i have been physical with her b4, and she uses it as an excuse to run away for weekend at a time, the first weekend she showed up at 6 in the morning in some other mans car, this last weekend she went out with her ex-boyfriends brothers girlfriend and did not show up until 5 oclock the next day, and that evening her ex-boyfriend calls, what should i think here... she tells me that nothing happened yet everything points to her out doin the worst.
2006-12-18 02:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get physical? I hope you don't mean beat her up! because if you do you deserve what you get!
If you mean "get physical" as in sex, well then that is different.
Either way...showing up at 6am...HELLO??????...and in another man's car...if she isn't sleeping with other men, she wants you to think she is. Move on either way, you'll find somebody better than that! That is if you don't mean "get physical" as in beat her up!
2006-12-18 02:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of you have alot of growing up to do. There's a lot of issues that need to be dealt with in this relationship. You said you have been 'physical' with her in the past and she uses that as an excuse to justify her behavior. If you mean you have been physically abusive then you should re-evaluate the relationship and your own behavior before things escalate. I'd suggest you seek counseling and/or other help with your tendency to be physically abusive with females and address that matter before you suffer severe consequences and realize that this is no small issue. As to her behavior, she may just want out. It could be that she doesn't consider your relationship as on-going. I wonder if you had taken time to actually make plans with her for the weekend and she just blew you off or whether you just assumed that the two of you would spend the weekend together. This could be a communication problem more than anything else. There's some serious problems evident in this relationship on the part of both of you and I hope you recognize that. Good Luck
2006-12-18 02:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are probably right on. If you did get physical in a way that caused her harm you are totally wrong. There is no reason to ever hit or even grab a woman. Even if she is a skank. Which in this case she may be. I know that some women who will act in a way that would make a man want to just beat the crap out of her but it doesn't make it right even if she does deserve it. Just let the ho go. She's still seeing her ex. There is a good chance that you drove her to it by hitting her.
2006-12-18 02:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dah veed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when the ex b/f calls and she stays out all night and another guy brings her home it's normally not good. I'm not sayin she's cheatin on you but I would start puttin my gaurd up cuz 9 out of 10 times that's never a good thing. Hope I could help and I'm sorry you are goin through with this.
2006-12-18 02:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by beachbabe87069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship once where my boyfriend decided to "get psychical" with me. I didn't want to end it, for several reasons. However any love or respect I had had for him was gone. As a result I spent more time away from him then with him. Eventually I dumped him, he had a habit of "getting psychical". What you are seeing here is the backlash of you "getting psychical", you hurt her badly, not just psychically. Until you realize that and really beg for forgiveness things won't change. More than likely you'll "get psychical" again, and she'll leave you for good. She may have started cheating, to get back at you for "getting psychical".
2006-12-18 02:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 03:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by suire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question really is do you really want to live like this? because her behavior obviously isn't gonna stop so do you want to keep putting up with it? there are some really great girls out there who don't feel the need to behave like that in a commited relationship so if i were you i would go find one of them. all your doing is allowing yourself to be disrespected and letting her walk all over you! STOP! you don't need that kind of relatonship, no one does. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-18 02:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do u trust her, if so then nothing is going on they are just friends. If you think that something is happeneing then yes she is dating other ppl too and not just you. I think you should ask her what you and her are doing. If u guys are just dating or if u guys are an item. It's important to be on the right page
2006-12-18 02:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? or blind? you cant see what shes trying to tell you she want a little toy when none of her other ones are around she plays with you! What are you doing with this girl show her she not going to play with you dump her and go out have fun youre not married to her, can you imagine being married to this women? it seems she has something powerful for you to be around still! you are crazy! get up and show her whos boss !
2006-12-18 02:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, move on -- she sounds like she gets around and is using you. Keep her skanky a$$ away -- before you catch something you don't want.
There's plenty of nice girls out there -- go find a good one.
2006-12-18 02:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋