Singles & Dating - 18 December 2006

I was out with some friends last night when a girl told me she wanted to "blow my brains." She said this softly when noone else was around. I was a little scared by what she meant by that, so I walked away. She did not talk to me the rest of the evening. What did she mean by that??

2006-12-18 02:38:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

last week and she is really bummed. We have been talking about it and I have been trying to help. I know it's just going to take some time but does anyone have any useful suggestions? I told her to try to avoid seeing him (at school) because it hurts and definitely DON'T contact him (texting) because she's just torturing herself. I told her to try to stay busy to keep her mind occupied. Last night it hit her hard, Sunday nights can do that .

2006-12-18 02:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by porkchop 5

I only met this girl 3 days ago. When I met her, I think she was a little stoned. But later, she told me she was not like that. That's not her. So ok, then after two days she phoned me and I phoned her back. Last thing I know, she said, she went to these bars, got drunk and I asked her how did get home. She told me she didn't know. Anyway, she'll be going to this religous college next year. So guys, what do you think of her? Is she in denial? Is she lying? You know, trying to cover-up something.

2006-12-18 02:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by Confuse_Guy 1

I have found a perfect guy, hes sweet, genuine, and loves me with all of his heart! But it seems that after i have found the perfect guy i run away. I dont want to lose something that i love but i still run why do i do this?

2006-12-18 02:33:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know why do black boys/men have a problem with black girls going out with different race boys but its alright for them. Im Turkish & my girl is Jamaican, we have been going out for over a year and a half & if things carry on the way they are we'll probably be married in the future coz she makes me more happy then any other girl has and i make her happy so why do people have a problem with use. like every time we go out some di*khead has to piss us off, i use to be such a laid back person but now everytime i take my girl out its like im gonna get into a fight with a blackboy why is it no other race stares at us or looks 4 trouble. blackboys act like there've never seen 2 different race people together in the most multi cultral city in the world, what is it r they all racist coz when i see turkish girl with other races i dont care i dont look twice thats their life so why does it effect black boys so much. please no immature answers like your racist im in love with a black girl

2006-12-18 02:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in 10 grade and i need some advice please, i like this girl a lot and shes in my grade also, i think were good friends and i want to ask her to hang out with me this weekend like go to the mall or see a movie....so i was thinking of asking her either today cause i see her in 1period or ask her tomorow...

and ive asked her before if she would like to hangout with me last weekend but she said she has her b-day party and had to babysit...and shes done this another time so i dont know if shes just making excuses but i really like her so i wanted to ask 1 more time

but this is what i want to say to her when i ask her "i know you were busy last weekend but i was did you want to hang out this weekend like go to the mall or something"...and if she says something like she has to do something again i would say..."you know if you dont really want to do something just tell me the truth"

i just wanted to know if thats ok to say to her, or anything i should say to her

thank you

2006-12-18 02:31:54 · 19 answers · asked by JoE 1

My life??

My life is just NICE!!..^_^

I just wanted to know you ppl more....so I asked this question....^_^

Lov ya!

2006-12-18 02:31:45 · 5 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2

The girl and I admit that we both find each other attractive but are in current relationships with someone else. We met one day and she asked me to go shopping with her. I said yes, and we got her some clothes. She was looking for something casual sexy and also a bra. That was the first time I ever went with someone who wanted to do that kind of shopping. This was all two days ago. I'm not sure if I should contact her again. We decided to be friends but admit that we are tempted when we see one another.

How should I proceed. Sometimes I can't get her off my mind. I'm sure she's going through the same process. I also kissed her on the cheeks since she wasn't ready for the lips and that we had to keep our distance.

Any advice?

2006-12-18 02:30:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand why he did it....and I swear to god I loved him and it was never my intentions to be unfaith full...I did it while I was under the influence of drugs ,for drugs, butt....................He got way out of line trying to get back at me ,not only did he degrade me as a woman and a human being but he also abused me phisicly untill I stoped allowing it!!!Two wrongs dont make a right though!!! what can I do to show him i dont need him and to prove to him that I can go on with my life with out being tortured by him just because he thinks he can ,or he had the right to do so because of the mistakesI made while I was high....I want the last laugh ......he had no right to cause me such phisical and emotional harm.....

2006-12-18 02:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 02:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were just a friend or if you like her more than a common friend...

2006-12-18 02:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. My family doesn't really want us to be together and because of this my family is always saying negative things to me about him and talking about how hard it is going to be for me to date him outside the family. He didn't do anything to them but they don't trust him. It's really bad and they are like this with almost anyone that doesn't kiss their butt. He is a great guy, treats me well, makes great money. Oh and we are both in our mid-twenties. What do I do? I feel like they are trying to force me to break up with him. I can't even bring his name up without people acting weird and anytime my parents get me alone I have to get a speech about him and listen to their nonsense. Help! What do I do? Should I break up with him to shut everyone up or should I ignore it?

2006-12-18 02:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by 3262m 2

I,m absolutely devastated. he was 11 and had been sick for about 2 months with his liver. I know it was going to happen, but I thought we were going to have to put him to sleep. Instead, yesterday, he made the decision for us. I feel horrible...just wanted to share. thank you.

2006-12-18 02:26:56 · 22 answers · asked by lisasal1229 2

2006-12-18 02:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by FUSIONMASTER 3

Ok so I asked my girlfriend out about a weak ago and things are going great she is 15 and im 16. She has had boyfriends before but she has never been kissed. I on the other hand have kissed before. I really like my current girlfriend and since she has never been kissed before I want it to be special for her. I don’t want to kiss her in public because that’s not as special, so where and when should I kiss her.

And also what are signs that she wants to be kissed

2006-12-18 02:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by gotansas 3

2006-12-18 02:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

where to start. the ex on the couch- we're done. especially after the things he said and did this weekend. this is a guy who talked about wanting to marry me 3 months ago and now he 'isn't ready for a relationship.' he broke up with me, saying that he didn't want to date anyone and when he is ready it would be me that he wanted to be with. since breaking up with me he has been sleeping on my couch, eating my food, driving my car, using my phone, spending my money (he quit his job this past week) and letting me take care of his kids. I'M DONE. anyway, the guy i was with before him and i hung out the other night. he and i have been friends since we broke up. 3 weeks ago his baby was born premature and is in the hospital. long story short, he all but proposed to me. (said he already has a good step-mom in mind for the little man, the baby should be mine and not someone else's, among other things) i left with him that night. i feel like i'm sneaking around, but should i?should i feel bad?

2006-12-18 02:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by biz 2

well.....ive never smiled so much in my life....never felt so....content wouldnt be the correct word...b/c im way happier than content...well...ive never cared so much about this one person...or any person before....but i care...and im happy...and i cant seem to destract my self from him....i cannot remove him from my mind....but...im not sure if i want to get involved in a real relationship right now....but i really would like to be with him....im having all these confusing feelings.....maybe some one could help me find a clearer choice...

2006-12-18 02:23:42 · 24 answers · asked by So over-used 2

AND .. i m sort of intrested in her . yet i don wanna make it obvious .. wad can i get 4 her ..can some1 help me ?

2006-12-18 02:22:41 · 7 answers · asked by Raezur 1

I am a Radio presenter.... Last year november, this person called me to listen to a particular song he wanted to listen to.
I played his song and then he stayed on the line just because he wanted to. i had to hang-up.he called again and I dont know why I kinda got attracted tio his voice..I called out my personal contact number and he wrote it down (indirectly)I got his number from the Caller ID on the radio telephone.thats it ... we started chattin .. and txtin ... and we didnt even knw how we both looked like. I lied to him and said I was 35 he believed me and still wanted to carry on talking with me. and then he told me little bit of detail about himself ..... he told me he was 21 and goes to uni and has family etc ...I told him the truth after a couple of weeks ... please dont forget its only over the phone... nothing in person at all.in April, we had intimate talks like about how we would like to be with each other. we still didnt knw how we both looked like.

2006-12-18 02:22:20 · 9 answers · asked by Lal P 1

i have been physical with her b4, and she uses it as an excuse to run away for weekend at a time, the first weekend she showed up at 6 in the morning in some other mans car, this last weekend she went out with her ex-boyfriends brothers girlfriend and did not show up until 5 oclock the next day, and that evening her ex-boyfriend calls, what should i think here... she tells me that nothing happened yet everything points to her out doin the worst.

2006-12-18 02:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

were ve been going out for about a month i olny saw him copule of times and i had ask for a hug cause he dint give me one and i to have always call him and wen we are on msn i have always talk first we havent kissed yet need avdice plz. is relationship going enywhere?

2006-12-18 02:21:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like i answered in another question ,,, having probs myself with something like that but im not almost going to marry the man . About 9 months ago i met this guy he was a great man but he lived to far away he was in nm and me nc so time was never right we met when i went to nm for a family get together i left and came back to nc i wanted him here and i think i was impatient and time zones were different so i kind of got distant and found someone else and started ignoring him but i still love him and he found somehow up here on the internet .because i changed my # and moved . and siad he sill loved me and he never did forget me and i too ....... but i am with someone else and even before he came back i felt there was something not here and i dont want to hurt the guy that im with feelongs but i am in love the other guy i need help

2006-12-18 02:21:36 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle r 1

or a guy who claims that he is highly principalled and never lies and that he is 100% honest!

2006-12-18 02:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-12-18 02:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by Amir 1

ok, theres this guy at my school who likes me, and he makes it obvious. i want to tell him that i just like him as a friend but i dont want anyone to get hurt. how do i tell him?

2006-12-18 02:19:50 · 2 answers · asked by sasha_miller_2008 2

(i.e., your anniversary)

2006-12-18 02:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6

Im interested in this girl, but am a bit nervous about asking her out anywhere cos we work together.

What i was thinking of doing was asking her closest friend at work (my friend aswell but very close to her - he's gay) if she has a boyfriend, and also to keep it quiet that i asked.

I know he wont keep the secret, and would mention it to her, it might make it a little easier to ask her out.??????

There is already this running joke that im her boyfriend, cos i stood up for her against an idiot at work, and we get on well. But im worried i may be made a fool of cos i took a joke for real. Even she mentions it, coming up to me mentioing whole b/f g/f joke. She even said she was my girl at a work party, but may have just been part of this joke. (its not a mean joke at me)

So yeah would it be good or bad me sorta spreading my own rumour, or should i just go to her and hope. Im not very confident on asking girls out but extremely confident on getting close, flirting and all that

2006-12-18 02:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i make my bf fall inlove with me again,we are both 18,we were together for almost a yr,next month would be our anniversary,but he broke up with me coz he says that he doesnt feel the same anymore,but he still has feelings for me,but not as before.what can i do to for him to fall inlove with me again? has anyone ever experience this?

2006-12-18 02:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by Curiouz 1

i went though his phone when he was sleep he got all these number except mine plus he has pics of all different pics of these females but not one of me what should i do

2006-12-18 02:17:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous