Singles & Dating - 18 December 2006

How can you spend a lot of time in a neighbourhood where not a lot of people live (houses, something like The Desperate Housewives scene only much smaller), where people aren't really out in the street, have most of the time closed windows, you rarely see anybody outside, I don't know what the hell this people do...anyway, they spot you immediately if you're in the neighbourhood, the thing is I am in love with some guy and he lives there but he doesn't know me, he has a dog so maybe I could do something about that...? Anyway, the whole goal is keeping it low ('cause I don't want to be like noticed lurking or considered a stalker), just trying to make that 'casual' moment where two people bump into eachother...u know what I mean?

2006-12-18 03:49:49 · 2 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2

you know how you always get deja vu or however u spell it?? well i believe that u have small dreams all the time everynight..and deja vu is wen u actually live that small dream...moments that happen that u already feel like happened i believe u dreamed at one time...i also believe that eventually all yur dreams will either come true or present a message or clue to yur life..any one agree?? wats yur thoughts on dreams deja vu and day dreaming?? i think its all weird!!!

2006-12-18 03:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2

Last weekend we argued and he went out, I tried contacting him but no reply fri night, sat morning or sat afternoon. I went out and bumped into a famous rugby player who I had mt a few weeks ago. (A friend of mine gave him my number and he texted me as he was going to give me some rugby tickets). Nothing at all happened between us, and he knew I had a boyfriend. On Sat when I went out, I bumped into him again, and got chatting to him, again nothing happened, but I did enjoy the flattery and innocent flirting, esspecially since I was feeling so upset at the time. Me and my friend left the club and went home together. A week later the rugby player text me saying "Maybe I got the wrong end of the stick, but do u want to go out one night?" Unfortunatly my boyfriend saw it and has finished with me. I feel so frustrated as he seems so adamant and extreemly angry. I have told him nothing has happened, but he doesnt believe me. I know he really loves me, what should I do?

2006-12-18 03:47:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i hav a gf ...wat should i give her ...or tell her...dat makes her feel SPECIAL....n she is special....she's the sweetiest girl on this planet alive.....

2006-12-18 03:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by Smarty 2

i met this girl at the beginning of the year, and we quickly became friends and stuff. i started to like her, and was excited when she broke up with her bf. I really like her now, and i think maybe she likes me. we were at her best friend's birthday party, and watching a chick flick late at night. she got tired and laid her head down in my lap. and she seemed disappointed when i said I had to go home. she calls me almost every day just to talk, and we have long talks about deep things like religion, philosophy, love, hate, and our friends. I like her, but how do i know if she likes me?

2006-12-18 03:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by YeahImAzn 2

I've just started university, and my boyfriend and I have been together for about a month now. There is a girl on his course that lives in a house nearby and is in our social group - I'm not very close to her but he is. She's a nice girl except that she's very touchy feely to all of the guys in our group. It doesn't bother me that she does it to any of the other guys but why does she have to do it to my boyfriend?!?! I end up getting jealous and annoyed and take it out on him when I know this is definately not the thing to do...
What can I do? Should I confront her, even though it seems extreme to do so? Should I ask my boyfriend to tell her to stop touching her? Or should I just accept but possibly go mad from anger...

2006-12-18 03:46:05 · 22 answers · asked by abc123abc 1

we used to study in the same school but she quit after a year. but this few days she keeps calling me to watch movie, eat, chat and all those things. i like her but i dun knoe whether she has the same feeling, should i ask her?

2006-12-18 03:45:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

why like eveytime when i go chruch this girl she looks at me or i look at her sometimes. we look in are eyes for long. but noone dont smile. but what it mean. lasttime when i go to chruch she look at me i look that i look somewhere else fast. and she was whit her firends she the oldy one who did it. what does this mean.

2006-12-18 03:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 03:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just met my parents over the weekend. we have been going out for about 11 months. i had dreams of him and me getting married once i finished school and have kids, and be happy. u see he is the only one that can make my heart happy, he completes me in every way. he is 32 and i am 20. he has two kids. I really love him with all my heart, il do anything to save this relationship. when he told me about the mariage thing he said he would never do that b/c he had done that with his exwife and it didnt work, and then he told me that i first have to live with him for about 3 or 4 years and then maybe get married. he believes that he is ruinning me by him giving me hopes in life and since he has lost hope on me its not going to work. he lives his life day by day until one day one or the other will give up on the relationship, he tells me over and over that he loves me with all his heart and i dont know if to believe him or not, please help i need peoples advice im very heartbroken.........

2006-12-18 03:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

like every guy i no looks at porn it can be on t.v are books but why look at it when you have a girl in the nexts room???????? do you guys get off what.Like my boyfriend does that and it kind does makes me feel like im not good

2006-12-18 03:41:15 · 16 answers · asked by blue-butterfly 1

I know this guy for almost 1 year we went out for 1 month but then we broke up.things just didnt work out. he went back with his ex and was going to get marrid.things with them didnt work out and he started talking to me agine after that. he tells me loves me and i love him .e just found out his ex is pregnant with his baby and he has changes so much with me. he got mad at me and we havent talked for 1 wekk. i dont know but i feel like he is in love with her and only used me . should i still talk to him or just give up on that

2006-12-18 03:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girLfriend's good friend is having her debut. this is the debut with aLL that fancy crap, gowns and what not..part of the program is a cotillion. Of course, she was assigned to a partner..and it's not me. The reason for this is because we're in a LDR (i'm in Canada and she's in the PhiLippines). i don't know who her partner is, she doesn't know either. i don't know how to feeL and what to do. she can't back out because her friend is answering for the cost of the gown. she hasn't even given me the honor of dancing with her..right now i just feeL mad and hurt..i threatened her that if she puLLs thru with this i won't be going home for her own debut (w/c is feb. 4). shouLd i feeL this way? Ladies, what wouLd you expect your guy to feeL? heLp pLease..

2006-12-18 03:40:17 · 14 answers · asked by jzawingedpasserby 1

Before him I was in an unhappy 10 year relationship. Near the end of the relationship I started cheating....should I tell my boyfriend this? I don't want him to think I'm the cheating sort even though I did it with my ex. I would never cheat on him....and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. Should I just leave it be and tell him the truth if he asks or should I sit him down and tell him all of it now?

2006-12-18 03:39:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i had to do this paper right. about how to save a wet cell phone. so i havent done the paper and she said that there are 10 people left to present and so i havent even turned in a paper to her at all. so the reason that im not turning it in is because when i get up in front of a class i get really nervous. i mean like i turn red and everything. so wut do you guys think i should do. just deal with it present and let everyone laugh at me and see how red i can get presenting something? through last week and this week ive seen everyone present and they didnt get red or anything but me i do!! i start getting red and people laugh and start secrest and everything. i dont know what to do. PLEASE GIVE ME A SUGGESTION!!!!!

2006-12-18 03:39:48 · 2 answers · asked by mexican-mami 15 1

If so i will pick you as best answer.

2006-12-18 03:38:31 · 32 answers · asked by lucyandtj 2

I am 22 years old and trying to maintain in life I was in an abusive relationship and for almost two years me and him have been broken up for an year now all of a sudden he is starting to come back around and claiming that he just wants to be my friend but he says he is still in love with me. I really don't trust him because of all the things he has done to me . I don't know if I should be around him or just let it go and don' talk to him. He has caused me alot of pain so I don't know if I should talk to him or not . Do you really think he is my friend because part of me feels like he is'nt. He tries to act so cool about everything but I don't believe he really cares for me? Is there still hope for me to find love after I have been so hurt.

2006-12-18 03:38:29 · 5 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2

I was trying to be this girls friend and well things got out of hand. She started telling my co-worker friends to asked me questions. Like if I like her. That's how it started at first. So my friend comes up to me and asked me "so what's up with you and Nicole. I said why? My friend said "she wants to know if you like her or not." I told him to tell her that I don't like her and I also told him I don't like her anymore, because she has a bad mouth and she had sex alot with her boyfriend. So my friend went back and told her everything I said about her. So when I saw her she said to me "so I heard you said I have a bad mouth?" I said "yes I did." And a couple of days later she said that my co-worker friend also said I called her a slut. Which is not true. And I talk to my friend about it. He said he didn't say that. And I believe him, because he is a true friend to me and I know he wouldn't lie to me about that. And my friend said to me what is up with you and Nicole again. I said to him I am just trying to be a christian friend to her. He said to me that she thinks you like her and her boyfriend is geting mad at you for being around her. I said to him I don't like her I only like her has a friend and that is it. So my friend tell her what I said and she saids I don't want to be his friend, but i'll just be nice to him. I think this situation got out of hand and this childish stuff needs to end. She making up stuff. I don't even know why. Now her boyfriend wants to fight me. I asked her if her boyfriend said if he wants to fight me she said no. But my friend said she said he does. I don't know why she brought my friend in it.
What do you guys think about this?

2006-12-18 03:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i met this real nice guy lastnight, and we were sitting on the couch watching tv. He was facing me just a little bit, and he had both his hands on his leg closest to me, then eventually his leg was against mine.....What do this body language mean? just curious :) Thanks!

2006-12-18 03:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by jess_n_flip 4

2006-12-18 03:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amit 2

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We spend every weekend together, we've already met each other's parents, and we're planning New Year's Eve together. Lately, he's been busy at work (making an internal job transition and working late) and so he's been a little more distant than usual. I just don't know if he's been distant because he is busy, or because he's comfortable with me, or because he doesn't like me anymore...

I tend to overanalyze relationships and I become insecure when a guy pulls back. I was wondering if I could get some tips on how to remain myself in an uncertain stage of a new relationship. I don't want to appear needy or insecure...

Any advice?

2006-12-18 03:35:59 · 4 answers · asked by Nicki82 1

2006-12-18 03:33:59 · 19 answers · asked by Conrad 1

so i like this guy and everyone else thinks he likes me too and im sick of waiting....i met him last year but we hardly ever talked...then we have a class together this semester which is when i realized i liked him....we also have a class together next semester and i want to ask him out but last year i asked this other guy out and he hasnt talked to me since and i dont want the same thing to happen to me and this guy because we are pretty good friends and we have a class together next semester.(last year everyone thought that this guy liked me and so i asked him out and nothing good came out of that, i dont want the same thing to happen with me and this other guy) what do i need to do...im oh so very confused.

2006-12-18 03:33:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm so lovesick..i miss her the whole day...i cant eat or sleep..i always think of her every moment...i need to listen to her tender voice...i always dream of her in my sleep....oh my tender baby...oh my sweet honey...I want her to be by my side..oh i wanna be in her heart..im feeling so sad and bitter..lost without her..not able to be with her on her 13th birthday..i love you baby...

2006-12-18 03:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I were to say, for now, I would enjoy spending the night doing nothing more than just cuddling and falling asleep.

2006-12-18 03:32:24 · 35 answers · asked by versatilemile 2

How much do you love Johnny Depp?

2006-12-18 03:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Ciiindy! 1

what does a guy mean when he loved a girl for 7 months(on n off relationship) and now he told the girl's friend that he still like the girl but he don't want to tell her(as in say it out).He told the girl's friend that he feels that it is better to love a person in his heart than to be together. he would only tell her when the time is ripe. so...my qn is,what does he really mean by doing that? and..why did he prefer to do it this way than to tell her when the girl's friend said that she is still interested in him...?

2006-12-18 03:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know someone and I think she messing around on her boyfriend

2006-12-18 03:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1

Why do some guys find it necessary to never admitt when they are wrong and place all the blame on the other person for reacting to their considerateness or disrepectfulness in an unapproving way? Why can't a guy just say, "I understand why you're upset." Why is it, "You should've done this or you should've done that." Some guys just never take responsibility for their role in the situation they play the blame game. Why is that? What is with a a man's twisted mind games. Does it make him feel better to make someone else feel guilty?

2006-12-18 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by geminig 1

I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago, but we've remained great friends. We chat, go out to dinner, and sometimes talk about who we're currently dating. We went to his office xmas party saturday night, just as friends, and he introduced me to this guy, cory, that he worked with. This guy was gorgeous. So about 2 hours and many martinis later, cory and i went out fr a smoke. Neither of us had to say anything, we already knew what the other person was thinking. The attraction was mutual from the minute we met. He said wanted to ask me out, but he was afraid he'd be stepping on toes. Though we only chatted for a bit, we both felt a real connection. But in the middle of our convo, my ex came outside. He and I rushed out of the party before cory and I got a chance to exchange numbers.
So should I try to get a hold of cory somehow, or just forget about him completely?
*I think I know the right thing to do but I thought I'd ask anyway*
sometimes its easier said than done.....

2006-12-18 03:29:03 · 3 answers · asked by theburlaces 3