What should I do? Please help!

Thanks so much.

2006-12-22 09:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor B. 1

2006-12-22 09:46:23 · 9 answers · asked by Quo 2

2006-12-22 09:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4

well my boyfriend, who we both want to spend the rest, and i mean THE REST, of oyur lives together. been going out with him with two months (i know i know, it hasnt been a long time but we truly love eachother, all right?) anyways.. for christmas i got him a $25 gift card to blockbuster since he ALWAYSSS goes there and gets movies and stuff. then im thinking about giving him a candle, becuz he joked about before of buying a candle to light it up when we make love... ya know what i mean? lol.. anyways, yea, gift card.. candle... is that enough? to me, it doesnt seem like enough at all. what else should i get him? i dont wanna get him a music cd (cause he downloads music) dont want to buy him a movie (he rents always) and i cant buy him tickets to any concerts or band showings or whatever so thats outta the question. i also just recently gave him a veryy long letter showing how much i love him so a sweet love note is outta the question.
what else should i give the man i love?

2006-12-22 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by answer! this 3

I don't know. I have a boyfriend who is really sexy and always wants to take naps with me and be sexy and feel me. should I brake up with him?

2006-12-22 09:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by lemarkz51 1

If you were naughty, what did you do? ; )

2006-12-22 09:44:09 · 20 answers · asked by misskrissy 1

K... I am 18 and I consider myself to be pretty congenial. I am smart, pretty, outgoing, religious, and well groomed, boys tell me I am one of the prettiest girls in school and very easy to get along with, so how come I can never get a date?

2006-12-22 09:43:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

when he left me he said it was
cuz he loved his ex a lot
and
cuz he was going to miss me when i move(2 months)
now...his ex doesn't have the same hobbies as him(i did)and isn't as pretty and definetly is not as popular with the guys(or in general)
the last time i saw the two at my friends party...his brother...he had his new girlfriend...but didn't seem as happywith her...he would show me off a lot when we were together to make all the other guys jealous that i was his (this is terrible...but i was a lot...easier...but we didn't have sex!)
i dunno...does anyone think that he actually left me at all on part to the fact that i am moving?
i constantly wonder...
and he has avoided me and we haven't talked since he left...but people told me he was really sad after he left me(but he got together with his ex either the same day or around the day after he left me)
ok.
thank you all
xao:)

2006-12-22 09:41:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im 13 and i dated a guy and he got really weird so i dumped him and now every time he passes me he will touch the back of my friends neck and then he hit me in the head with his planner and now im datin his friend what should i do about him!?!?!?

2006-12-22 09:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by Emily L 2

i felt really hurt recently by a bloke who finished with me. anyway, i had some problems getting over it and a friend said just forget him, and someone said something to me that hit me, she siad he must be really important to you. then i thought i am making him important and he is not really, so i stopped moaning on, but i remember somone said about my mother, that men were very important to her, she got hurt alot and was always giving men her attention, more than me, i don,t want to be like her, so why do i do it. i do tend to make a big fuss about someone who is not very important. my mum always spoilt my brothers more they could do no wrong, she used to sleep around. someone once said i was dependant upon men what did they mean. for attention to make me feel good. i don,t know i just know i don,t want to be like her because she got hurt alot and made a fool of herself and people have said to me i don,t value myself and she never did either. i dont, want to be like this .

2006-12-22 09:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by denise g 2

When you hear the word "smooth"

2006-12-22 09:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl i work with started playing mindgames for me.....and for a very long time....shes nearly back to normal now, but not quite the same still. We used to go to lunches heaps, movies, the dinner and cpffee after work, she used to always play with things i had when i use to be arounbd her, and she always used to touch me heaps. All the lunches etc were her idea....now i think she got pissed for me not doing anything.....and now doesnt really talk to me properly at all. WIll girls come right?, im making all the effort with her now...and im to a point where imay aswell just give up, shes now left work, and we wont have to deal with one another face to face anymore, so should i wait for her to come back to me, if shes worth it?....ive made heaps of effort to try and speak, hang out with her the past few weeks and shes always diverting away. I know shes annnoyed, but she wont tell me whats up,do you think the girl still likes me and just needs space.

2006-12-22 09:37:02 · 3 answers · asked by ron h 2

2006-12-22 09:36:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 09:35:48 · 64 answers · asked by fairydust 2

ok...so my sister is 19 and she cannot seem to get a boyfriend. she is absolutely beautiful though...i just don't get it. she's 5'5, 120lbs. brunette, intelligent, funny...everything a guy could want right?????? if i can get a date why can't she???????

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
advice...all is welcome

2006-12-22 09:35:25 · 16 answers · asked by Juicy Baby 2

Okay, I know I can't make him like me but I just want to know how get his attention without asking him out. I would ask him out, but there would be no point because he doesn't wanna date until next year. So, I'm kinda stuck here wondering if he likes me or not. He does flirt sometimes but he is usually shy and I don't want to intimidate him. So how do I get him to like me without scaring him off?

2006-12-22 09:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by *Manda* 2

Girls please help me figure out which one will be cool/ok and what you think. I really want to know.

2006-12-22 09:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by fine boy 1

This guy knows I like him and gave me his #. I left a text message on his phone and he hasn't texted me back. He has my # from the message so is he mad at me 4 not actually calling him or what?

2006-12-22 09:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and we spend alot of time together but recently he's been spending alot of time with his friends... and I wanted to know somethings that would make him want to spend more time with me... Or is it a good thing that he is doing his own thing (Although when he does something with his friends I deff do something with mine too)

2006-12-22 09:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is not for the meek. i'm 35 and my wife is 32. five years ago, i was in a bus accident that left me disable - including substantial loss of use of my genitals. my wife has stuck with me, and been ever caring. she is actually inspring.

now, i've learned many ways to get her off - but, correct me if i'm wrong - having sex itself is pretty important to a woman. or at least to my wife.

i've been thinking about letting her have sex with somebody else. she'd never directly but i she's human and i can tell she wants to badly. i feel like its the right thing to do.

i don't worry that she'd leave me for another. i know in my heart she wouldn't leave me out to dry. but is this the right thing? could i cope with such a decision? how do i get through the night when she is out? how do i deal with her when she comes back. i want to let her - and i'm almost there - i almost have all of my issues work out - but give me any tips if you have them.

2006-12-22 09:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend says he "Loves" me. but While he's saying this he has a girlfriend. I love him back... but I don't know what to think about his girlfriend... What should I tell him?

2006-12-22 09:31:19 · 5 answers · asked by shakat000 2

2006-12-22 09:30:55 · 19 answers · asked by kayleighjhelvie 1

the guy i think likes me is a jock, and i want 2 kno if someone like him would like me. i'm a brunette around 5'9 5'10 "curvy" and mucho smart. and i sort of a sense of humor sensitive and slightly ditzy(you know like a dumb blonde no offense 2 blndes i'm friends w/one) as of this year so what do yall think? would you be attracted 2 me if u were him? he's a brunette hot w/some muscles football player and lots of friends. and some brains (not alot though) well speak ur minds and give an answer

2006-12-22 09:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by dauschaundlovers 2

Shoud I ask my ex-boyfriend back out? he is really cute, smart, and nice. HELP!!!!!

2006-12-22 09:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by ~♫ღ♫~Vampire ninja~♫ღ♫~ 2

going to have a beer with him then you call him at 8:00 and ask him what time you coming home and he says I would like to stay longer to hang out with my friends I have not hung out in a while then you say NO come home by 11:30pm so he doesnt and you call him back and his phone is shut off and he comes home at 5:00 in the morning drunk with his phone all broken and wet and he tells you I just hung out with the guys and my phone fell i n the toilet, not a big deal... What would you think?
Should I kick him out my house? Im mad... I know I hardley let him hang out with his friends....Im confussed

2006-12-22 09:26:35 · 29 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

im 19 years old, and i haven't even gone on one date since i was in the 12th grade or since i graduated high school. that was two years ago. last time i really had a boyfriend was in the 9th grade. im not ugly or anything. i am a very shy person. it was a lot easier dating in high school than it is now because there were so many boys at my high school. but I go to a vocational school and the majority of the people there are girls. there's only like three guys and they're all gay. I go with my friends to places and hang out, and usually there are a lot of guys there, but usually, they look but they don't approach. I'm not going up to them and start talking becuase i'm affraid of rejection. what should i do?? I wan't to date or maybe even get a boyfriend, but i just forgot how. what am i doing wrong??

2006-12-22 09:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by hope 2