I understand why he did it....and I swear to god I loved him and it was never my intentions to be unfaith full...I did it while I was under the influence of drugs ,for drugs, butt....................He got way out of line trying to get back at me ,not only did he degrade me as a woman and a human being but he also abused me phisicly untill I stoped allowing it!!!Two wrongs dont make a right though!!! what can I do to show him i dont need him and to prove to him that I can go on with my life with out being tortured by him just because he thinks he can ,or he had the right to do so because of the mistakesI made while I was high....I want the last laugh ......he had no right to cause me such phisical and emotional harm.....
2006-12-18 02:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am hoping you are not an addict...If you are get yourself clean...for yourself...You have to start respecting yourself. Taking care of your health and appearence...Please do this for you.
Cut off all contact with him completely.
2006-12-18 02:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for you to prove you can go on with your life is to do just that. Go on with your life.
One of your first steps should be to take a long hard look at the life you have already been leading. Is this life what you want? Do you want to do drugs? Do you want to make bad decisions under the influence of drugs? Do you want to blame your bad decisions on drugs rather than taking responsibility for your choices-- that's a good way to become an addict, btw. Do you want to keep picking men that emotionally and physically abuse you?
It's time to act like an adult and realize that your actions have consequences. If you make mistakes while you are high you are still responsible for those mistakes. Did you think you weren't? Wrong. You are still responsible. Stop getting high and blaming your actions on drugs. And get some counseling to understand why you are trying to destroy your life.
Because, you ARE on the way to destroying your life if you refuse to admit that you are responsible for your choices, including the ones you make when you are high.
2006-12-18 02:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get off the drugs so that you can actually think.
Then you can grow up and stop trying to hurt him. True, he didn't have the right to hurt you, but you hurt him too. Being high is not an excuse, because you chose to do whatever drugs you were on. All you can do is let go, move on, and find a better one. (And then not cheat on him).
Hurting him more will do you no good whatsoever.
2006-12-18 02:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 15:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on get or stay off them drugs get a new boyfriend but take baby steps dont rush into anything
2006-12-18 02:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just get on with your life and ignore him? By trying to wreak yoru revenge on him, he still (effectively) has a hold over you.
Isn't that what you're trying to escape?
Deny his existance and do what makes you happy. Him seeing that will be enough to torment him.........trust me.
2006-12-18 02:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u start dating someone else? that should show him that u have lost interest in him and have moved on. But don't just do it for him do it for ur self to.
2006-12-18 02:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give a little bit more info in order to receive the correct answer. for ex wht did he do that was so bad? it sounds like rape and if so call the authorities
2006-12-18 02:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept that you broke his heart and he wanted to hurt you as much as you hurt him. You probably permanently scared him. Isn't that enough? Move on.
2006-12-18 02:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than trying to prove to him that you can goon without him, you should be proving it to yourself. clearly your relationship was in tatters before you cheated, but see him kicking you to the curb as a good thing. now he won't abuse you anymore.
2006-12-18 02:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lin B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋