We have been going out for a few months now. My boyfriend has made the comment twice now that he feels as if he has known me for longer than he knew his x-fiance(who he knew for 2years & me he's known for 1 year) and that he loves me more in the 4months that we have been going out than their 1yr 9months. He's mentioned that he's looking forward to get engaged to me after I finish my degree. Could he be serious about getting engaged/married to me?
2006-12-14 21:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by viciousmishious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its just a little weird that he keeps mentioning his ex, that must be pretty annoying for you. I think he is being serious, but that would just be a best guess. You are with him and when you hear him talk, do YOU think he is serious? I can not say that for you, but if ou love him, just go for it and if you are really nor sure, that means that you don't trust his word and then a relationship is not going to work. Love is based on trust.
Answer these questions to yourself.
1. Do you love him?
2. Do you trust him?
3. Would you want to get married?
If you answer with yes, then this whole thing should not be anything that you should doubt over. You just tell him that you would love to get engaged and that you would want to get serious.
If you answered the first question yes, but the other questions no, then you should just take it slow, you are still young, so don't rush into anything. YOU have all the time in the world and if he really loves you, he will respect that.
Good luck...
2006-12-14 21:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is still trying to get over his ex fiance as fast as possible- and he's doing anything he can to convince himself he is. If your the girl right after his ex fiance.. maybe you're the rebound girl. Unless he honestly feels this.
I can't tell you what he's thinking but from an outsiders point of view this is what it seems. Hopefully this helps.
2006-12-14 21:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got the"I love you" syndrom! Some men use the word love like the weather man uses it will be sunny today. he is like how old and has x number of x fiances' Junior needs more time on the planet before he knows what that word means.
2006-12-14 21:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 13:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're probably testing the waters to see if you'd be willing to give it another go. Honestly ask yourself if you think things would be appreciably different; if the answer's no, retreat before any damage is done.
2006-12-14 21:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if he fell in love with another girl after marrying you ;)
2006-12-14 23:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by The Saint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 months is long enough to understand if he is serious or not.
2006-12-14 21:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like it
2006-12-14 21:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart...
2006-12-14 22:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be but I would be very cautious...take it slow...good luck
2006-12-14 21:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋