another chicks bed( the exs friend)?????
bt says nothing happened...and this was 2 years ago and u just found out
2006-12-14 22:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did it take him 2 years to tell you? thats because he is GUILTY, he is lying to you, it is obvious something else or more happend then what he is telling you, otherwise he would of told you straight away.
I dont think you should trust this guy at all, i mean you have JUST found out about this incident, so he could be hiding SOOO much more from you!
I suggest you be very careful because he doesnt sound trustworthy at all, i just cant believe it has taken him 2 years!!!! you need to dump his ass! and find someone who will be honest with you!
2006-12-14 22:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet something happened and that's the reason you just found out about it.
I mean I would bet money that something happened.
Something similar to this happened to me a couple of years ago.
My X was at a girlfriends house and didn't come home one night (which wasn't like her at all). She told me that she stayed in her friends bed (who was a girl) but come to find out shortly there after, some guy from her High School was there and they hooked up, so as it turned out she cheated on me with him and now there married.
They are married now and living a life destine for failure...
So I would be weary...
2006-12-14 22:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Clyde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he needs some time apart from you to really consider if he wants to be with you. Put your foot down and let him know you will not tolerate his weakness in going back to his ex.
You'd do well to keep him on a short leash and if he strays the slightest, its time to start seein other people. If he's not downright crazy for you, then it isn't worth it anyhow... Without that, it sounds less like you two have a BF/GF thing and more like you're just Friends (with benefits).
2006-12-14 22:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a j***k a** and is not worthy of any form of remorse from you.But on the other hand it happened two years ago and you need to have a human heart and forgive him.He is irresponsible and should have told you that just after it had happened it wouldn't have been troubling you now,just search yourself and see if you two will last after this scandal.It's all up to you to decide.
2006-12-14 22:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by papa askofu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie and say "that's funny I forgot to tell you that night I slept with your friend(insert name here)" but hey that was 2 years ago. He will be beside himself!!!
2006-12-14 22:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happened, whatever. He's lying. If it happened before you got together with him don't worry about it. If happened after you got together kick his drunk ass to the curb.
2006-12-14 22:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well... charge it to the game. Just be careful of any future slip ups.
2006-12-14 22:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by ghanstabytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make sure nothing did happen first other wise it will stay in your head and reck your relationship
2006-12-14 22:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon.. this was 2 years ago... if you are sure that he woun't do this again.. u can forget about it.. but if he would do it again.. u should think twice..
2006-12-14 22:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Adiu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh forget him or forget that moment
up to u
2006-12-14 22:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋