If you like a girl and you knew her BF hit her what would you do?

Question

If you were just a friend or if you like her more than a common friend...

Answer 1

You should really step in and help her.She might be afriad to tell anyone about it cuz she is afriad of him.Or you might want to try telling someone before he really hurts her.

Answer 2

I've been on both sides of this situation, seeing a friend be abused and being the girl getting abused, and there really is nothing you can do until she decides to leave this situation. Sometimes women have self esteem issues and stay in this kind of relationship and as sad as it is, people treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated. Try talking to her and find out why she would stay with someone who hit her, and let her know she has your support as a friend/whatever if she chooses to leave. But if she stays, that you do not want to hear about her getting hit because it upsets you. Hopefully she will leave but if not you should not do anything about this. She is choosing the way she is treated.

Answer 3

First of all it is illegal for anyone to lay a hand on anyone. So if it is really true that her boyfriend hit her, then you need to tell someone who can do something about it. If you really do care for her then you need to let her figure out what it is that she wants. She obviously wont let this guy go even though he hurt her. Sometimes stuff like that can scar a person and she will eventually figure out that she needs out of the relationship on her own. When and if that happens; that should be when you decide to let your true feelings show. For now, I would just remain a friend and keep your feelings in. Good luck and happy holidays

Answer 4

step in.
whether or not you like her romantically you should stop this guy from hitting her.
she doesn't deserve that.
if you like her..you should show her how you can be better and tell her bf off.
he knows that hitting her is wrong and its only a matter of time until she finds someone better.
maybe you.
good luck, i hope it works out :]

Answer 5

Talk to her about it and see how she actual feels about this. If she is in denial or fears getting out of the relationship, etc. Go find her help she may be VERY mad at 1st but you will also be saving a life. It ONLY gets worst!!!!

Answer 6

I would do anything under my influence to convinse her to leave b4re it was too late for her........Do something ,dont just let her get degraded to the point of no return...If you really like her you will try your best to protect her and some how convince her!!!

Answer 7

if it were me....I would try to contact one of her family members (maybe a brother)and let them know what is happening to her....at the same time ask them to keep your name out of so she won't think that you are meddling in her business.Sometimes it takes a family member to intervene.A family member could confront her and that boyfriend...let that boyfriend know that she is not alone and has friends and family that will defend her like a lioness defending her cub.

At the same time when all this happens....someone...maybe you can advise her that someone who loves you will not hurt you like that....and beating her is also disrespect to herself and her family.

Answer 8

whoop a$$ that is UNECCEPTABLE!!!!!..then take her away on you horse and hold her in your arms and give her a pationate kiss! if u like her alot or even just as a frind then u should protect her form anything!! if she is afraid of getting out of the relationship make sure that she and him are completely avoiding eachother if it is that serious get adult males envolved..that always ends well.......HA...show that peice of sh!t up!!!

Answer 9

Let her know that you know and that she shouldn't be treated that way. Tell her that she deserves better and make her feel that you are there for her.
Hope this helps. Best of luck.

Answer 10

Tell her parents, and lay my mack down as often as I get the chance.