This guy is really nice and I made a mess of it because I fell for him while I was in love another guy too. But he told me he could never be angry at me and that he hopes to meet me someday. I am trying to make it up to him after I told him I know now that we are only friends and that I do love the other guy. So I have been texting him and asking him what can I do to make him happy again but he won't answer me. Why is it because he doesn't want me to get confuse again? I know he waits for the messages so why doestn't he answer them. I guess I feel so guilty for treating him so bad. so I want to make it up to him-Before he would wait for me on IM..he even re added me after I cut him off my blog and told him I could never love him. I told him I was so sorry and he just answered I could never be angry at you..and still talked to me..so if he said he could never get angry at me why won't he answer me? Do you think he is afraid I might like him for more than a friend..is it the other guy?
2006-12-14 21:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to meet up. Discuss it frankly and settle the issues across the table. If he accepts and continues the relationship, its good. Else, its hard at first, but move on; it's your life.
2006-12-14 21:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is hurt and hurt is a form of anger. Don't waste your time waiting for someone to forgive you, they will do it in their own time. In the meantime since you're not married enjoy your life! The thing you want may not be what you need. Remember, we tend to want what we can't have then we tend to treat it the way we did when we lost it. If he calls you or texts you with a 'meaningful' conversation then you will know but as for now you are basically putting yourself through unnecessary pain.
2006-12-14 21:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like him a lot. But, for a relationship to work, it should be give and take. He's not responding to your text messages, so I would stop contacting him. Just wait to see if he starts contacting you again. If not, then just move on. The right guy will come along!
2006-12-14 21:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tooooooo complicated. I couldn't concentrate enough to read thewhole thing.
Stop obcessing. If a gut stops msg you, then you stop too.
Get a life and stop game playing.
2006-12-14 21:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just needs time to deal with the whole situation. dont push him or yourself to do anything, jut let the time pass, everything will be the way they should be!
2006-12-14 21:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋