she is 24 , 2 inches smaller than me, and very pretty, but she is stronger, and now she keeps making comments about my not being naughty, how would you feel if it happened to you?
2006-12-14 21:33:32 · 22 answers · asked by ashelyr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm thinking that you should get more naughty with her? That's what I would do! Naughty is the new FUN!
2006-12-14 21:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a game, and really good fun if you are into it. But if you are not into it then explain that too her. If you're not sure then tell her you are finding it a bit strange and uncomfortable and could she take things slow and see how it goes.
Lots of guys, and girls really enjoy being treated like that as a form of play. But you really need to be confident with your partner and trust them implicitly. Also you are more likely to enjoy being a submissive if you are fairly confident and have a responsible position in the outside world. If you feel out of control in the rest of your life you aren't going to want to relinquish it in your fantasy life.
Speak to you girlfriend. Lots of people who enjoy being domintant also enjoy being submissive so maybe it will help you feel more comfortable if you take it in turns to take the lead. It's probably worth you having a safe word too. One that when the sub says it the dom immediately stops all activity. Not something that can be confused with part of the game so not "Stop" or "don't" or "I've had enough". Something obscure like "doughnut" or whatever.
Your girlfriend obviously feels confident enough in your relationship to reveal this very personal aspect of her sexuality. Whatever you decide to do, appreciate the compliment she has paid you with that.
2006-12-14 21:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its definately an interesting end to an argument... probably better than most! but dont be intimidated by her strength, use it to your advantage! imagine the sexual positions achievable with a stronger woman! and if she wants you to be naughty, do it! realationships are all about give and take, tell her how you feel and she might make allowances and settle down, but that also means you have to do something for her in return! hope that helps!
2006-12-14 21:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by lama_man2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i became into your mom and you threw a tantrum in a public place i could take you out of there and you would be able to get punished at homestead. i think of in spanking yet now no longer on a bare butt and not if the newborn is over a undeniable age. i think of of if a newborn is over the age of five then they should not be spanked to any extent further and ought to in basic terms be despatched to time-out or get some ingredient taken away. I surely have a toddler who gets spankings yet in basic terms whilst he has a diaper on and that i confirm it would not reason relatively some soreness. i could have grounded you for each week with out telephone or television. you does now no longer be allowed to play outdoors or with pals. i do now no longer have faith how your mom and pop are disciplining you.
2016-10-14 23:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need some positive education on this subject cause these things need to be agreeable for the both of you, you cant just go around smacking each other around with a fukn 2/4 and say i love you. You must communicate your interests and discuss an agreeable solution, but i should say BOTH should be open minded!!
2006-12-14 21:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by holdonto_mr_brightside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf spanks all the time but just for fun. I let her do that since I love getting spanked by my gf. And I find it wierd that u have a gf thats stronger than you but shorter, I never heard of such thing. You must be very weak.
2006-12-14 21:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very aroused, I say be naughty all you want or not, (English accent) which ever is your cup of tea. And in the words of Eric from That's 70's Show, "Be naughty Donna, (whispering) I won't tell."
2006-12-14 21:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she spanked you when you didn't want nor ask for it, it should be considered as abuse. If she hasn't done anything like this before, she needs to seek help from a mental health professional. If she has done something like this, then you should consider packing up your things and leaving her.
2006-12-14 21:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her and hand her the paddle the next time you get naughty
2006-12-14 21:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Souled Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a door mat stay with her in your current state, personally I would get fit and put up a better fight next time around.
2006-12-14 21:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋