There is one guy, one of my ex-boyfriends, he broke up with his girlfriend (they were together for 4 years..) last week and he insists that we should be together, we talked about this even before he broke up...I said clearly to him that I don't wanna be with him...and I even told him that we shouldn't see each other for a while... but he still calls me everyday.. and insists to see each other... he's very stubborn..
can can I make him understand..?
2006-12-14 22:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by Adiu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with his best friend!
2006-12-14 22:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd ask yourself whether you want to end this problem or not.
If it's not that important, by all means, keep answering his calls and talking to him.
If you actually want to end it...
Do NOT talk to him. Be MEAN if you must. BUT by no means will you continue to communicate with him, and if you think there is even a small risk that he could be dangerous to you, you should tell someone, or tell someone close to him (parents, a close friend, somebody he might listen to!) about his behaviour and about how much you NEED him to stop contacting you.
THEN, maybe after a few years, he might have forgotten you, but I would not push you luck.
Your last statements "insists to see each other... he's very stubborn".
You are being a push over, he'll get over it, or he'll die trying in the ultimate worse case scenario. Either way, his problems are not your problem. Solve your problem.
P.S. Why does he need to understand, really? It's over, no more talk. Over.
2006-12-15 06:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a letter by registered or recorded post making your views absolutely clear...make sure you keep a copy.If he still bothers you send another by registered post saying if he doesn`t lay off you`ll count it as stalking...again, keep a copy.If those two don`t work, ask the local police for advice.You may need to go down the road of restraining orders and so on.
2006-12-15 06:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by badger_shaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yea its possible u can make him understand just keep on tellin em u dont want to be with him at all and if u need to get to da point where he aint stoppin at all then i think ma u need to just blow up and tear him off cuz den i no for a fact hell leave u alone but if he dont den dats wut i call a hardheaded man for sho Good Luck
2006-12-15 06:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by leah95_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,its kinda simple considering i was and still am a guy who cant forget about my ex.there was a few very very effective ways to doing it,one,she totally adn i mean totally ignored me.the other she did it was to go out adn talk alot to my male enemies.and that pissed the living hell outta me
2006-12-15 07:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit answering his phone calls and ignore him
2006-12-15 06:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us guys don't understand subtle - be very blunt - then don't take calls or talk to him - total shut out --he will get it sooner or later
2006-12-15 06:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Moosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** it. You tried to be nice. Play him. Obviously he won't understand until he see's it.
2006-12-15 06:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by ghanstabytch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe u should explain in very slowely
2006-12-15 06:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by jjdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me he'll stop.
i'm mean -n- ugly
2006-12-15 06:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by kojackremodeling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋