well i told my bf i done something terble and where still going out but when i said how do i make up to you he said i dint need two and i want to make it up to him but i dont how two hes a shy kind of guy
2006-12-14 21:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi girly goth
Okay what you have here is a real men are from mars women are from venus thing going on, as a woman you want to talk about your problems discuss your feelings endlessly viewfrom every angle get them out in the open and off your chest.
MEN DO NOT WANT TO DO THIS
it makes us feel worse,
what we want to do is return to our basic caveman personality
retreat into out cave for a couple of days club a lion, lick our wounds forget the whole thing. thats how we get better
IF YOU MUST SPEAK ABOUT IT
The ONLY thing you need to say is
It will never happen again
2006-12-14 22:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is honest when odds are - he isn't, then go on and pick up where you left off. If my suspicions are correct, you'll eventually find out if he really holds anything against you. It's possible that your boyfriend is passive-aggressive or just a plain liar. (That just may be my experience). But when the little acts or words come up and you and only you end up hurt over and over and you ask him 'why' he did or said that and he answers back with, "I didn't mean anything by it" or " get over it, you're too sensitive!" or "you've done worse!" then you know he lied and he is on a path of revenge and believe me it will never stop until he admits that he was hurt by you. Especially if the 'act' was cheating. If it was anything less than betrayal, then maybe he's telling the truth and you are just feeling unnecessary guilt. Forgive yourself so you both can go on a be happy.
2006-12-14 22:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spelling better and using a little punctuation so I can understand what you're saying first. =)
Then, I'd have to say that, from what little information you've given us (something terrible!?) that he's either ok with it now, or he's dealing with it now, or he's definitely not ok with it and he's about to leave you. Try relaxing and enjoying your life, we don't get to control everything.
2006-12-14 22:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't keep bringing it up and probably wants to just forget the whole thing happened.
2006-12-14 21:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right, just do your best, I really don't know what else I can tell you. Good Luck.
2006-12-14 22:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about "making up" or "making out" with him?
2006-12-14 21:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about whatever you did. Eventually, you will make it up to him...
2006-12-14 21:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Renee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fallow your heart and talk to him
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2006-12-14 21:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM,,,,,
2006-12-14 22:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋