Singles & Dating - 14 December 2006

There is one guy, one of my ex-boyfriends, he broke up with his girlfriend (they were together for 4 years..) last week and he insists that we should be together, we talked about this even before he broke up...I said clearly to him that I don't wanna be with him...and I even told him that we shouldn't see each other for a while... but he still calls me everyday.. and insists to see each other... he's very stubborn..

can can I make him understand..?

2006-12-14 22:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by Adiu 1

another chicks bed( the exs friend)?????
bt says nothing happened...and this was 2 years ago and u just found out

2006-12-14 22:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 2 and a half years since she left, and even after having other relationships, I realize that she's the only one I was willing to give anything, and whom I would trust to give me everything I needed to live happily. She's engaged now, and a few months ago ( we were talking a lot before) she invoked an indefinate hiatus on communicating with me. Given her sense of loyalty to her fiance, I can appreciate this, but I'm far from happy with it. Can a man fight for the woman he loves, from a distance that he can't financially cross due to temporary circumstances (education).
We'd known each other for 6 years before she moved away, and we shared our love of each other before she left. I've refrained from using the words "I love you", because I knew it would draw a line, a line hard to uphold over distances. However, there is nothing closer to the truth, and I still can't buy a ticket to hold her, and remind her of how i feel. Should I write her a letter, or just keep waiting?

2006-12-14 22:00:30 · 13 answers · asked by mjameslyons 1

2006-12-14 22:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by JAMES R 3

So many girls always ask for a ''bad boy''! Well, i got mine! About 7 weeks ago, met this guy, he's a few years older than me. At first i just thought it would be a very quick relationship...tops-1week! But it went on for a little while longer! He was so involved with drugs..i knew this but didn't think it would affect me. He became a bit too attached to me and said things like...he needed someone like me. I was quite straightfoward with him and told him he needs to re-think his life strategy cos he's the one who's going to be absolutely miserable if he throws his life away!
I'm away from home now...and i heard from a friend of mine that he's away at rehab. I think he does have feelings for me!
My problem: What will i do when/if i see him again??! How must i react?
I don't think i wanna c him again!
I know i don't have feelings for him, except friendship.

2006-12-14 21:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Sistr P* 3

i have had sex with this man and he says he enjoyed it i have feelings for him how do i know if he has feelings for me, he tells me he cant sleep with me anymore. do you think he likes me?

2006-12-14 21:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm thinking about getting it as a christmas present for someone

2006-12-14 21:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by debra 2

well i told my bf i done something terble and where still going out but when i said how do i make up to you he said i dint need two and i want to make it up to him but i dont how two hes a shy kind of guy

2006-12-14 21:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1

I'm in love but he's taken! what can I do? Now he's my friend and he cares about me and his gf is my friend too! please help!

2006-12-14 21:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1

that a girl likes him,but he is not attracted to her or doesn't feel the same way and she acts wierd because of the attraction she has to him, will he avoid her or will he keep talking to her like always and show an interest in what she's been doing and tell her more about himself?

2006-12-14 21:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by debra 2

I met this guy through the internet dating service e-harmony. After exchanging only a few emails, he asked me if he could come and visit me in the town in which I live that happens to be six hours away. We met, and went out to dinner. I really like the guy, but I am NOT physically attracted to him at all. I find him repulsive in that regard. However, he is extremely attracted to me, and wants to maintain contact with me. He has been saying that he wants to come back next weekend, and I don't know what to say. He is a very nice, sweet person who has suffered misfortune in his life. The idea of hurting someone's feelings absolutely kills me inside, and I don't know how to handle the situation. I can't use the I'm getting back with my exboyfriend excuse because my profile is still up on e-harmony, and I'm not taking it down. Any advice?

2006-12-14 21:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 21:45:34 · 18 answers · asked by BRN305 1

How do i tell my overly sensitive boyfriend of one month that i dont wanna go out with him anymore without him crying? He's a lovely guy but highly sensitive!! He never listens to anything i say and he bores me, all he ever wants to do is watch tv and hug! As i say lovely guy but just not for me. I dont wanna hurt him to much, but cant go on anymore! Any suggestions?

2006-12-14 21:45:18 · 23 answers · asked by AMG83 2

We have been going out for a few months now. My boyfriend has made the comment twice now that he feels as if he has known me for longer than he knew his x-fiance(who he knew for 2years & me he's known for 1 year) and that he loves me more in the 4months that we have been going out than their 1yr 9months. He's mentioned that he's looking forward to get engaged to me after I finish my degree. Could he be serious about getting engaged/married to me?

2006-12-14 21:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by viciousmishious 1

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2006-12-14 21:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by NO MORE WARS 1

This guy is really nice and I made a mess of it because I fell for him while I was in love another guy too. But he told me he could never be angry at me and that he hopes to meet me someday. I am trying to make it up to him after I told him I know now that we are only friends and that I do love the other guy. So I have been texting him and asking him what can I do to make him happy again but he won't answer me. Why is it because he doesn't want me to get confuse again? I know he waits for the messages so why doestn't he answer them. I guess I feel so guilty for treating him so bad. so I want to make it up to him-Before he would wait for me on IM..he even re added me after I cut him off my blog and told him I could never love him. I told him I was so sorry and he just answered I could never be angry at you..and still talked to me..so if he said he could never get angry at me why won't he answer me? Do you think he is afraid I might like him for more than a friend..is it the other guy?

2006-12-14 21:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 21:38:39 · 33 answers · asked by tony b 1

Do you feel extremely sad. Do you feel that the she was the only one in the world. Do you feel that nothing in life is better than having her, neither a flourishing career, nor lots of friends, no program on TV, not even driving.

And then, when you hear that she has started seeing someone, what you do?

2006-12-14 21:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by Infinite 2

she is 24 , 2 inches smaller than me, and very pretty, but she is stronger, and now she keeps making comments about my not being naughty, how would you feel if it happened to you?

2006-12-14 21:33:32 · 22 answers · asked by ashelyr 1

we have been together a little over a year and last years christmas wasnt well.... shes in mid 30's, likes music and is easy going... not looking to spend a fortune, probably right around 200.00... HELP!!!!

2006-12-14 21:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by clutch_power 2

2006-12-14 21:30:48 · 15 answers · asked by Donald R 1

2006-12-14 21:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the company I work for there's a guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. I've worked there for 18 months. I don't have a lot of experience so I'd really like some advice. He's the first guy I've been attracted to in ages. I'm 28 and he's around 35 and single. There are quite a lot of gorgeous 18-20 year old girls around the office and I don't consider myself particularly attractive, though I'm told I have a good sense of humour. Anyway, this guy is friendly and talkative around the younger ones, but seems very nervous around me. If I get within about six feet of him to ask a question he speaks loudly, seems flustered, almost annoyed, and can't get the words out quick enough. Yet,when I say goodbye at the end of the day he gives me a lovely smile and says goodbye back to me, so long as I'm standing well away from him. If I stand near him he won't look at me. When we're in a group during coffee break he talks to the others with ease, but he doesn't talk or look at me. What to do!

2006-12-14 21:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by surrealmu 1

i meen to say to make friends

2006-12-14 21:16:03 · 16 answers · asked by yazad_coolstar 1

Recently a guy came from another country to work with us a while and I fell for him. Nothing happened because he was about to leave back home but he knows I like him. In any event, to makes things worse, there is this "fun" girl in the department that every guy had a crush on at some point in their lives. She is so fun and energetic and she is pretty and full of self-confidence which I totally lack in this environment. Doesn't matter how, but he told me that I was prettier and that he is not attracted to her. Was he telling the truth or kind of defending and protecting himself? I think that is load of bull because if he thinks she's pretty then he has to be attracted to her. His friend told me that if a girl is too pretty, guys get "immune" and are not actually attracted to them. I just know that if I want his attention, I cannot compete with her self-confidence. What do you think? Are guys running away from insecure girls?

2006-12-14 21:15:05 · 8 answers · asked by stargazer 2

i need some tips on filrting with my bf cause i have to lead and i never lead before untill he opens up and im shy im not sure how to flirt can i have some tips please?

2006-12-14 21:12:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or should I walk past again.....?

2006-12-14 21:10:15 · 31 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

we have been together for 2 years and I love her very much..I just recently got back from Iraq and while I was gone she cheated on me numerous times..but I cheated also..I dont know what 2 do..I love her very much and she says it bothers her that we dont have sex

2006-12-14 21:08:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 21:06:35 · 22 answers · asked by sonu 1

I found a girl staring at me for quite a long time in a class room.This happens regularly.I like her.I want to know whether she likes(loves) me or is it just my feeling.how to do that ?

2006-12-14 20:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by MaN 1