well.....ive never smiled so much in my life....never felt so....content wouldnt be the correct word...b/c im way happier than content...well...ive never cared so much about this one person...or any person before....but i care...and im happy...and i cant seem to destract my self from him....i cannot remove him from my mind....but...im not sure if i want to get involved in a real relationship right now....but i really would like to be with him....im having all these confusing feelings.....maybe some one could help me find a clearer choice...
2006-12-18 02:23:42 · 24 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO IT!!!!!! you only live once!
2006-12-18 02:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by bossman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although difficult, it is way better to make sure that you have covered all your bases, achieved the goals you wanted to achieve before you get into a relationship, and that you are really feeling actual feelings for this guy and not just some flutters because of whatever it is about him that you like so far - looks, good job, whatever. You should still be able to have a relationship with him though if you make him understand that certain things are a priority and you will need to put them on top for awhile. The best thing anyone can do is express their true feelings, thoughts, and all and stop playing with people's hearts. Be straight with him and tell him what's up with you.
2006-12-18 02:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by A B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With second (and third and so on) baby you will feel everything sooner. You will also show a lot sooner. Your body just kind of says "ohh, I know what to do now" and bam, you have a belly. You feel it sooner, too, because you know what you're feeling. A lot of first time Moms just don't realize that the really early feelings are, in fact, the baby. I wasn't in maternity clothes or feeling anything until I was 20+ weeks with my first. Maternity clothes and definate baby flutters by 15 weeks with my second. If you know all of your dates are right and such, then keep with your due date. You're just feeling sooner because it's your second. :D Congrats!
2016-05-23 04:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to love someone, totally and completely. With everything we do in life there is a risk. If you don't take them once in a while, you risk the most, to not experience life. Remember that all risk involves possibly getting hurt. But the possabilities of the out come can be worth more than gold. And know that what you feel when you are in love, even if it ends, are your feelings and memories. You can have those forever.
2006-12-18 02:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in love. All the classic signs. If you aren't ready for a relationship, you can still date other people too if it's o.k. with him, but if he finds someone else he likes better along the way, how YOU gonna feel? Does he feel the same way about you?. It's not like you hafta get married or anything right now. Give it some time.
2006-12-18 02:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love. However, realize you are under no obligation to act on your impulses or feelings. Is your life settled? If you're in high school, stick to schoolwork... it's the better road. College? I would stick to schoolwork. Think: being "content" might just be a "relief" from tension, or boredom. Change is short-lived. When you date someone, they become familiar. Are you ready for that? Do you want steadiness and sameness, or fast change? Big questions, big choices for you.
2006-12-18 02:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've heard so many times about persons who don't think it's the right time of getting involved even though they love the person. Personally, the one time i did not want a relationship, i met my b/f and i'm thank full i never said no. he's wonderful.I'm happy.more than happy.
2006-12-18 02:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a huge crush or infatuation and may be falling for this person, what's so bad about a real relationship if it makes you feel this way? I say go wherever it takes you and keep ahold of the good feelings. Trust your instincts.
2006-12-18 02:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oppurtunity only knocks once .Go for it and remember no one said you can't have a relationship with out commitment .Thats what dating is about you may find the feeling fade in time are grow to the point you want to commit.
2006-12-18 02:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself would it be worse to get in a relationship right now or to let go of and lose this person you have these feelings for.
2006-12-18 02:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by theresalynn_1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the first signs of love! don't let those feeling confuse you or cloud your judgement. just take it nice an slow and time will tell if it is truely love that you have for this person or just infactuation. it's great to feel that about somebody...but don't feel that you have to do something quickly to secure that person to your side. if it is true love on both sides...then your relationship will prevail.
2006-12-18 02:30:25 · answer #11 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋